So I've slept with over 100 people...

As far as answering my own questions:

• I go for looks, "swag" (persona), and dick.
• With looks I like Daddy types, either much older like 10-20 years older (I'm 29) with a pot belly and a macho bossy protective swag, or slightly older with a lean muscular build and a macho but funloving swag. Black, white, Latin flavors. Different accents. Different cultures. Redneck Tom Sawyers, Rasta men, Brazilians, etc.
• I don't care about money, but I like when they pick me up, have cool music on in the car, let me smoke my cigs, take me to a strip club or Spanish bar, get me a couple beers and host in a tidy, reasonably spacious apartment. For fairness sake I have bought one of them a six pack of beer, I have hosted in my apartment several times, I have met them in a central meeting point, I have gone to their apartments myself, I have shared cigs, etc. I intend to do more in the future when I'm more successful.
• Dick has to be good, about 7-8 inches, good swordsman
• My sex activity is still too vanilla for my liking, mostly mish (missionary), doggy, some hair pulling, slapping on the ass and in the face, choking, nothing major. I have done some fun sexual positions like sitting Indian style facing each other, riding them, doing the work in the doggy position (bouncing my ass against their dicks), 69, but nothing really out there. Maybe you have some fun ideas to try.
• I love giving head and I want to be porn star good at it one day, deep throat and everything. Can you deep throat?

• Have you ever been with girls? I've only been with 3 or 4 girls, but that's at least beyond vanilla. I have fooled around with a bunch too (titty sucking, rubbing tits together, comparing clits sizes). I have been fucked with a strap on.
• I have two vibrators but I don't use them as I think sex toys are lame. They do nothing for me. Nothing like touching the lean muscular chest, having the Daddy demand I get naked now, and their sex skills are unmatched.

 

What larger issue do you think it represents?

 

Your uncle is a wise man, they'll bitch no matter what you do. But by the same token, those supposed double standards dont really exist, its just what people will bitch about.

Guys are called studs if they sleep with a lot of women?, by who exactly? What really happens is other guys will get just as catty as the girls do, territorial and jealous, wont let those guys near their wives / girlfriends. Girls for the most part will call them pigs. The rare guys that actually are studs are hidden, they dont go running around bragging

Girls that sleep around, for the most part that is hidden, no one really sees it anyway. OP has posted this anonymously on a forum, but in real life most around her wouldnt have a clue. And if found out, most of the negative stuff will come from other girls

What you mentioned from high school, getting called a ho for doing certain things, where did most of that negative stuff come from - other girls.

Besides all that though, whether male or female, its not like you actually end up worse off being a slut, cos everyone will just bitch anyway, and they'll bitch about sometimes totally opposite things.

The OP will get a lot of people making out shes emotionally damaged cos of this, three guesses what they all have in common. Some guys will be a bit cooler and say its all cool as long as you arent hurting anyone........and as long as she isnt their girlfriend

And some of us will still be, yawn. Sure 120 guys, but if its the case with each they all did the chasing, which would mean they are all reasonably safe, "vanilla" guys, that all look like accountants. Nothing wrong with romance, but candle lit dinners, long walks on the beach, talking for hours about your hopes and feelings.....YAWN. Especially compared to the ones that are filthy hot or really know what they are doing in the bedroom, all....night.....long, with them none of you have any power, and you all have to chase them.

And you'll end up getting more respect for trying a rollercoaster you think you might not be able to handle than endless safe turns on the merry-go-round.....round and round, day after day after soul crushing day

 

Your questions are surprising, considering your previous posts. You make it sound as if every woman's goal is monogamy, at every point in her life. I think it's obvious that a lot of younger women are not looking for a serious relationship, just fun. I've been through different phases when I was looking for different things from men.

When I was too young to think about getting serious, I would have casual sex with just about any young guy who wasn't creepy, scary, or ugly as shit. If he seemed to have a safe and healthy amount of respect for women and was looking to have a good time, I was up for it. After a few years of that, I was ready to move on. I think a lot of girls have done the same thing.

...or 25 a year, for each year of college. I knew a lot of girls who did more than that, and just a few more in the years before and after college would put us all well over 100.

Same could probably be said for anybody who posts online.

Yeah, that's why I haven't kept up with sexual statistics. I quit counting guys during my second year of going to college social events where everybody was meeting people and hooking up. Either you were one of the girls who did this, or you weren't. Nobody cared about the totals.

Some people think this way. Some don't. To be on the safe side, I only talk about it in real life with friends who have known me for a long time.

Short answer: yes. It happens all the time.

 

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Originally Posted by thedangeroustype
My question is can a healthy, sane woman enjoy sex with multiple people and not be some damaged psychopath who needs group therapy??


As one who bas been with over 100 Wild Women over the years and maintained contact with the majority for over 40 years the answer to your question is yes a sane WW can.

 

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my question is: can someone who has maintained contact with over 100 women maintain his own sanity?

 

That guy pschologically sucker punched you! Fuck him. Dont give it any more time in your head. You sound like a responsible smart young women. Maybe a little recklessly to honest. Sex life is like ones payscale. No ones business.

 

I fixed it for you. And the answer is no.

