social problems

ill just take some roids for some extra confidence to get over it or something

 

How's that going to help you grow? sounds like a cruch you don't need.

 

idk..i just dont wanna have this problem anymore! i hate it

 

Yeah i can understand the need for the easy way out myself, but it doesnt do you any good.

You can over come this problem on your own with out any pills, you just have to come up with a practicle plan and see it through, both steps i admit are really hard.

 

worst part is is that its sudden and ive never had this problem before so idk how to deal with it

 

roids aren't gonna bring you any friends thats for sure.
why is this such a big probl;em for you? maybe you're finally starting to realize the importance of intimate personal relationships with friends as opposed to merely a feeling of belonging amongst a group aquiantances

 

Is it a feeling of nervousness or a feeling of panic? what monologue goes through your mind during these situations?

 

I know how you feel, mostly because even though a lot of these people are my friends, I don't give a shit about them unless they're really really close friends and I don't really feel comfortable talking with them because the conversations basically consist of "Weed?" "Yes, weed." "Lets smoke some." "For sure." instead of the deep conversations I have with my best friends.

How close are you with all these people?

 

oh the problem isnt that i dont have friends..i have alot of friends

its just recently i cannot speak infront of a group of 3 or more of them (or anyone for that matter) i get too worried about when my turn to talk is...its really bizzare...

and im pretty close to them too...this whole thing is really wierd for me


heres what goes through my mind...
*someone says something* i wanna respond but im like "wait someone might wanna speak right now" and i wait and when i wanna speak someone else does and it just repeats and i cant concentrate on the conversation at hand...its not a panic more just a worry

 

Adderall will give you the confidence with less testicular shrinkage. But I don't recommend using drugs to fit into society.

 

Try and tell yourself "it doesnt really matter if i interupt" repeat that to yourself when you are in such a situation.

Also just start talking confidently when you want to say something in these groups, regardless if you do interupt some one, that way you will get good practice and learn that interrupting some one isn't so awful.

 

thanks for helping me out guys instead of the usual "LOL NEWB" or immaturity u get from most forums...ill try that out xac