Single People

Don't get into 'em. Get into yourself. For some reason, confidence works much better than dependency...

Nobody wants a weeping weenie... (not saying YOU are that way at all)...

 

weeping weenie .. lol cant be that ...to truly internalize that ..is to truly exude that ..a few years back I had to learn to love myself to understand what that means .. and to also understand who I was ..and only then alot * starts* to change there ...a person cannot pretend ..it always seeps out in actions ....but yeh once that is internalized .. your pretty dammed hard to get to ...and so yeah I would say anyone worth pursuing you would recognize this and they would know that they have a good thing one they got to it ..if they did get to it .....he he hehe ..jking

 

I'm single and enjoying it and no I'm not even looking. I'm so sick of my mother and grandma constantly badgering me about if I have a bf yet....it's not like I have never had a bf and it hasn't even been that long since I've been w/o one....that just really gets on my nerves. I figure I'm young, I plan to study abroad next year, and I don't want to be attached so why even bother looking? So yup I'm single and not really even mingling...

 

I am kind of dating a guy, we are having fun together and I am just seeing where things are going. No big deal.

 

I had to vote "OTHER".


I am single by default I guess, I'm widowed.

I was married to the same person for a long time and invested all of myself in the relationship. We went everwhere together and did things as acouple and as individuals to have a balanced healthy relationship. Few arguments and never any violence in our lives.

She died of lung cancer 2 1/2 years ago and I have been on my own ever since.

I would love to have a relationship with a nice woman, if nothing else but to have someone to talk to and be company from time to time. I really miss the closeness of being WITH someone, having someone to come home to who is glad to see me.

I have tried to meet a few nice women but there are very few who don't hang in bars etc. and that's just not my style. I've tried internet dating, but that's not cool either. It seems that everybody I talk to is divorced and has a lot of hang-ups about men and relationships or other serious baggage.

I hate being alone, I feel cheated by fate, but that's just the reality of life.

Those of you that have a decent relationship with someone, cherrish the time you have together, life is shorter than you think.

I guess I'll be alone forever...

 

crush on someone right now, coming off a "just wanna be friends" thing in may

 

In the midst of a separation, will be filing for divorce soon. Just waiting for him to move out. I'm very unhappy right now, not because of the breakup, but because he's still living in the house and DRIVING ME CRAZY! Once he moves out and I get used to being on my own, I'll be much happier.

 

Tried marriage; screwed it up. Tried long term committed relationship; screwed it up. Tried short term, variety of relationships, stating at the beginning I'm not interested in long term, or marriage; wonderful. Presently seeing (intimate) two women, on a cycle of Tues, Thurs. and every other weekend with no knowledge shared; wonderful. Guess I've found my lifestyle, and preserved my privacy.

 

i'm in a relationship (7 months) so i guess "other"?? confusing poll

 

am not single also am not in a relation
am stuck in between

 

I'm single and I have my eyes open, but I'm not looking very hard. I'm 26, working, have an associates degree, and I'm considering returning to college next year.

 

single, don't really care about dating right now though.

 

Single, breaking hearts left, right, and center.

 

I will be single until I fall in love with somone who is not abusive, obsessive or psychotic.
I had an epiphany tonight I go after men I am not good with...that's why my relationships never work out. I need somone chill, who doesn't get jealous and is like ahhh you have pms that's cool smoke a bowl and fuck. I need just like a cool guy who I can watch football with, go drink with, doesn't mind that I make-out with my girlfriends. Man it's not me it's who I pick...that's a realization...damn I'm drunkers too

 

what happened to the list?
I don't think anyone forgets that

 

in a relationship, one year now

 

I chose many crushes. I'm actually seeking a gf, i never had one, and i'm horny and lonely as hell. I have lots of friends (guys) but i feel lonely, i just don't have the same fun i used to do.
I think i'm happy, i guess. I have all i need, roof, food, good friends, good parents, you know, technically i should be happy happy happy.
Can't wait to fall in love, and have passionate wild SEX, all day long. I have my house all by myself on the weekends, and i don't have a gf, what a waste.

Is it too fucked up if i'm 19, and only had sex once? And had to pay for it
Not a good experience.

 

I just got out of a 3 1/2 year realation 6 months ago. I'm in a new realationhip that we will be together 4 months on Christmas. I'm very happy with my realationship... but because I have 2 kids with my ex I'm steal having to deal with my ex =( Eventually things will get less complicated... me and my guy are getting married sometime soon and I'm really excited... it ways out the bad shit and gives me something to look forward to.

 

I'm concerned about compatibility.

 

I don't know whether I just got out of a relationship or not...I think so, so that would mean I'm single and ready to find "Her"...I'm tired, so very, very tired of quasi- pseudo-relationships and 'fuck buddies'. Why are people so afraid of commitment these days? Yes, I said the freakin' 'c-word'! I know that I am a decent guy, but I am indeeed having a difficult time finding someone to spend time with. I've settled for less in the past, just so I wouldn't be alone; but now, I have to set my sights on the future and look for someone with long-term potential. Who knew it would be this hard?