So I've slept with over 100 people...

and I never said you did, either.

 

Wow! You can see all the baggage people bring to the table when talking about sex.

So she slept with over 100 men...

get over it

 

I just don't understand how a woman could be so trusting by having less than casual sex.
I am a very cautious person, I would worry about contracting a disease or maybe that the guy would be crazy and try to kill me....my mind just goes on and on with worries.
Even condoms fail....so that's not good enough to ease my mind.

Then there's the part of me that knows I'm worth something and that someone has to be deserving and I prefer to be in love for sex, as well. (or I'd have to have a good relationship established to have a sex partner)
--- note I am dirty minded and extremely sexual and I think bad things about men....the pictures of men on here and their dicks make me climb the walls....but I'd still be hesitant of just sleeping with someone!

 

Perhaps there's a link between testosterone level and risk taking behavior... maybe our actions are more biologically driven than we humans would like to admit.

 

Nah, that's truth. I will keep saying truth no matter if any of you like it.

 

What does calling someone a whore accomplish?

 

I think it's fine to think what you want, and to say what you want to people who want to hear it

but using sexual slurs against someone on a forum that's supposed to be about free love is just harassment


I've already reported the original post, and I'm surprised that the mods haven't taken it down. maybe if other people also report it, it'll come down

what do you do for an encore, call people fags on the gay forum?

 

there's no place for self righteousness and judging here

 

love this. Says what I was trying to say but more cogently.

 

Actually, there is. But, you`re not saying it, are you? It`s not a preconceived notion, it was a question. I`m trying to work out what meeting someone for you is like...I know you`re gonna say it depends, blah blah blah.

But, the pattern you gave us in your OP is that you wait for men to come to you, and that you hold off on sex when you like one of them. Those are the elements you`ve given us. The rest of it has been tip toeing around the issue.

So! You don't have men buy you things. Awesome. Where do you meet these guys? Under what circumstances? Do you go dutch on dates?

It has nothing to do with validity. My original question has to do with why it is that I never come across women like you. That`s a pattern for me. It`s not a freak accident. I do not arouse the interest of women who have a lot of sex, only girls who are looking for boyfriends. Why? And even women who do have a lot of sex, see me as a boyfriend. Not as a fuck buddy. Or, they end it on some trumped up charges.

It`s not a preconceived notion. It`s experience. Preconceived would imply prior to experience.

I would appreciate it if you answer to me directly. Otherwise I will assume you`re just being passive aggressive.

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Edit: I was also going to ask if you don't notice when a partner is less experienced than you?? Because to me anyone who's had less than 30 makes it glaringly obvious. Just by their behavior. That's why I don't need the pie charts.

 

*sigh* I wish this thread would just die already...

 

I find you refreshing. I wish you lived by me so we could become friends. My bff is a slut but not as big of a slut as me. I know slut sounds horrible to some people, someone is trying to get me to stop using it. I came across a book called the Ethical Slut and it made it like a good thing and I've always liked the way it sounded, wet, sexual, slinky, gentle, but I think I like Wild Woman better.

Personally sex is my biggest passion.

Ive been with about 57 guys I've lost count. I used to be insecure so I did weird things like avoiding everyday people or like charging them thinking if a woman wants to have casual sex she has to be getting paid for it. That's chickenshit. Now I don't care what society thinks because who would even know besides my friends and the people I'm with? I dont feel the need to dress provocatively. I look more or less "normal". So I've stopped being paranoid.

You're 30 now youre not 12. No one can lecture you or harass you and if they did that's because you divulged information to a perfect stranger. Why?? Some people gravitate towards that type of annoyance.

 

Seems like an attention thread, after all.

 

Hmm, this is an issue Im interested in helping you with, especially since you contributed to my Double Standard thread.

Maybe you look and appear sweet and kind and perhaps smart, so you get boyfriendzoned. But you mention you have had sex with 100+ women. So you must be doing something right.

 

I too have questions for a woman who has slept with over 100 men.

What do you look for in guy to have sex with them? Is it just the dick? Or the face? The body? The persona? The personality? The wealth? Do you sleep with only guys who are older than you or do you prefer young or it doesn't matter?

If it's just dick, what's the difference between one good dick and another? If you found the perfect dick, would you stick with it? Does that indicate that you just haven't found the perfect lay yet and have just been testing the waters? Or do they vary? If you got in a relationship with the perfect dick, would the relationship just be about sex?

 

"what's the differance between one good dick and another"?

A question for the ages. I like it. Carry on.

 

As long as you are true to yourself, live your life and if that means having numerous sexual partners ovre a life so be it.

 

That's exactly what it is. Some girl makes a post saying that she's slept with over 100 guys and everyone is just "fascinated" and "intrigued" . This whole thread has been one big attention and ass kissing fest. That's why I posted what I said.

TheSamantha looks like he/she is looking for this chick to be his/her mentor. Like she's some champion role model for sleeping with over 100 men. 100 people isn't even that much. Thats averaging less than 10 partners per year for someone in their 30's. Everyone needs to get over this chick and let this thread die already!

 

your vagina must be massive.

 

There are probably many other women in the same situation as the original poster though they would never admit it.