Sick people and dating

I bet if you changed your diet and went for a jog every morning the amount of energy you had would increase. not to be an asshole or anything, but a lot of food these days is filled with shit (like high fructose corn syrup, palm oil, etc) that does a number on your body.

 

It's not a diet thing. I also have chronic fatigue, dizzy spells, agoraphobia, social anxiety, generalized anxiety and depression- so I know.

It's not changeable. You either have feelings for someone the way they are, or might as well forget about it.

Actually, I take that back. There are people who do well having someone breathing down their neck every second - "motivating" or "challenging" them. Or trying to make them more social, "normal", "happier", etc.

To me, that would cause me to murder a bitch. Pure and simple. Everybody doesn't have to like the same thing.

I myself usually prefer melancholy girls to bubbly ones. I find them to be sexier. BUT, as Cate says, life is surprising. Not written in stone...

 

I didn't ask for suggestions how to improve my health, I wanted to know whether its possible for sick people do date normal, functioning people. I wish it was as easy as you say, but this is how it really is:

I have been forced onto a limited, medical diet free from almost all chemicals likely to cause reactions, as well as any artificial chemicals. It has made a huge difference but I still feel like shit. Oh yeah, I spend 5 hours 6-7 days a week stocking shelves and usually force myself to go for a semi-strenuous walk sometime in the afternoon, or do something social...these things all help, until the fatigue becomes overwhelming for no apparent reason, during which I have no choice but to struggle through work and lie in bed all day with not even enough energy to read, so I listen to music or watch movies, until they get really boring and then I'm forced to lie there bored and filled with terror, so I then force myself to go for a walk and find a quiet place to meditate but I usually end up falling asleep on the grass or pavement and wake up feeling hungover. Thats just addressing the food and exercise part of it.

I'm not whining, just making myself understood. Its a complicated and rare problem and the fact that it is so odd just adds another hurdle in the way of being understood by that pretty girl that I might be trying to woo at some point.

P.S. Its not depression related at all, for me anyway.

 

my bad man, I had no idea

and I wasn't trying to sound like a smartass, really.

 

Its all good, I probably came of as an even bigger smartass.

You're cool :cheers2:

 

yeah, I really have no idea about chronic fatigue.. I just know a lot of people who I know personally have 'no energy'.. and I'm just like, well change your lifestyle asshole.

anyway, to your original question.. some people like lounging around. I'm sure you could find yourself a sweet girl who's into movie watching, card playing, etc.. and would accept you, your illness, and all.

heck most of the guys I've ever been with are pretty fucking lazy, not due to illness, just to excessive pot smoking.

 

Its weird. The girls that are attracted to me, and the girls I tend to go for are really proactive people that like to get out and experience things - I don't really know why, but I just click with these types. I have no idea why, probably because that is what I would be if I had the energy. Sadly, I think they get frustrated by the fact that they can't share a lot of the things they do with me, or share me with their friends. If someone was happy to be this pro-active person but still enjoy a few quiet times with me on the side, I would quite like this.

 

I'm curious, exactly how limited is your physical activity level?

I know adderall IS dangerous, and pretty much speed, but would something like that help you out? even if it was just occasionally when you felt like going out to do stuff?

can you still do drugs?

 

I was hit by a van when I was 10 and since then I cant really be around people but 7 years agao I met a girl who wouldn't let me run away and so we were together up until a few weeks agao and now Im right back where I was when I use to get on here which is a horrible thought for any of you who remember me.

 

Retarded chicks don't know how to say no.

Giddy up.

 

I can still do drugs. My doctor knows me well and wouldn't prescribe it, I don't think, but I can probably get it online.

I have taken meth before and it was awesome. If I could do the same in a legal and safe way, it would be great.

My physical activity level is not that limited, I can do quite a lot, but the main problem is mental exhaustion...I sometimes go hours or days not having the energy to even make conversation, or read or think logically. People find that hard to deal with. Girlfriends are demanding and want guys to be strong, unfortunately sometimes I am just not even "there".

 

That must be really hard. How come you can't be around people?

Is that girl coming back?

 

I dont know its like when retards shit in their pants. she still lives with me cause we have so mnay bill, leases and accounts together but we probably wont get back together.

 

i think adderal sucks. really, i am not that active or productive on it. my thoughts are just jittery.

 

ha, I can relate. I actually sort of have energy problems myself. like I slept the 23rd and 24th day in and day out and woke up today completely fine with missing out on the past two days... ha

I'd say get some adderall for times when you need it and feel like energy would be necessary. and other than that, wait around til you find a girl who will accept you as you are. I mean honestly, people in wheelchairs get married.. people who are 3 feet tall find lovers... I'm sure you'll be fine.

best of luck.

 

My thoughts are jittery as hell anyway.

 

Yin and yang, d00d. I always end up with total type A people, really uptight kids that love responsibility and hate fun.

 

Adderall FTWWW.

That'll crack you out so good you won't even know what being lazy is, I'm telling you.

 

Ugh I always have such bums attracted to me. Goal-less and unefficient. tradesies.

 

add in some adderal and you've got yourself an aneurysm. woot!