Two faced people are the worst, Id prefer people who dislike me to let it be known to me instead of laughing with me and being nice and then the whole time its fake, that takes waaaay too much time and energy, its like if you dont like me then dont talk to me..its that simple and easy...
Exactly. I refuse to play those kind of games. I won't act phony to someone I'm not particularly fond of. I mean, I won't be outright rude, but I certainly won't brown nose either.
then I must ask "are you okay in the head" yep, like at work there a bunches of people who I just rather reem a pole through my eye then talk to, but I am always civil to them but not like, "hey how are you, you look so nice and blah blah blah" I will just say, good morning.. There is this group of these gossipy women in my area and they will befriend people they dont like so they can talk about them and the stuff that they find out...its truly pathetic...
for someone to really hate me would require a degree of emotional devotion that i'm not sure i'm comfortable with. i don't want someone i don't give a flying fuck about to think about me anymore than i think about them. though there are times when i take a great deal of enjoyment over the fact that i engender instant dislike in someone i think is a total fuckhead.
Yes, I know of two people who really fucking hate me. I think it's sad that they still care so much. Especially since I have not said a single word to either of them in a year and a half, yet they're still emotionally involved (enough so to regularly try to fuck with me or my boyfriend in an underhanded way, at least). And I'm sure there are plenty of people who really fucking hate to have to deal with me, but forget I exist when I'm not in the room (and the feeling is generally mutual).
I think hate will rear it's ugly head when we don't live up to other peoples expectations. Like in relationships after they fall apart the love turns to hate when the expectations are not met. Funny though-many times they will not let you know what they even where in the first place.
that you think that you are important enough that all of any catergory of humanity could hate you, is absurd......
eh, the closest I think someone is to hating me is strgchz.... and I think he's just trying to provoke me. I doubt anyone truly hates me, not really worthy of that emotion
i could give a fuck less if someone hated me.. of course some people have guilt complexes.. luv n lite.
i know there are people who hate me but oh well. i cant make them like me and im not changing. they can continue on hating me...i dont really care