So what's up with the big black schlong? Do girls really seek it? Or is it a myth?

The studies show a negligible difference in size. Yet, to watch porn, and read what some write on these forums, one would think otherwise. But yes, you hit the nail on the head with being a black guy in this day and age, with all the expectations. I have seen many posts here and elsewhere where a couple or single woman sought out a black man so the fantasy could be lived out only to be disappointed by reality. Imagine how inadequate the average black guy is left feeling. It could be analogous to a white guy with a below average sized penis. Or worse.

As far as porn, you hit the nail squarely on the head again. There is no demand for averaged sized black guys in porn. I'm betting few even try. But the big dudes, hell yeah they are going to go for it. So, all we see are the abnormally large dudes. Then people think that is the norm. I enjoy porn and the Internet. But both have screwed up our perspectives, and not for the better.

The big black schlong myth is one that will never die.The porn industry has its viewers by the proverbial balls. And the fantasies and the chemicals those images release in our little brains don't want it to die. And neither does the ego of those black guys who are the outliers.

 

I should have noted this above but, when we watch porn together (we do not watch alone any more), I let her choose what to watch. She picks DP almost exclusively, and more often than not, she will click on those involving 2 black guys. She said she likes the visual contrast. I do too.

Also, the bigger the schlong, and the smaller the white woman is, the more impressive it all looks. I have not asked my wife if she also enjoys that. I think it goes without saying. And though she would probably not admit to it, I would bet a large sum of money that she, like so many other women do, fantasize or has fantasized about riding a huge black dong. Even though she is fully aware of the studies and myth that all black guys are hung like the movies. The power that porn and fantasy has on our brains is a far more powerful thing than is often talked about.

 

I'll bet. And taking his huge cock inside you as well to add to the turn on. That must have been sensory overload for you.

The artist formerly known as Mistress Margaret

 

My wife would like to experience the big cock, but race is not a factor. She has been kissed and fondled by a black man, but sex wasn't an option at that time.

 

Yeah, it is a myth. Most women seek sex with a man because the man speaks well of her. He tends to say things that turn her on. There is the contrast in color with a fair skinned woman accepting the dark toned penis that is erotic. But in reality it's what the man says and does more than what his cock looks like. Most women do not want a cock much bigger than the average impaling them. Too much hurts and the sex isn't as good. A cock, no matter the color, that fits the pussy just right brings the most pleasure. But, better than that is the tongue technique. That's what makes a woman enjoy sex the most. Not cock insertion.

On the flip I love watching my cock slide into the dark toned pussy of a black woman. The visual sight of it elevates my libido. So does the color of her dark nipples and other parts of her body. The blacker the better. Beyond that the enthusiasm a woman has for having sex with me takes the top prize. No matter the color of her skin if she shows me that she wants me to have sex with her I'm much happier to oblige.

 

Such a honest and knowledgeable reply and one that my wife certainly agree with. This should have all the randy women knocking at your door!

 

What an honest and knowledgeable reply, and one that my wife would certainly agree with. You should have all the randy women knocking on your door!

 

My wife was much the same way. She didn't want friends involved. So it was hard finding someone. Her girlfriends helped her with that.

 

My wife worked in a doctor's office, and she was frequently propositioned by drug sales reps, other doctors, and even patients. That is where she found her sex partners.

 

My wife traveled to business conventions. And being out of town, she felt free. And she had a few good encounters. She always liked her first time with another man best. Maybe the thrill of the first time or what, Doing something naughty.

 

have many black friends and i am white with the biggest cock of the group. so, i vote myth

 

I used to have a fantasy of swapping with a black couple, where my GF would get fucked by a black guy with a huge cock, and I would be fucking the black girl. I love black girls’ asses and I always wanted to get a blowjob from a black woman.

 

Did you ever talk to your GF? I know several guys who were surprised, at what a woman would do, given the chance.

 

There is no doubt from my experience that a big cock is loved by most women. That said most of the countless women I have been want more than cock long term. My fwb has been with countless men and she was actually in a long term relationship with a man with a micro penis. Her relationship with a white professional with a massive cock went nowhere. I am average in size and the key for me was always to stay in shape, be successful eat great pussy and I have never had a problem. My fb who is bi and divorced also has had her share of massive cocks white and black and loved them all but as I said they do want more than just a huge cock but I’ve never met or fucked someone who doesn’t enjoy size too

 

This regular issue about "big cocks" and women's liking for them never ceases. I can remember when I was in my early 20"s and a golfer, two brothers in their 50's talking about their about pleasing women with their big cocks (apparently blessed by their father who also sported a 9" cock) The brothers regularly paraded around the mens showers in the nude and this led to many of the golf clubs lady partners being pleasured by these two brothers, who by the way were very polite but you would be hard pressed to call them attractive lookers! They used to have me on by saying that I should keep on wanking as this exercise was bound to increase my size (yes I had a very ordinary size) but I was not much of a "Wanker" however, I personally had no trouble in attracting girls. They boasted of having had sex with nearly 100 wives and often the women would be enticed into having sex with both brothers! In those days in the UK south coast we did not have any Black guys to deal with, but size was often the subject of discussion in the golf clubhouse whilst the brothers were very average golfers they aways had a smile for the ladies! often crowding around their table with drinks flowing whilst their spouses remained at the bar.

 

This was something from many years ago, GF is long gone. She was a little more on the playful side but it didn’t last long. My wife today would never go for this so it’s not an option.

 

I know a guy the men referred to as donkey dick, and hung like a horse, they would tell their wife about him. That would make the women curious. Then he shows up at a party with a beautiful wife. One woman says wonder what she sees in him, someone replied; what she sees in him, is what he puts in her.

 

Just wondering, do girls really share this idea of wanting to have sex with a black guy at least once in their lives?

My wife did as did most of her friends to hear it.

I overhear ladies I train talk about it. Also hear it from the other side of it as well.



Is it really so that all girls want to have had the big black dong experience?

The myth of the BBC is part of it from what I am told, but also the skin/color contrast. My wife loved watching it take place as much as it happening.

I have a few ladies who have dark skinned husbands and that conversation has come up more than a few times about the skin tones.

As for desiring the BBC experience, yes my wife enjoys playing that way quite often and from what she tells me many others do as well.



Or is this all a bit of a myth created by insecure white boys?

No idea what you are referring to here. I've never noticed this.


I for one wouldn't care if the big black dong is on all girls' agendas, since I think sexual experimentation should be encouraged. But as always, sometimes these things become fashionable merely for the sake of being fashionable. And then it starts to suck.

I always say let the women do what they want as long as they include us, never exclude us, and stay turned on for us as often as possible and we have sex as a result of it all - OFTEN!!!



Moreover, there's always this communication problem: do boys really know what girls really want?

I do, because I ask. Try asking, talking it out, it's actually fun. I love talking to my wife about sex, hearing her thoughts, current interests (which change often). I love exploring with her whatever it is. Heck, that's why I married her in the first place, second place, and all the other places...


Or are they creating all kinds of fantasies, just like girls are creating theirs, to tease each other with? It's all so complex and messy...

For certain it can be fantasy and if it is Role play it, go with the flow, it is also fun. We have several smaller black cocks and several large ones, depending on her desires on how we use them, but no matter what it takes time and effort to work up to the larger ones and I admit they do look amazing in her. Totally worth the effort it takes.