Someone explain the attraction of anal sex?

Married for almost 15 years and it has probably happened maybe 10 times in those 15 years and I love it. There were a few times when we we having regular vaginal sex and the thrusting got out of control and he shoved it into my unprepared bottom... omg, I saw stars and cried because it hurt so bad. He apologized like crazy but lordy... I was done for the day. When I do want it though, which is often, I get nervous about the poop factor. I never thought about an enema until I read it here (duh) but I will try that now. I will have to google the how to. I always get nervous that it will smell (even after a bath).
It is such an erogenous zone for me, It is also psychological.

 

Anal feels amazing. I prefer it over vaginal, but it is tricky.

I'm relatively new to it but i can bend over and let him nail me in the ass as hard as he can, but you absolutely can't just "shove it in". Slide it in real slow and once it's in, it doesn't hurt and he can plow away (it also doesn't hurt going in if you go slow enough). If you shove it in there as fast as you can it will be excruciatingly painful.

I used fingers only for years before I tried the real thing. I was on top and I sat on it and put it in myself and was surprised that it didn't hurt at all. I am lucky to have a patient, reassuring partner who knows what he is doing, too, but ultimately it had to be my decision to try it and not his.

 

I'm just going to touch on what I find appealing about anal sex.

1. The trust you have to have with your partner.

2. unbelievable mind-blowing orgasms.

3. stretch and feeling of fullness is like nothing else.

4. how it makes me feel dirty but sexy at the same time.

5. how close it makes me feel to my husband when we have anal sex, nothing else feels like that.

6. how aroused I get when I feel my husband cum leaking from me slowly all day.

Now like I said, these are just a few reasons why I enjoy anal sex.

 

I tried it for the first time when I was 53. I rapidly lost my erection. Over the last ten years, I've tried it maybe four more times. I've tried to like it, because I like to think of myself as a great lover. Only once did I ejaculate before I wilted. My current gf can take it or leave it, so I don't think I will ever do it again.

I've come to the conclusion that I am deeply wired to think that it is dirty, in a bad way. I hate the smell. I don't think I can overcome my conditioning.

But I still think I'm a great lover.

 

The attraction of anal sex; mmmm.... let me think for a nanosecond. Yes got it.

1. The preparation of my cock and her arse with lube is such a turn on.
2. Her arse is so tight.
3. It's still seen as a very naughty, almost taboo thing to do.
4. Anal sex is usually preceded by me rimming her and fingering her arse.
5. Cumming inside is a sensational and unique feeling.
6. With the woman you love, it's an amazing emotional high.

Are these answers okay for starters? Oops I forgot number 7. It's fucking Marvellous, with a capital M.

 

I was a top with guys most of my life and then my wife intgorduced me to prostate stimulation - now i adore being fucked by a guy with a decent size cock whbo knows what he is doing (that can be said about all lovers huh). Gay lovers are the best I find. That said it is important to be clean.

1) douche at least 3 times before
2) plenty of lube - coconut oil can be good
3) relax and and let your partner loosen you up
4) be prepared to try different angles/positions until you get full penetration
5) a sensitive partner

As a guy a thick cock is the best since you get more prostate stimulation.

Enjoy

Simon

 

Since I know I would enjoy receiving anal I would have no problem have anal with a women. I would probably use a condom the first time though. I have no problem fingering myself in the shower or while watching porn and masturbating.

 

It's definitely not something I want regularly, but once or twice a month when I am really aroused, I love my husband's c@ck in my ass. My husband is 6 inches and I think that is about all I can take anally. I don't think I ever want to try anal sex with my lover because he is much longer & thicker than my husband, and I think it would hurt too much.