showing up unannounced

good theory, but i'm not convinced even that would stop her.

 

My neighbor is use to walking in the back door with out knocking. But a few weeks about she decided to use the front door for some reason and walk in the door catching me and the wife going at it on the living room floor. She's back to using the back door and shouting "Hello, put your clothes on please"

 

Why don't you lock all the doors then?
I always do.

 

it's not everyday we roll around on the floor, and usually the front door is locked

 

I take that she is the type who would give advice if she walked in?

"Undies, don't just ram her like that, be more gentle. And don't forget your father's birthday is next week."

 

Came Back A Few Minutes Ago With Quite An Attitude, And Papers He

Wanted Me To Sign.

I Told Him I Am A Very Private Person And He Had Shown No Respect

For Me What So Ever....

Then He Got Stroppy, Wouldn't Give Me Any Details Of Who The

Interested Buyer Was, So I Said The Farm Is Not For Sale, And I Asked

Him To Leave Immediatly, He Was NOT A Happy Little Camper.

I Hate Speaking To People In A Harsh Manner But He Gave Me No Choice....



Cheers Glen.

 

nevermind the social rules...i think we should talk about your ''habit''

i am no mathematician but i am guessing that the odds are astronomical that the same person can interrupt a masturbation session with a pop-in 3 times running

and if you didnt answer the door right away does that mean you let your momma pound on the door while you finished?


so by default...she is now an unwanted member of your wank bank?


pop-ins are fun...i have no worries about telling people i am busy if i am really busy

i dont mind the pop-in

 

Before I moved to the south I lived in Jersey and the friends I grew up with would come to the apartment my girl and I had without caling ahead everday. They came in shifts almost, a few people would come hang out for a few hours and then leave, a few minutes later a few more would show up. I miss it. I've made some good friends down her but it aint the same.

My parents are a different story, I would not like it if they just popped in.

 

the thing is, she was coming here on her way home from work those days, and that time is when it is most convenient for me to do my daily fappage. sure, i could completely change my routine and fap at an inconvenient time, but there are a few different times that she gets off work, even further reducing the potential times i can take care of business, plus it's just annoying having to schedule every day around a potential event that could happen any day but doesn't happen most days, when a simple phone call could completely eliminate the issue.

well, it takes a minute to get the porn closed out, throw clothes back on, wash up, etc.

yes. i should make a thread about it in the love and sex section...

 

My mother showed up to my house randomly once in all the time I've lived away from home.

I was too shocked to be mad. I made us tea and we chatted for an hour until she got sick of me and went home.

I don't know what I'd do if my mother meddled in my life...its bad enough my in-laws try their hardest, but its tough when they are 1200 miles away

 

yeah, back when i was in college there was a year that i lived in a university-owned apartment, and my apartment was basically the place all the people in the building used to come to party. during the day, there were usually a couple visitors, and at night the place was always full, and it was all pretty much pop-ins. that was alright because it was basically the nature of the apartment, and it was a fun way to live life for a while. one year was enough though; i would not want to go back.

and there was one day my mom randomly showed up there too (even though she lived 70 miles away from there), this time along with two of my aunts. i was fully clothed this time, but there were a couple days worth of empty beer containers strewn about (i was 19 at the time).

 

I would love to have been a fly outside (since it didn't happen inside, I wouldn't want to be on the wall - lol), and heard that "discussion".

It has been my experience that people that are not easily riled and that hate being forced into a situation where they feel they have to speak "harshly" to a person, can be and usually are quite formidable when push comes to shove. I've also experienced that real-estate agents are often asses, and are generally deserving of whatever "harshness" they get. :2thumbsup:

 

I believe it can be forgivable at first, but once you tell someone that they need to call ahead of time, then they're being rude.

 

Ditto, I wish they would stay the hell away from me! As a matter of fact don't even look at me dammit!!! And why do people at work always get pissed off when they invite you to a New Year's Eve party, you tell them "maybe, but I'm not sure yet" and then when you decide to spend the evening getting drunk at home in the quietness of your own home they get pissed off and act like you fucking stabbed them in the back or something....ok now i'm just rambling. Whatever.

 

Don't think much of it, but it can be a bit of an inconvenience if they've timed it wrong. Fortunately, it's only happened a handful of times that I can recall, and it's always been a few people I rarely get a chance to see, anyway so we don't run out of things to chat about.

 

No sooner had the moving truck arrived in our driveway, the next door neighbor came over and insisted on helping us move our stuff into the house. Neighbor is an old dude, mind you, and I had visions of him falling off the ramp of the moving truck. Tried to tell him his help wasn't needed, but he wouldn't listen. Then I got the odd feeling like he was checking out our stuff. The whole experience kinda weirded me out.

And fuck...now he and his wife are inquiring as to what we're doing for Christmas Eve.

UGH. Some people cannot take the hint.[/QUOTE]

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Please allow me to follow up on my own quote!

Christmas Eve arrived, and my neighbor had a houseful of guests over... family, friends, whomever. Because we hadn't heard anything from him, we assumed we were off scott-free from any secondhand invitation to their gathering. Oh no.

SO, hubby and I were getting our freak on...you know...that moment when everything is feeling groovy and you're right there...and there's a fucking knock at the door!

WHAT A VIBE-KILL.

So, the moral of the story is this: don't drop in unannouced. Ever.

 

Ok;putting the counter-view as this seems everyone locks,bolts and refuses entry unless pre-informed and arranged on that side of the pond.

I don't give a monkey's when or how often my mates turn up.
I don't do top secret stuff at home,so I have zero to hide.
We just turn up at each other's places as/when in the vicinity.
It's what friends are for-spontaneity.
We've been mates since we served together.
Ok-you all disagree and think friends should plan ahead re time together .
Fairy nuff.
Us lot just bowl up,have a gas,sod off.
After all,you're a long time dead.
Hard to make friends,when you're dead.
Even harder,to have a laugh with 'em.

But-horses for courses,innit.

 

I don't mind when people show up unannounced, but I fucking hate it when they walk right in. Total invasion of privacy that seriously pisses me off. I saw someone coming over and I knew they were going to walk right in so I locked the door. The expression on their face was pure shock. Once this dumb bitch walked into my house as my partner and I are asleep, naked on our living room floor. She had the gull to try to blame us for her intrusion, stating that some people lock their doors. SOME people don't just walk into a person's house. Extremely off putting and very very rude in my opinion.

 

what's worse is when they try to call and when you don't answer they just show up

 

i don't necessarily think they should "plan" time together. hell, i really don't like to make plans more than a few hours in advance, because once the time comes i could be in a mood completely contrary to whatever was planned. all i ask is to call on the way over and say "hey, i'm 5 minutes away, is it cool if i come over?"

yeah, that's not a concern. i keep the door deadbolted, even though i'm in an area where you really can feel safe to leave your door unlocked when you're away for the weekend.