My wife is definitely a fan of receiving a spanking and will occasionally misbehave in order to receive one. Sometimes it's a gentle tap and other times it's a lot more harder although we do draw the line and leaving anything more than red cheeks She's worn short skirts and even dressed in a schoolgirl outfit to ensure she receives the proper punishment from Sir or "Daddy"
Just finished getting my spanking from my wife and it is a definite turn on for me. Sitting here stroking my cock while thinking about the spanking I got one hour ago.
I am a 74 year old male that gets spanked about twice a month by my wife. She is not completely into being a spanker but she will spank me as hard as I want and as long as I need it, usually my ass is plenty red when she is done.
From what I have learned, there are MORE than a few married guys out there who not only get their butts spanked by their wives, but also, by other men as well, and most find it highly erotic to be a married male with his pants down, over another guy's knees, getting his butt spanked hard by another male, sometimes while his wife (or someone else) watches............
KD23: Well, if we ALL liked the SAME things and had the SAME turn-ons, this would be ONE DULL WORLD, for sure! Once again, "different strokes for different folks!"
I have a unique aspect to my spankings fetish. I need my spanker to be a bad girl type. This traces back to my childhood. My mother (a single parent) did everything bad. She was an alcoholic (wine). She smoked, went out to bars, brought home all kinds of random one night stands. I had the wildest mother of all my friends but also the strictest disciplinarian, especially after a few glasses of wine. She was always misbehaving but expected me to be a perfect angel. Since my mom went out quite often she left me with a lot of babysitters. I noticed the rebellious bad girl types were stricter with me. They were bold in the way they talked to me and enforced my mother's rules such as bedtime while the nice sweet babysitters were much more meek in dealing with me. So I very much associate bad girls with being authority figures. The women who spank me have been sex workers. That's all that I can find that will do it. But they are perfect for this because they are the ultimate bad girls. I don't want some wholesome church lady spanking me. A woman who is a sinner laying the law down with me is so exciting to me and from my experience it comes natural to them.
I would like to be spanked. My husband is a very weak man, he is physically very strong, but he is letting me do whatever I like. This is not good, because I often procrastinate things, I am sometimes lazy, I don't do chores very well. Sometimes it makes me nervous because he is so soft to me, and he is letting me get off with a few tears and promises(false,ofc) that I will be better. I would like him to show me that he is man enough to tell me, ok, you are out of the line now, you'll have to pay the consequences for all the bad things you did. I would like him to tell me, in a very strict tone, young lady, go to your room and wait for me there. I would like him to come in the bedroom, and to tell me to take off my clothes, except for panties, and then to tell me to go to the kitchen to bring him three spoons : thin plastic spoon, flat wooden spatula and big, long thick wooden spoon for making soap. Then he would take off his leather belt, and place it on the side of the bed. He would then place me over his knee for warm up spanking. He would make my butt pink, and then, while I am still otk, he would use the spatula, to spank me hard on my butt, and inner thighs. After that he would make me bend over the sopha and use plastic spoon, then after 25 swats he would change it for that long thick wooden spoon, and for the end, I would have to make a pile of pillows, and present my already beaten butt for his belt. I would get a whole dosen swats with the belt. He would give me some time to compose myself and then I would have to thank him for the spanking. After that, he would send to bed early, without dinner, and when comes to check on me, he will see that I am not sleeping, he would pull up my sleeping dress and spank me with his hand. And he will tell to go to my work, and tell them that I am taking a week of, he will do that to, so he can provide me special correctional treatment.
Ive always been turned on by spanking [mostly on the receiving end] .and by a strict ,formideable female around 10 yrs or so older than myself.In the past decade or so I think more about being spanked by a man ,or two,or even three at one time in a prolonged session.I get aroused thinking of getting on my knees ,holding up both hands one on top of the other for a hand strapping by two or three guys one after the other until I have received six in total,after which I position myself across a bench to which I am fastened to receive a bare bottom strapping and caning,each guy administering twelve strokes each with various implements until my bare ass is a red mass with stripes from the cane.Ive had a few sessions with various guys over the years who have administered sensual otk spankings to more severe strappings and canings,I hope to meet with someone of a likemind who can give me a sound punishment then followed by a mutual intimacy of the sexual kind
My ultimate fantasy would be to get a big, beefy, macho guy, with a big, round furry butt, pants down over my lap, for a VERY intense spanking/paddling, using my hand as well as various impliments. Then, with his pants and shorts still around his ankles, I'd make him bend over a desk or a table, use a riding crop, a cane, and a wooden yardstick to really stripe his already blazing, hairy glutes, and make him shoot a huge load, all the while tears coursing down his cheeks, all the while begging me NOT to stop, that he not only NEEDS to have his big ass battered by an authoritive male, but, also, CRAVES it............
My wife is away for a few days but she knows what awaits her when she gets back. She will do down to our log cabin and wait facing the wall, for me to join her. I’ll probably clamp her nipples for 5 minutes. This is her weekly maintenance spanking plus a punishment. I’ll call her to kneel, remove the clamps, and she’ll go over my knee for about 10 minutes of spanking by hand. I’ll use a short belt on the back of her thighs and on her bottom. Hugs and kisses afterwards.