Share your body insecurities...well help you get over it!

well there's not much about my body that i like

i can't stand my tummy, it's WAY too big.. i'm really really insecure about it!
my arms
my thighs
my head is seriously huge and i don't like my face!
my little stretch marks
the scars i have from cutting myself
my boobs, they're too small
my skin


hmmm i really just don't like anything about my body..

 

my boobs are on the smaller side, but i've learned to appreciate their true purpose, so i dont care much anymore
I have fat knees, nothing i can do about that, its genetic, same thing with my tights, they are massive, but hey its in my genes.
I have very muscular arms, they have a weird shape, but its because i was always doing things like climbing trees, and things like that when i was younger and i did gymnastics at one point
my hair is looking a bit funny lately...i'm thinking of getting a haircut soon
i think my hips are a bit square shaped, but maybe i should lose some fat because since i gave up smoking i've been eating more
oh i have lots of body hair too, but i'm not that annoyed by that, its sort of fair but noticeable, but doesnt really bother me much now

i dont know, there are other things that i dont particularly love about my body but i've learned to appreciate why i was born like this. I think if i were to change something, i'd change something like my bad temper (already working on it) or my inability to be more spontaneous.

 

I hate a few things, but I am working on a few too.

First and foremost is my nipples. My right one hangs a little lower than the other. (Lazy Nipples, ROFLMAO!!!) If I were to ever have any plastic surgery, it would be to get them both to point in the same direction. I have to position the right one slightly upward in order for them to look ok in a bra. :X

Secondly, is my moles. I have a lot on one side of my face, and only a couple on the other. IF I ever get health insurance, I will get them removed at the dermatologist. I also have a few on my collarbone, and one on my southern stuff. I don't like them. Boo Hiss.

Third is my fatness. I am doomed to being overweight because I have it on both sides of my family. I have done some work on it, and have lost about 22 pounds of what I'd LIKE to lose, but I still haven't lost any inches. I exercise every other day, and I cut down on portions, but it seems like it will take me sooo long to get down to my goal weight of 150...*sigh*

Fourth are my stretch marks. I am afraid that even if I lose down to 150, I will have dangly belly skin from all my stretch marks... And there's not much you can do about them... :<

Anyway, that's my grievances with myself. Feels good to get it out.

 

i hate the general shape of my body whether i have gained or lost weight. when i'm on the thin side my hips look square and the bones poke out so much. i'm just too angular in general, and when i dance you can see my ribcage moving around, it's gross. when i'm on the bigger side (like i have been heading lately, damn freshman 15...), my stomach pisses me off so much. the top and bottom half poke out more than the middle, and no matter how much weight i lose or toning i do it always looks lumpy. the bottom half of my stomach sticks out too much, but i know that all women usually have that (what with having a uterus and all...) but it feels out of proportion with the rest of my body. my skin is awful, my t-zone is so oily and my nose gets so shiny if i don't wash my face every 15 minutes. the colouring is all blotchy and uneven and my nose and cheeks are always reddish. my hands and feet are always cold, and my teeth have never been white, always a crappy dull colour. my hair is frizzy most of the time and i have no eyebrows.

ooook maybe i should just say i'm insecure about everything...

 

I have a seriously small waist, but normal size, maybe a bit over sized, thighs/butt. So whenever i buy pants they fit my thighs but are literally floating around my waist. lol. Weird mental picture eh? A belt helps, but I can NEVER not wear one or it looks stupid.

 

I agree very much with this, I am thinking that a thread (which I know has been done before) of what we love about ourselves might be better than this one. Just a thought.

 

Alright, GreenButterflyDaisy, get off the shot!!! Seriously. I was on it a few yrs ago for 1 1/2 yrs. I got off of it because it made me hairier also. Since I've been on the pill though I haven't had that like I did. Also, I've read that saw palmetto supplements helps stunt hair growth.

