sex with another man

I'll just say this the once (I've said it elsewhere in other threads), my husband admitted to me that one of the most intensely erotic things he has ever seen was watching another guy's dick sliding in & out of my vagina when we had foursomes with another couple. That was way back when....but he still refers to it now ten years after we stopped swinging!

 

Oooh Nature Girl that's got me going! Would you please have a word with my wife and explain your last post her! Some wonderful words of wisdom from yourself might just convince her to take the plunge and throw herself into a threesome!

I don't need ANY convincing by the way and I too would still be talking about it ten years on!

Her number is 07... ......

Thanks Nature Girl; you're a star!!!

 

I've worked as an escort and have had requests to have sex with a lady whilst her partner watches. This can involve him just sat their watching, maybe masturbating as he watches, or as part of cuckolding roleplay. Apparently for the man it is extremely erotic to see his lady performing various explicit sex acts with me, and for the lady it is extremely erotic to get sexual in ways she doesn't with her man or to just have sex with me and watch her partners reactions.

 

Great post Masseur.
That's just how I imagine watching my wife with another man to be; erotic for her to do and erotic for me to watch.
With the option to join in of course!

 

No I would'nt.I have no desire to make love to another man,and if my husband suggested it?(1)I'd probably be very angry and (2)Wonder why I was'nt enough for him! Sounds like I'm insecure right?Nope,just that I know,at some point in your life,you should accept that actually,enough is enough.Being happy to accept that,having sex with one person is actually quite comforting,even liberating,is to me,freedom.I had quite alot of boyfriends before I got married,so have had the experience of making love with different guys.For me,making love with my husband is very special,and loving.I don't need to explore other avenue's of sex because I'm happy with what I have.
What I dont understand,and maybe someone could explain,is why you're even with a partner,if you're the type to want sex with more than one person at the same time.Why not just all stay single,without any complications,no added stress of worrying it might upset your "partner"?
I do believe,after being a member on this forum for a while now,and having read quite a few posts,that some people are addicted to sex,and instead of trying to make their fantasies come to life,would probably be better getting counselling.

 

Great post Yogamat. You've made some valid points there!

 

Thanks! I had to think about my reply for a while before posting it.I do tell it how it is.I'm sorry if it offends anyone who is'nt on the same page as me,but I'm not about to write a load of BS in order to keep some posters happy.I believe there are an awful lot of people out there that are stressed out.This leads to people turning to behaviours that can be damaging to themselves,their partners,family and so on.Some people clock up credit cards and get themselves into debt,some people turn to drugs/drink,gambling,sex,whatever.Its not helping you cope with stress though.Its just making your life more stressful,more complicated.I've found in reality,most people really just want peace.Yep its that simple.

 

Wise words Yogamat and I agree with everything you've said although, as I'm sure you'll appreciate, not everybody 'fits' into one category or another; they are just who they are.
My craving for a threesome with with my wife is a craving, a fantasy, that I've had for many years; it's just something that I'd love to happen. Having had an amazing threesome many years ago with a male friend and another woman, I found it to be an incredible experience and one that I'd love to repeat with my wife (although not with that friend as she can't stand him!!)
So again, wise words Yogamat and I know that the scenario I'm desiring comes with some risks but it's quite simply a desire that won't go away!

 

Thanks Runningman for replying respectfully I'm curious though,if you realise your desires come with some risks,why would you be willing to take that risk? I think I would look at the desire more on a deeper level.Its abit like buying a car.Something in your mind,plants the idea/desire into your head. You get into your old car and start driving.What was once your pride and joy now just does'nt cut it anymore.Maybe your car is'nt so shiny and new anymore.Maybe it does'nt have the nice new technology new cars have.Maybe the ride is'nt as smooth as it used to As you drive,you notice other cars.You wonder to yourself what it would be like to drive that other car,you convince yourself your old car is'nt good for you anymore and you need a newer model.Before you know it,you're looking over new cars at the local car yard.You decide to buy a new car!Yes,that will make you happy,albeit only temporarily.Only until the newer model is available.
I've come to realise that desire is only thoughts.You could spend the rest of your life on that desire cogwheel,but someday you're going to have to accept reality and get off.Happiness is within,not something "out there"! My only wish for posters is that they consider ALL options of their desires.

 

I'm late into this but I'd NEVER ask or indeed want my wife to go with another man - I'm all for "each to their own" but for me fidelity is very important to me.

 

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Well thought out post Yogamat. Great analogy!

 

Aww F6C. Mrs F6C is a lucky lady to have you as a hubby!

 

Why thank you kind Lady

 

Ive tried to like a couple of new replies but it seems Im all out of likes for today!Anyway I've liked F6C's posts and Lady L's!

 

Because some guys actually like to see their woman take another man's cock... Especially if that guy who likes to watch "his" woman take a cock that's bigger than his own is a cuckold.
It's not "just a fetish" to some. Some couples actually live the lifestyle.

 

I think watching can be as exciting as joining in

 

I definitely agree. I've watched my wife with her boyfriend several times.

 

I have to not touch myself as I watch. In case I'd cum

 

Maybe they'd want you to eat his cum... either out of her pussy, or directly from his cock before they allowed you to cum... If the decided to let you come at all. Sometimes, clean-up duty is "reward" enough.