I knew one girl that didn't make a sound when she came-she just shook all over. I thought it was kinda sexy. I really do prefer the noisy types, though. Everybody's different. I used to be pretty quiet when I came, when I was a teenager-now I scream bloody murder. Nobody has to ask me 'did you come?'-the friggin' neighbors will know I did!
Hahahah, Veg, I'm the same way! I get really loud right at the edge of climax, although throughout the meeting, I am fairly quiet. But as I'm coming, the sound of my girl squealing and panting in my ear just makes it that much more enjoyable for me, personally.
Suncatch22 ...be yourself. You gradually will learn to do whatever you feel better with. The guy with you will feel your orgasm anyways. Maybe you squeeze and move differently ...I had a girlfriend who I loved very much ..she was silent except for her feet. She would wiggle the toes in a particular manner that I thouhgt she had her orgasms ... and she was multi-orgasmic! So dont worry ...you have more class!!
i prefer more noise, the more the better but so long as i was told that you were silent in bed i'd be okay with it. i mean, its not that unreasonable thing to mention right? its jsut one of those nice to know thigns so the guy doenst keep trying harder and harder till he give sup
Reminds me of a line 'what's ________ got to do with it'? Well I could have a worse tune stuck in my Mind right off the bat today... http://www.lyricsfreak.com/t/tina+turner/whats+love+got+to+do+with+it_20137655.html
interesting...my partner used to be super quiet...not a squeak out of him. Maybe you're shy? Is it that you CANT make noise or it just doesn't feel right?
Well, I AM shy, but I don't make any noise even when I'm alone. So I don't think that's the problem. I DO tend to tell guys that I am silent, right off the bat. And I DO have other things I do ... not that I'm going to list them here. PS: Thanks, Tonynaturalist ... :H
I am silent also. I like it when a woman makes some noise, and my wife is always asking me if i am enjoying myself. I tell her yes, I have an erection, don't I? She says she wants to hear me moan, so i try sometimes, but it just doesn't sound right to me. I'm weird I guess.
no, you aren't weird! you just don't feel comfortable making noises for some reason. you don't want to fake it, if you don't feel it.
im quiet and i told my bf that...but he keeps trying harder anyways.... he thinks hes not big enough but thats not it...i make soft noises and breeth hard...but not i feel like there is somethign wrong with me... i dont moan. and i dont come from sex....its still fun but i feel almost broken >_<
Not moaning is natural and it is a thing people have and dont fake it just make the man feel bad and some can really tell which fucks people up. |*p Well Loveminx I can sure as hell solve your problum tell him to calm down my gf used it on me and it works as fucking the shit. ="P
mm, maybe you should try making noises, see how it feels. Or maybe you just need the right trigger? Could be anything!