Sex without Condoms

In my last lay I wore a condom for a while and then both of us weren't satisfied much at all. Then I took it off and went all in. I was pretty sure this woman was clean since we had talked about having sex weeks in advance and she wanted to wait because she had been on a 4 year hiatus. If you've gone without sex in 4 years and been healthy, there's a good chance it's a low risk. But even then I know I put myself at risk for getting a nasty disease.

 

i put a bag on everytime unless we're together for a long time and have been tested. the risk is just too scary for the short term pleasure.

 

There was this shy, demure girl at work who as far as I was concerned was pretty much a virgin. She never talked about going out, was totally disinterested in men, and never talked about past b/f's, so I naturally figured she was pretty damn pure. So, one day she actually asked me out after I had dropped a few hints around that I was interested, and after a few dates we were were going at it hard and long every night. I felt that I was a super stud, and she was making all the right noises back.
As it turned out, she had had a nasty injury when she was a small child and was unable to orgasm for psychological reasons. She was also a profound alcoholic at 22 yrs. She was also trying to get back at/with her old 34yo married b/f whom she moved into the same street as so he could come over while he was supposed to be out jogging, but he didn't come over anymore.
I didn't know any of this at the time, and after a couple of weeks of bareback I made the stupid mistake of asking her how many... Her reply was, "What, this year?". Always up for a joke, me the stud with two girls under my belt at 25yrs other than her said something like, "Sure, it's June already, isn't it?! lol."
Her answer for so far that year: 23.

A couple of days earlier she was really drunk (duh!) and when I was trying to go down on her she reached down and grabbed me by the hair and nearly ripped it out shouting, "Don't do that, you'll get a disease!!" I thought she was just being adorably shy. She wasn't, as it turned out.

A few days later we were doing it, and just after I blew for about the third time she told me that I had to stop coming over and having sex with her all the time as her b/f didn't like it. When I said that I thought that I was her b/f she said, "Yeah, I have been meaning to talk to you about that...." She had met someone else on the night she went out to the movies with her bff, and had a three some.

 

Been there done that...not worth the risk. The thrill is great, but, the next morning- weeks until your expected cycle is this paranoid feeling that you might be pregnant. Or you might have an std. It's much better to use a condom...as much as I absoloutly hate them and find sex less enjoyable with them(takes the whole naughtyness away) I still would say.....keep a condom handy. Just whatever you do don't call them a 'safe guard' I remember getting drunk with this one guy....we were in bed and making out and he called it a 'safe guard' and I was like..."No, this isn't happening".

 

Oh my god that's such shitty luck. Sorry that had to happen to you!

 

Thank you Wild Flowers. I actually quite liked her until the end. Everyone else used to ask me why I went out with her as she was so awful. But she used to let me have sex with her, so I thought she was great. When I was that age any girl that I liked I thought was great...

 

I don't use condoms now but, I have been married to the same guy for 25 yrs. If I were single nowadays tho I wouldn't even consider having sex without one .

Peace and joy
Melissa

 

At the moment I'm a virgin, but I've always thought that unless I really, really distrusted a particular female, I'd go all in without a condom. I know everyone's scared of getting a nasty disease, but if I had a bad feeling about a girl, I'd probably just avoid her altogether. Condoms aren't a 100% guarantee you won't catch a disease so if a girl looks like she might have something, I'd rather not run that risk at all.

 

And just what does a girl with genital herpes or papilloma look like?

 

Well, this is where comprehension skills come into play. Obviously the girl that gets around is far more likely to have a disease than a girl who has sex here & there, & with people who are disease free.

Learn to think, & maybe I won't get old explaining shit to you.

 

It happens, what can I say. I've only had unprotected sex with two people. My girlfriend at the time, and a friend who generally sticks to relationships with a single person.

I've been tested since the first one and came back clean, and I'm reasojnably certian that the last girl was clean. But yeah, it's not worth it. I've had an STD scare before (it was just a pimple lol) and the ridiculas amount of fear that goes through you when you think "I might be damaged goods for the rest of my life..." yeah, not worth it.

Blowjobs are fine though. Wearing condoms for a BJ is retarded. Just wash up after. And if it's a nasty slut just say no. lol

 

You seem to delight in rude insulting responses.

How does one comprehend syphilis, which is making a comeback. But, alright that's still treatable. HPV on the other hand can be contracted without the visible warts, as with Herpes simplex without visible blisters or scabs. The girl who rarely sleeps around can contract either of those on that ONE time she went unprotected. And appearing symptom-free she can also spread that infection.

Yes you are explaining "shit" to me quite well. I was just challenging that shit for what it is.

Oh, BTW I hate condoms as much as anyone AND we never used them in the free luv days. It was pure and simple luck that I never caught anything. So, good luck to you when you start dippin your wick in warm, dark, moist holes.

 

My best friend had an STD scare as well. He got tested at least two or three times, & as it turns out, he didn't have anything. His girlfriend at the time had been his girlfriend for a year at that point, & she tried so hard to say she didn't cheat on him, but how else do you get an STD if he didn't have one & now you do? Luckily, he didn't catch it & it was something that could be treated. Surprisingly, he went on to date her for an additional two years.

Crazy, right?

 

never done it myself, too risky.

 

By the way shit for brains, herpes can also be spread by mouth to mouth and mouth to genital contact. Do you know what a Cold Sore is? Herpes. Also Warts can be spread by skin to skin contact. In other words if any guy that girl was with finger fucked her while he had a wart on his finger guess who has a chance of developing HPV.

By the way you should have yourself checked out for hemeroids or a loose rectum from having your head shoved up your ass.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

Daaayyuummmmm 0_0
I agree....
But daaayyuummmmm

 

Aww, some loser on the internet just insulted me, my life as I know it is sooooo over. And thanks for explaining shit I already know you dumb fuck.

 

Do you ever wonder what life would've been like if you got enough oxygen at birth? I've been called worse by smarter people. Oh my god I've been insulted by a retard with serious STD's in his future. Dude do the world a favor and get a vasectomy now and get out of the fucking gene pool before it's too late. Do you ever wonder why your hearing is failing. It's because your colon is putting pressure on your ears so I'm going to scream this next part.

YOU FUCKING RETARDED MORON. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO BE INSULTED ON LINE DON'T INSULT OTHER PEOPLE ONLINE. IF YOUR POSTS ARE ANY INDICATOR OF YOUR INTELLIGENCE THAN I'M SURPRISED THAT YOU HAVEN'T DIED BECAUSE YOU FORGOT HOW TO BREATHE. PEOPLE ARE TALKING TO YOU LIKE YOU ARE STUPID BECAUSE YOU ARE WRITING STUPID SHIT!!!! THINK THAN WRITE YOU STUPID MOTHERFUCKER!!! IF YOU TALK TO OTHERS IN REAL LIFE THE WAY YOU TALK TO PEOPLE ONLINE THE BEATINGS YOU HAVE RECIEVIED MAY EXPLAIN THE BRAIN DAMAGE EXHIBITED IN YOUR POSTS.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

+1

Are you really a reverand? What domination?

(lol)

 

Universal Life Church. I'm sure in some parallel universe I'm a street preacher. I'm a firm believer in speaking to people in language they understand. I also work with children.

Peace Out,
Rev J