I'm over 35 (be 51 in a week) and I am a strict bottom. never had the desire to top and never did and I don't believe I missed out on anything. it is MY preference
I'm 51 ... how "cute" can one be at that age ? LOL I live in Texas, not what I'd call the deep south.
as gay people the only sexual moral one sould observe is respect the limits and feelings of one's partner. society gives us so much bullshit about our sexuality. we should engage in any activity we enjoy as long as it is consensual.
Oh, straight people suffer for their sexuality, boy oh boy do they. The guy starts up with a girl in early twenties, mainly cos of her looks and regular sex, fast forward ten years, she's turned into a house, they have a couple bratty kids, still neck deep in mortgage. The guy will say he's happily married, his eyes say he's about to shoot himself in the head. How many times have you seen that? On the girls side, some go through teens and early twenties with a lot of power over the guys, delay the family thing build a career. Fast forward 10 years, thier in early 30s, the clock is ticking, time to start a family. Cos they were a 9/10 when they were teens, still think they are a 9/10 at 30 something, still think they have the same power over guys. Dont seem to realise getting a guy on a leash is only half about her looks, its also half about his libido, which is not the same as it was when they were teens. So they wonder why they have trouble getting a man. How many times have you seen that?