 

I would kill to have a big ass n a lil waist!!! I'm on the curvier side. I always said for yrs oh i'd kill to be a size 8. Well now I'm a 7/8 n still not happy n still self conscious. So, now I'm going all the way. I want to weigh 120 something. I'm 5'1 so that is in healthy range n not bony. I have fat knees. I hate how my face fat fluctuates from day to day. I like my boobs most of the time. I'm a 34 D. I'd like to be a 34 DD sometimes, yet I hate how I'm treated because of them esp at work. It's almost impossible for me to wear cute collared shirts or sweaters w/o looking trampy or my boss getting pissed at me now. My whole thing with them is I would kill to wear a string bikini n they r perky just not perky enough to wear one. Also, my boobs are very full in the middle n top which looks great for cleavage but don't lay right in my opinion. I wish they were tear dropped shaped n fuller on the bottom. Plus, women with tear drop do seem bustier. I hate my stomach. I like my profile from the side but not from the front always. I'm short waisted. I hate my belly button. I wish my freckles stuck out more. I used to want a nose job but have gotten used to my fanzo bump. I like my ass sometimes, but still would like it less wide n much rounder. I want a shelf butt. I hate my eye color n shape. I used to have frizzy hair but not anymore. I just wash it less n use lots of shine n anti frizz products which helps alot. Mine is naturally wavy which I hate too. So I straighten it everyday. Ah that's it!! thank God!

 

bah, get outta here, your too pretty to be complaining. lol Ah, seriously its funny to think that even my friends who I find beautiful and needing no change feel the same amount of insecurities that I do.

 

I used to be insecure about my big butt. hahaha. I love it now though. I shove shit out of the way if i have too. hahaha. Don't be insecure girls, you are all incredibly beautiful-inside and out-.

 

I feel self consious about alot of things...seems 'shroom' and I have the same problem...I'm only 4'11...and my shoe size is only 4....my pants are alwyas way to long...and I also have pretty big knockers...soo annoying. I remember starting highschool and being made fun of in gym class...because at that point I still didnt need a bra...so I went out and bought all these padded bras...I would kill to go back to that point. I think small boobs are so much more attractive. I was a springboard diver for 8 years and was in the best of shape...when some health problems made me give up my diving career...well needless to say....I'm not in perfect shape anymore...and I know by no means am I fat...I lost my nice abs and perfect diver form...and that bugs me, however over the last few months I have been working out at the gym hard to try to get it back...the results don't show fast enough!

 

wow. we sound like relatives. don't you worry, you're the perfect female for someone.

 

I agree! We should make a thread about what we love about ourselves.

 

here ya go:
Why your body is a wonderland

 

Honestly speaking, the way you describe yourself makes you sound absolutely beautiful, and I'd love to see your face at some point =)

 

i can completely identify w/ the shaving 1. i have 2 shave my stomach 2 and also my arms. i hate it!!!!!! i also have a really round face which makes me look fatter than i really am. and also whish i had bigger boobs. theyre a's


U PPL ROCK!!!!!!!!!!

 

aha where do i start....
My nose has a slight bump in it that makes me think it looks like a witches nose (even tho most ppl dont notice it, I do)
I have a fat thighs and you would think I would have a nice round ass to go with it but noooo, I was blessed with a completely flat ass =/
I have REALLY small tits but that doesnt bother me that much anymore cuz I realize I still have time for them to grow and they are really perky and cute so I dont mind them being small for the time being.
My hair is retarded and never goes the way I want it to =/
I am so pale and never seem to tan (*crosses fingers for next summer*)
Ahah i have the ugliest belly button in the world (it goes in so deep so it makes me look fat) but I found an alternative to that n got it peirced several years ago so its all good.

But I dunno, these are all really small things. I am overall happy with what I look like. I still do have self esteem issues but they are getting better. Hopefully soon, I will be able to love every inch of myself and not have a complaint at all

 

I am also a victim of the body hair issue….in the last year or so, facial hair has become a growing issue. I am starting to see a resemblance to my grandmother when I look in the mirror….a few whiskers growing about. It’s become a daily plucking ritual. I dread the day when I have a five o’clock shadow….. :&

 

as the resident probiscusfile.....i wish to inform you that your nose is charming and full of charecter .......its a very sexy nose indeed .

 

I got the facial hair thing going on too...hair on my upper lip (not really enough to mess with), and hair in my chin (too much to ignore!!). I started shaving it in college, so now I'm stuck...I get about 8:00 shadow....I probably should get some laser there or something...it drives me crazy!!