For an instant in time pretend she’s the only girl on earth. Don’t talk about yourself unless she asks you a question [we’ll get back to this] direct all your questions towards her, flatter her, ask her If she likes her job, If she’s a part-time employee, maybe she’s going to school? If yes, what’s her major? her future aspirations? and then when she reciprocates, pounce on the opportunity to impress her; I’m the starting tailback for anywhere high school”, “I’m an engineering major at Cal Tech”, or “I play the guitar for a heavy metal band” hey we’re rehearsing tonight, If you don’t have anything to do maybe you could stop-by after work or I could pick you up. I could give you my cell phone number and if you’re interested give me a call, and bring a friend if you’d like. Blah, blah, blah….. Hotwater
I'm a big flirt, I can't help it. It's not like I'm interested in anyone else because I'm totally in love with my husband, but I just like knowing I've "still got it". I never flirt sexually, that's not my style. The only one who gets that kind of flirting is my husband. I like the attention, it makes me feel good, and I can usually determine who is someone I can innocently flirt with and who is someone I need to stay away from. Basically, that they get the wrong idea. Flirt back, don't overdo it, that's always a turn-off. Be subtle, stroke her ego.