Sex with Friends

Why not just have crazy sexy freaky nasty dirty porno style fucking sucking and licking with someone you love and want to spend the rest of your life with?

Id also like to add, that the person you spend the rest of your life with should also be your best friend..however..
when it comes to just having tons of sex with tons of different people, just like there are physical diseases..there are spiritual ones too. having sex with a lot of different people..eh, not for me. dont see a point in it.

 

different experiences would be my guess, i say guess because ive only been with the girl im with now. I would be more than willing to have an open relationship but i know shes not there yet, so out of respect, i don't even ask. She is wanting to do a threesome though so that should be an interesting experience.

 

It absolutely deepens friendship. Granted I do have a man in my life who I am commited to emotionally. We however have invited another man into our lives and home and we both engage in sexual acts with him (separately and together). I would comsider the third guy just a friend although our friendship is so deep, no one word really explains it. I actually prefer to sleep with him at night as my "significant other" likes to have his alone time and night some people find it unusual, but it is just our way

 

That is pretty wild !!!!!!!!

 

Perhaps you haven't found THAT one person that gives you everything you need

That's what I used to think when I was so confused about relationships, and I had just given up on the whole thing. I too get insecure, but it's that fear of losing the person I love that drives me to better myself and look after my relationship, because imagine if you were more than content with everything, you wouldn't have the "need" to move things forward, you'd be stuck in your contentment. Being insecure sometimes is normal. It's great when your partner reasures you there is nothing to worry about, not only with words, but also with actions, actions speak louder....

I had that in the past. The guy would tell me he loved me from the second week!! I mean, I believed it back then, but now i realised i was just infatuated, because i got bored easily.

we all have different perceptions about what love is. You are right to say that we should love people without expecting them to change or try to change them, and romantic idealisations of love are silly. Love is working every day, together, for a future in common, where you can see yourself with the other person. Making them happy, share your time with them, support them, these are things that will come with your feelings for them. You want the best for them, and you want to be the best for them, because you can see that they are worthy of YOU.

and with respect to your original comment, I do not think sex with friends is a good idea. Unless you can separate feelings of attachment from lust. I don't have very good experiences in that respect.

 

i don't think there is anything wrong with sex between friends as long as it's just for the pleasure of it. but sadly none of my friends share that philosophy

 

the other week i was chattin to a really good girl friend of mine and she was sayin how she feels inferior to everyone else as they have had sex and she hasnt. I already feel really close to her as we can talk about stuff like this and not feel uncomfortable. so i decided to offer her the chance but was ready to pretend i was jokin just incase she got offended and felt it would ruin our friendship. Well her immediate reply was " would you actually" and of course my answer was "yes!" i mean she has great boobs a great bum a crackin smile great personality etc etc and if we werent such good mates im sure something would have happened a while ago.

well anyways we usually hang out on saturday nights anyway but this weekend her family were out with family friends at a birthday meal and i thought id ask and see if it was ok with her if we tried it out. She agreed and made love. I say made love and not had sex because even though she is a best made there was a kind of love there and it was special. we both enjoyed ourselevs tremendously and are going to carry on this more intimate relationship. but i agree i dont feel relationships are great. i think you can alot more fun and experience more things when single. also i have another friend who isnt a virgin but has been single for a while who i think is a beautiful lady and would like to do a similar thing with her but hey not all friendships are the same. thinkin of it both of them together would be great! in my dreams! but i agree with hippie chick that no one needs a relationship but some people do want a relationship so each to their own but personally i think helping out a friend this way shows a great close friendship.

 

"so i decided to offer her the chance" this is not a big headed remark about how great i am and how she now has a chance with me , it is the opposite i hope no one feels i meant it this way as i do not think of myself as great at all

thnks.

 

So then, I wonder... is that old saying of "you can't be friends with a meber of the opposite sex without sexual tension" true then? I mean, most all of my friends are girls, and I've not wanted to do anything with them...

 

Well shit hippie chick I think you and I should be best friends in that case.

