should i see a doctor?

and one last thing, you are uneducated. stop insulting doctors who know more than you ever will. you're 21 with a child, that says enough about you. moron.

 

No one here is a douchebag just because they didn't give you the answer you wanted. No one attacked poor, innocent you. No women here know what they're talking about? I do believe you're the only one that falls into that category.
If you want so badly to go to the doctor because YOU think there is something wrong with you (Even though there isn't), then GO! Stop acting like YOU know it all.

Holly isn't an idiot, nor does she seem to be sucking at life. She has a husband that loves her and a darling daughter. She seems to be doing great in my book. This is a PUBLIC forum....should Holly decide she wants to put her two cents in, she will.
Slut....that was the most mature thing I've EVER heard.

Holly is probably one of the most educated women I've ever had the pleasure of interacting with. Doctors don't know EVERYTHING....
WHAT does her being 21 with a child have to do with you being insecure about yourself? I'm 19 with a child. What does that say about me? What does her being 21 with a child say about her?
I also find it quite amusing that you have the audacity to call someone uneducated and a moron having looked at your typing.

Should you see a doctor about your breasts? No. Should you see a doctor about your insecurity problems? Yes.
An anger management class? Yes.

 

Wow.

That's about all I have to say about this thread.

And hey, good thing she claims to be leaving volunarily - going by personal attacks and insults alone, it seems to me she should have been booted about 20 times by now. Though, I can't help but notice it's been half an hour since she "left" and yet she still seems to be online. Waiting to see what kind of response she receives, no doubt. So mature.

Again, wow.

 

Well, Holly... looks like you are uneducated and I am a moron. Best we go shoot ourselves in the head, don't you think?

Will you be ok? Should I contact a therapist for you to go talk to? I know I schedualed an appointment for tomorrow. I mean, its bound to mess us up when we get called mean names on the internet!

Thanks for sticking up for me though Ladies! I do appreiciate all the "non-moron" back-up!

 

I was going to say that I'd gladly give up some of mine, but this chick sounds too mean to deserve some of my precious breast tissue. I don't quite get it... "everyone" seems to want bigger boobs, myself? Being a d cup, I'd love it if I were flat... ok, maybe a b cup, I liked being a b cup... but then my husband says that people seem to want the opposite of what they have.

 

Breastfeeding shrank mine. I went from a Full B pre-baby....to a smallish B-fuller A post-bfing. HAhaha.
I'm plenty happy with what I have. They're nice and cancer free....and, that's all that matters.

 

Yeah, good thing she left. Good riddance.

I think it's sad that a person would have insecurity problems enough to think their boobs weren't big enough and to, on top of that, flame any person that counters them.

I don't claim to know more than doctors, sweetie. I would never tell a neuro-surgeon how to do his job. But it's a FACT that most medical professionals DO NOT have to take classes on human lactation. They do not know enough about female breast anatomy to tell a pre-pregnancy woman that she can't breastfeed. They are not considered authorities on breastfeeding in any sense of the idea. I'm educated enough after my temultuous breastfeeding relationship to know that.

As far as being a 21 year old uneducated woman, I've been to college. I've been to many college campuses. I've served as an intern on Capitol Hill. I've done my share of grand educational things. Schooling wasn't where my head was at this place in time. So what? I have a daughter and a marriage. Schooling will come, and I'll never stop learning.

And I've learned something new here today. Flaming people never win.

 

ok, i've tried to be quiet on this issue but i sence that shes been really depressed or, lil off about this whole breast issue, or, the breast idssues just a symptom of a deeper issue
i know alotta women would kill to have her breasts
there were alotta inteligent replies, but not always the kindest
i realy think there was a deeper issue
itried pm'ing her and in the nicest kindest way possible talk to her, and i got no responce and i felt like she took my attempt to talkto her as an attack

ohhh wait..i just remembered something..shes the 1 who loved cocaine right?
ahh damn that explains sooo much
nevermind..lol
i dated a cokehead once..never again..lol
well..still maybe pplcoulda been slightly nicer (and yes she definately coulda)

 

we all have issues... its one of the things that makes us human. The key is not taking it out on other people, which is something I am sure we can all work on.

Holly, we know you are educated! Just about every mama here respects and values your opinion. Don't let her get to you!

 

oh and finalthought for this thread
ppl..be happy withthe breasts you got, ya dont ever need to change a thing
unless...ofcourse if theyre so big they cause ya pain
but breasts re breasts, if they work they work..be happy withem
and, every breast, any siize shape or whatever, is beautiful in its own way, and will attract whoit attracts
if you increase your breasts size just to 'be more attractive' it doesnt really make u more attractive, only changes who u attract..and do u really want some idiot who only dates big breasted women?
is he dating you..or your breasts?

lovin ya all.. goodnight

 

Sorry....People like her do get to me *just a bit*...Issues stemming from another forumer flame attack. I'm still not over it. Everyday helps.

 

hippyfreak..i love ya..and value your wisdom..i learn alot from your posts

just thought ya desserve a great big hug

dont let others personal issues affect you negatively

hugs..and this time really goodnight

 

but even big boobs won't hurt you unless you wear the wrong size support garment. I had more back pain problems as a D cup than I do as an H, simply by virtue of the fact that I am just now wearing the proper size bras (when I wear one at all) and I see a chiropractor sometimes. Your body isn't going to grow boobs too big for you to carry around. But people don't want to realize that they aren't really a C or D or DD, I know I didn't. And most stores that sell bras won't tell you the correct size either, they're going to sell you what they have. It's the bra that hurts some women's backs, not their boobs. There's nothing wrong with teeny tiny boobie bumps, same as there's nothing wrong with really really big boobs either. I kinda like mine, and it tickles me when young men can't take their eyes off me (used to annoy me, but now I find it cute).



and big ((((((hugs))))))) to all you wonderful women who tried to help this person who didn't really want anyone to help her. You rock! unk:

 

Wow, what happened to peace and love? I commend all the people who tried to give that lady advice. You are a caring bunch. :grouphug: That poor lady seemed to have serious issues, and more than when it came to her body. I hope a doctor tells her what she wants to hear.

Peace and love everyone!

 

This person is obviously insecure and combats her insecurity with negative reactions and anger. The advice given on this thread seemed all positive and well-informed to me: To love herself as she is, that a doctor generally cannot predict if one can breastfeed pre-pregnancy, that fat deposits on everyone's body differently, that insecurity is a larger problem with one's body than the size of one's breasts.

If she doesn't want help you can't give her help, but if she was going to get upset over hearing what she didn't want to hear maybe she should have just told us what to say - or not posted in the first place.