Single People

Dude, if you want to meet someone, you should at least clarify if you are a guy or a girl... your name is very masculine, but your signature and the esoteric "sub rosa" seem somewhat effeminate.

 

you've got someone to love...your baby.
Thats more than a lot of us. Be grateful for what you have and live from day to day and someone will come along (when you least expect it I bet too). But just don't be to desperate, not saying you are, just advice I suppose.

 

sorry... my boozey brain started blaring "contradiction! contradiction!" but then, I grew up with dorks and we pretended to have magic powers and I think I'm just a bitch when I'm boozey too

 

my mistake, sorry buddy

 

dont be fooled. its a trap

 

i am currently in a very bad spot. i love this guy, and am even giving birth to his child, but he doesn't respect me...at all...he's also mentally ill, which is and isn't an excuse and makes things very complicated. well, i guess that puts me into category #1. ......sigh, for now.


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I'm an idiot when it comes to relationships, the last time i was basicaly single for 5 years and pretended i was looking the whole time, untill i was overwhelmed with the lonyness of it and fell headlong into an obvious fools rush,

 

i have many a harmless crushes


im single and loving it!

 

I'm single but that's not by choice. My husband and daughter were killed by a drunk driver 4 years ago. Recently I've thought about dating but then I feel guilty for thinking about it.... but I'm ok where I am now.

 

oh my gosh! i'm so sorry for your loss...give yourself plenty of time to feel comfortable about dating...because if you dont feel right its not worth it...you must be completely ready...which i'm sure you will be

*hugs, kisses and all things nice*

xxx

 

you guys are lucky to be single. I'd give anything to just not care.

 

I'm not too thrilled about my single status, but I'm really not in the mood to pursue anything because I'm hopeful I'll back in Japan in a few months (long story behind that), so I'm not pursuing anyone for the time being.

 

I just got dumped, so I chose the getting over/ending a relationship option. I wouldn't wish it on my own worst enemy...

 

if it aint mutual, it aint real so you realy shouldnt sweat it, your young and atractive so what are you worried about? there are 10's of thousands of guys out there who can apreiciate a chick like you..
whenever you think about the dumass just repeat this phrase.. pfffft.

 

I've been single for two years. It sucks, but I'm going to take the advice everyone gives me. Quit trying to form a serious relationship with a girl and just treat her like a friend for a while and you might get something useful out of it. If that makes any sense.

 

Thanks for those nice words, Steffan. I needed that.

 

Been *fully* single for a month. Although I've always been single, really. Was in an on-off-on-off relationship with a guy for six years... its taken me abou three years to fully disengage myself mentally and emotionally from him. Now I feel free. But i dont feel happy. I really want to find the ONE, but I feel like I can't be bothered with another relationship unless I feel actual *love*. Its just too gruelling. I dont want to go thru what Ive just been thru again, I just don't have the energy any more. I can't imagine a man ever wanting to stick around permanently with me (and ONLY me ), yet I dont feel like going out enjoying myself, and being a single gal an' all that, since I've always done that anyway. I just feel emotionally drained.

 

Right now I have a boyfriend who I am crazy about.

 

I'm extremely jealous. I had a boyfriend who I am STILL crazy about, but now he's gone...

 

I am out of a relationship. And currently single.

My Babyfather broke my heart. Totally.
He shredded it up completely, then stamped all on it, kicked it about a bit too. Then gave it to a dog to chew on. Oh and then gave it back to me and buggered off never to be seen again.
And all this whilst I was pregnant with our Son.

He has never seen our Son, HIS Son.

Our Son gets baptised next month and will be 1yr old come summer (July)

So, no. Not really very impressed with where I am.
BUT,.....better than my babyfather though. One day, I am sure in my heart he WILL regret the choice he made to walk out on his unborn Son. And all the presious things our Son is/does/gives I get everyday! All this is what he is missing out on. He is a FOOL to choose to be deprived of this!! I would not miss a second of it for the world!!
Also if he ever does come back wanting to be part of our Son's life, wishing he'd been there and never went away, I don't know, I can not possible guess will our Son ever let him in to his life? Could he ever forgive him? I don't know. Maybe he won't.
So yeah, I'm sad for my babyfather really. But this IS the CHOICE HE MADE.

Most of all I am heartbroken for our Son. Why should he be denied a father? He, of course, shouldn't be but there is NOTHING I can do. He DOES have and will always have all the love and 'things a little boy could ever possibly dream for. But I do worry will it be enough? I truely hope so. Because I don't know what else can I do to make up for the absence of his father?