 

this would hardly disprove that she's a sex addict

 

I wouldn`t be so sure the OP even had 100+ partners anymore. She glossed right over any questions and kept it all veeeery general. She has shared absolutely nothing that was experience. Then she gives a speech about not knowing how many partners her partners had.

Really? None of this checks out with my experience. The waiting around for guys to approach you, the not noticing when they are sexually inexperienced, the holding off on sex, etc. Something is just not adding up here.

Take it from me, this isn`t typical 100+ behavior even for a woman. I wouldn`t be surprised if the whole thread was just a pretext to get atop the feminist pulpit.

Maybe this is something the OP only fantasizes about.

 

I totally agree! It's especially easy for women to find a sexual partner since we get sollicitated pretty much all the time. As long as a girl isn't too bad looking and loves sex, the total of partners will rise up quickly and go over 100 in no time.

 

Everyone has their sexual deviances and I'm certainly no exception to that, some are milder than others. The things I'm into sexually are more situational than having to do with the act of sex I guess. I've slept with a lot of random men at very random times when no sex should have been happening and those were my best memories. I like very aggressive and very intense sex so the psychos were always my favorite mistakes because they fucked like they were going to death row. Accountants were never my style, I have always been attracted to blue collar type guys. I always say I like dudes who can fix shit. Always geared towards the alpha males but a lot of guys I slept with didn't fall into that category.

Most of the men I've slept with did approach me, and when I was younger I always wondered how they knew. There's women everywhere and men who were looking for sex could always pick me out of a crowd no matter where I was, what I was doing, who I was with, or what I was wearing. They could like instinctively tell that I was willing, like they could sniff me out or something. Just because these men approached me doesn't mean it was all champagne and flowers because it wasn't. Most of them weren't approaching me to wine and dine and candlelight me, they were just interested in sex. Whenever I feel something more than a chemical connection that's generally when the conversation went further than "Hey do you wanna come over?". It's sometimes after I've slept with a person that I think, "oh well he's kinda cool" and then sometimes I meet a guy and he's great and I don't sleep with him at all because I can tell he cant handle it.

Sometimes I'm super horned up and I just wanna bang every dude that drives up next to me on the interstate. Other times I'm focused on work, or something with my family and I just don't even think of sex at all. There are no absolutes and I don't think I wouldn't have had as many men if it were just easy all the time. I do enjoy the chase and I do like to resist a little.

 

Girl I say keep on truckin don't let some man tell u what u should do with your body. Don't let men control your sexuality. U are a free sexual being handling life the best u can on your terms. U r the captain of your ship and u decide where it goes who it goes with and how many times it goes there. To hell with what anyone else thinks what do u think girl what do u think !

 

That's the best time for sex.

Always fuck like it's your last one....

How do you tell when a man can't handle it?

If you substitute "dude" for "chick", you get how most men feel most of the time.

You go for it, girl. There are no rights or wrongs. Do your thing.

 

So far, you`ve shared none. Everything you said is run of the mill, Cinderella story. It`s what every girl says they want, alpha male, me me, me...when in fact they want a doormat.

You want to play games, guys to chase you, and father figures. What can you do for men?

Can you suck a mean dick? Do you take it up the ass? Have you done DP? Do you like dudes to bust in your mouth? Do you spit or swallow? Have you ever done a bukkake? If I slapped you across the face or titties in the middle of some rough sex, will you call the cops or ask for more? Are you bisexual? What about group sex?

Most 100+ people have at least been in a threesome, c`mon now.

 

Some guys just aren't built for casual sex. It's just a feeling more than anything else but I'm hardly ever wrong about it. Some guys get nervous or anxious about it which I hate and I can always predict that too. I enjoy my ability to size men up.

So true. I always find it funny when men are like "women don't understand, we think about sex ALL the time". Lol no I really do understand.

 

Bro, do you really think she's going to engage you? I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you.

Perhaps this is how she maintains the revolving door of men she continually hooks up with :smilielol5:

 

It's more a matter of not letting people get away with shit just because they have a hole between their legs. It's not what she does, it's what I do that matters to me.

If people say things like I want someone to fix shit like it's something very new and deviant, I think it's suitable to point out that it's the very double standards she claims to go against.

There isn't the slightest chance she would put me in her revolving door of chumps. Hence why she hooks up with the vanillas and can't really tell the difference between them.

 

It would be interesting to get an honest statistical analysis of the average number of partners women under 30 have had. I'm guessing the average would be 6 or 7 or thereabouts. I'm guessing most women are serially monogamous, lost their virginity at 17 or 18 and maybe had a small number of promiscuous episodes in their late teens/ early twenties. The idea that there are lots of women who have had scores of partners seems ridiculous and I'm guessing the OP is in the top 1%. A woman who has had more sex partners than the number of years she has been sexually active makes a mockery of the idea of marriage. How any man could make a woman as his bride who has had so many cocks in her mouth and pussy violates any sense of decency. I have talked to lots of women who ran wild in college and almost every one of them regretted it afterwards. Obviously some people are hard-wired to being promiscuous but they are the exception rather than the rule. My wife knew a woman who had slept with 150+ partners but then tried to change and get married. Well that lasted a few years and now she is divorced and back doing her thing. I feel so sorry for those who can't find happiness and sexual fulfillment with just one person.