Your history would not scare me off one bit. Nobody, man or woman, should ever feel, the slightest bit of shame for being sexually active. I would definitely want to have sex with you if the mood hit us upon meeting.
We’ll have to compare body counts…how many are in your pack and is the alpha the only one who can breed with the females?
As an old hippie, I reject the alpha power trips. Though I guess, when it comes to my own wife, I am the alpha. If anyone tried to play that role, neither I nor my wife would have put up with it. We have enough competition between us for dominance. I have an issue with people dominating me. So even if it was an outside relationship, if someone tried to dominate me, I would lose interest quickly. In the same way, I have no interest in dominating someone else, though some people think Im domineering, I don't know why. On the other hand, professionally, people loved having me as their boss. Because if they didn't and they didn't bow to me, and follow my every command, and always give me gifts, I'd fire them faster than a... (I'M JOKING!!! I WASN'T LIKE THAT! I WAS COOL!) Though I must say, the idea of another man's baby in her belly was an extremely exciting concept. We were living between the Philippines and Japan, and one time I had to go to Japan about a week or two ahead of her. I encouraged her to go out with a doctor that was trying to get into her panties. I always handled her medicine every night, including her birth control (not because I controlled her, but because she wanted me to, and I was better at managing and keeping track of such things). While I was gone, she never once took her birth control. The night they went out, she spent a good 12 hours in a lover hotel with him, and a day or two later another night in the backseat of his car, and then, before coming to Tokyo, a morning in his bed so that I could have her in Tokyo straight from his bed. Unfortunately he gave us gonorrhea, and her period was 2 1/2 weeks late, and when it did come was unusually painful. It was really hot thinking that she may very well have his baby growing inside of her, and we screwed like rabbits. We waited a good month or two till we returned to the Philippines to take care of the VD. It is possible that she did conceive---their time in the love hotel coincided with about the middle of her cycle, and it is possible that between the constant sex and the VD that she may have miscarried it. In the end, I'm glad she didnt have his child because, well, I have stepkids from her previous marriage, and one of my own with her. I prefer it that way.
If this hypothetical situation is taking place in a bar I would need to determine whether you’re drunk. A very drunk woman is not a good bedmate. As for a slutty past, this is an individual’s choice and does not define the person, just their sexual profile. I might be curious but would never judge. Would we have sex? It would depend on mutual attraction and personal compatibility; even for a few hours. Fucking each other senseless can be an amazing experience but it can also be tedious if she has a repulsive personally. You can’t escape a real ugly personality unless your dogging in public bathroom, having meet 2 minutes prior. I have experienced enough to have seen the very drunk, the brokenhearted, the bi-polar to have become a bit more selective. The short answer, your history is not a factor; your personality and attractiveness is.
Fair answer. I rarely drink alcohol and no drugs…sex is the elixir for me. Of course personality and attractiveness are subjective.
Why is it socially unacceptable to slut-shame women for being promiscuous, when men are given a free pass; "boys will be boys"? The patriarchal hegemony over women's bodies that ensures primogeniture? Or is it fear of the Feminine, or fear of sex itself? Fuck that! So, you have a sexual history. So do I, possibly as sordid as yours, but it's not a competition. We could compare notes over a pint, and see where it leads. If nowhere, we made a friend and had a nice chat. If somewhere, I'd certainly fuck you, with all due respect, courtesy, and kindness.
I would love to take you on, and see where I would rate, but I would make sure you would be satisfied.
Yes I would. I love women that emit a sexual energy. If I get that vibe and we are on a date then I will ask you your fantasies and about your past experiences. It would seriously turn me on. Now one thing I am curious about is meeting a partner for an actual long term relationship on a "lifestyle" or a swingers site. Does that happen?
I would live to join you with some other guys, say 2 or 3 and we’d all have a fantastic time together. I love entering a girl after other guys and then bring her to orgasm.
Great to hear that! I can’t answer anything about long term relationships, but I’m sure there must be someone else on this forum that can help. Curious what Bstn might be an acronym for?
