No good deed goes unpunished, you tried to do what you felt would be best for him but his insecurity got in the way. Men are very concerned about penis size and if on the small size I think it gets worse. I am average in size but it took me some time to feel secure. Men get very defensive when it comes to their penises.
Yikes! Yeah this isn't a site I'll visit when I'm at work. I like circumstances themselves to teach others, I have no personal involvement in making someone learn something in relationships. I'll spell something out for someone if they ask why I reacted to them in a certain way but it won't be to deliberately try and teach someone a lesson. I'd be for the reason of my taking care of my best interests emotionally, spiritually, and physically.
yeah, i tend to work when i'm at work. i don't understand why so many employers gladly pay people to sit around and surf the internet, or do whatever other fuck-off things people do instead of their job.
that's probably how a lot do it. still seems like the boss would notice that nothing's getting done though.
You know what? You're absolutely right. One does not need to be in a serious relationship or in the adult industry to be able to have unprotected sex. There just needs to be a high level of trust. Once you're totally sure that your partner is STD-free, that you yourself are STD-free and your partner understands it, and that there's minimal risk of unwanted pregnancy, then you are definitely good to go. I stand corrected. With that in mind, I still don't see how the OP and her partner were quite ready for that step yet. The information that the OP has provided on here so far has only suggested the lack of trust between them as far as their sex life goes. She doesn't trust his performance will be up to par based on his penis size, and he in turn has become unable to trust her based on what she's said and done. This is merely my own interpretation upon reading your post, rollacoasta, so I'm open to correction. The way I personally see it, however, this matter is about trust, not really about the size issue, nor is it really about respect. It's about trust...or in this particular case, the lack thereof.