I'm thinking volcanic labito crossings here.
I can be a compulsive fuckwad and you can be my nympho buddy.

Oh yeah and love, or any emotion for that matter, isn't a perception, it's a culmination.

 

brilliant, if you can't fuck a friend, who can you fuck?

 

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That completely dependes upon taste as sexual intercourse usually takes the form in concentrations of decision.
Right up until it becomes fluent and something is needed to augment the sensation.
Poor fucking humans.

I wonder what it looks like when lobsters fuck, I mean shit if they taste so good, they must be excellent little fukkerz.

 

i love having sex with just one person because i think you ecperiment more.. but then again i like having sex with friends 2

 

Try it, if you don't being the "bitch" of your society.

 

I don't really know you and I don't really know your friends, but do you think that maybe some of these guys are only friends with you because they know you'll sleep with them?

 

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I think sex with friends is really good. My best friend since I was 13 is really hot, we always talked about sex and somewhat flirted with each other but that's it, there was never any "love" connection, just a trustful friendship. Some months ago I invited her to my place to watch some movies, after some flirting I ended up kissing her and having sex. Since then when I'm bored or don't have anyone to hook up with I just call her, it's cool cause she ain't a slut who goes around fucking with everyone.

 

I think even tho you have alot of good point's about relationship's, i think you at the same time are very confused about what you want in life.
Now yes, relationship's do requier work, LIKE WITH ANYTHING, and to me, it sound's like the reason you don't like relationship's isn't so much of a sex thing' but a refusal to WORK AT A RELATIONSHIP WHEN THE GOING GET'S BAD. and friend's with bennis is a (relationship too) You are having a relationship with a "FRIEND", might not be the same, but it is a dishonest relationship between 2 people, work's for some, doesnt work for other's.
some people can have sex with everyone under the sun, and some people have moral's and can't.
Do you ever plan on having a family? Or do you plan on having a family with one of your friend's? And what about diseses? Just cause they are your friend's doesnt mean they are 100% honest with you, condom's or no condom's shit happen's , and regardless of who you are with, i hope you are willing to pay for whatever happen's next.
I think you have a shitty outlook on sex and life, and honestly, You need to grow up. I understand we are all different, and thank god for that,
but there is something out there called love, and you are right love is the
total comimient to someone reguardless of their faults or positive's, but you are wrong with one thing, YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE FOR 30 YEAR'S AND BE HAPPY, if you are not happy with one person, it sound's like you only think about yourself, and dont know what love is.
and i feel very sorry for you, and whoever agree's with you.
If you can't be happy with one person, then i don't know what to tell you
other then , you are going to have a hard road in life, and you are going to
have men, take avantage of you for the rest of your life, and frankly i rather be with someone who love's me, for 50 year's, then have my head board scratched up with hoches, from all the men, and "FRIENDS" i slept with
nO RESPECT FOR YOURSELF OR OTHER PEOPLE
TOTALLY SELF CENTERED.in MY OPNION.
Sound's to be that you are going to live a pretty lonley life, and
die alone as well, You think your friends? are going to help you when you need them beside's getting laid? I highly dought it.

and PS. for all the OPEN marriage's out there.
IF YOU WANT TO FUCK OTHER PEOPLE BESIDE'S YOUR WIFE
WHY GET MARRIED? SELFISH BASTARD'S!

 

I think there are differences between what people want and need in relationships in their lives...weather it is a more "free love" rout or a more"married" rout or whatever your choice is....it isn't for anyone to judge.

There are so many different ways to have fulfilling relationships. To say that you can't see how one may be happy in a situation otehr then yoru own just signifies that you cannot understand any other life then your own. Try to look outside the box. What works for you does not have to work for others.

There are great reasons to be with only one person your whole life. There are also great reasons not to and to experience many. In both cases there are happy and sad endings for a lot of people. Relationships even go as far as having multiple partner families and swapping of partners and marriages with many wifes. Who's to say what is best for everyone? Nobody.