I prefer a grower. In my experience, the guys who are the biggest when soft don't grow much and take longer to get hard. They also seem not to get as hard. They do end up bigger than the guys who are the smallest when soft, but there's something about having a very small one that triples or quadruples in size as it gets hard that turns me on. You guys who say you're 1 1/2 inches when soft are my kind of guys. I've always had some girlfriends who bragged about how big their guys are, but not me. The best lover in my past was an inch or less after a run or a swim. I loved it when we'd undress together after a run, or undress him after he got back from a solo run. He'd have this embarrassed look on his face when his shorts came off. That look on his face, and seeing his confidence build as I touched it to make him hard was likely part of the attraction for me. I'm not saying that I prefer a tiny erection, but one that's tiny when soft, a true grower, is what I like best on a man.
SharingIsCaring - Pic wouldn't do it justice. You can't tell the fabric's texture and "drape" from a pic. Those kinds of pants were also known as "doubleknit" pants. Very flex-y and cling-y. Like today's yoga pants for women, but not as tight to the legs. The legs had more room (mainly from the knees down to the cuffs), but the butt and groin areas were tight. You couldn't hide a toothpick in those, let alone your package. A hard-on was a neon sign flashing. 1970's decade.
One thing thats good about being a grower: sometimes my wife will start sucking my cock when its soft. The feeling of it growing and getting hard while in her mouth is truly amazing. I love the vulernability of being in that position and not being able to hide anything from her, as she knows exactly how long and hard I am at any moment, and how fast she gets me there.
Shark - Why would you want to hide your hardening cock from your wife? - she's the reason it's growing!! I would think that would make her feel pretty good, knowing you find her hot & sexy. My wife likes to make mine grow to the full 7" from soft. I think lots of ladies like to watch it happen, or feel it grow in their mouths.
I'm a grower and also a nudist which is a shame. I remember the drawings they show at school when puberty's about to hit with the boy and girl before during and after puberty. I'm 35 and still resemble the early-mid pubescent. I wish they'd shown different post puberty possibilities other than the full size trouser snake. When I saw Michelangelo's David I realised there's nothing wrong with me.
Grower here, last guy I met up with had a huge cock, biggest I’ve seen, but it took forever to get hard and was same size aroused or not. On the other extend met a hot hairy fit model guy with smallest cock ever, cute guy though. Probably small grower for me?
Definitely grower here. Flaccid: about 3” (never measured thoug) erect gets to be about 9”. Never worried about flaccid, because that’s not the “fun” part! Lol
I (hubby) am defintely a grower. That's unfortunate for me since we frequent resorts like Hedonism, but I can't complain too much because I measure over 9 inches when I'm "grown". But I'd be happy to have 9" hanging all the time! It's like a house, nothing is ever big and fancy enough...
Just FYI to all you guys that think you are "small"...I have always "felt" average. Whether I am or not. It's more in your head than anything.
All men are growers, if you think about it. Its just some show more. so really it should read, do you show more than others.