sex with another man

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by jayjay08, Nov 16, 2009.

  1. Confissledone

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    I love it. I love seeing her getting ready and all dressed up to go out. Love how much time and attention she puts into her hair,make up, nails, and choice of outfit to hang out with her very close male friends at night or even times she spends the entire day from early morning to very late hours at night turning to morning. I only wish she would be comfortable having me watch her in her normal activity with her friends. She wants a 3some but not yet

    Does your man know you're having these DESIRES?
     
  2. In the dark

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    he does and says he never wants anyone to have me but him. But then he turns around and says he wants to fuck another woman and me kinda one sided on his part. I have no problem with bringing another women into the bed i love women and men. i just recently told him i come on here and another site to "read" and have had him read some of the stories and he says as long as you are just reading and not posting. lol
     
  3. Confissledone

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    check your messages in your profile... I sent you a message that may be helpful. Good luck
     
  4. In the dark

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    thanks i will check it out
     
  5. markatipr

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    have had a few mmf,s and ffm, and have watched guys fuck my wife also haved watched while i stoke my cock she loves that she likes it when i blow my load all over his ass so she she say it turns her on like no tomorrow watching my cum run down the crack of his ass to his balls then lick it clean
     
  6. AznMom

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    I would totally be down for it if my husband allowed. But then i'd probably have to allow him to do the same with another girl. Which i have no problem with it since i have had fantasies as what it would be like to watch him fuck another girl in front of me. As long as it's something that the both of us know about then it's ok. No cheating and lying.
     
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  7. Meliai

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    I don't understand why guys get off on this...could someone explain it to me? Is it because its almost like watching porn but with your woman, or is it another reason?
     
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  8. Amyoxl

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    Oh my gosh, Robyn, that was exactly my thought when my hubby of six years encouraged me to indulge my attraction to another man. It's been just in the last year approximately that my hubby and I started talking about me having another man. Extramarital sex was just an abstraction, though; something to tease each other about and fodder for some fun role-playing, but nothing that I thought I would ever have to seriously consider.

    But then another man came into my life. Before I had hardly ever looked at another man. In fact, I had never even kissed another man in my life. My hubby was my one and only and I loved him deeply. I still do.

    I liked the other man a lot right from the first time we met He had a nice smile, a super body and a deep, baritone voice that seemed to resonate with all the female parts of my body. And did I mention his engaging personality? Over time I began falling for him in a way that I suppose was inappropriate for a married woman who loved her husband so dearly. I could tell, too, that the atraction was mutual.

    My husband was beside himself now that the abstraction we had fantasized about seemed like it could become a reality. It didn't bother him that I had deep feelings for the other man, because he said he knew that if he wanted to share my body with another man he would also have to share a piece of my heart. My husband said that the feelings the other man and I had for each other had all the ingrediants for some really intense sex, and that's what he wanted for me. No, he didn't want to be there (he said he wouldnt be able to stand it) but he wanted to know when and if it happened.

    Like you, though, even though my hubby said he was okay with it and wanted it, I worried that he might not love me the same after another man had been inside me. The pleasure of being with another man, no matter how intense, was not worth the risk of damaging my marriage or the love that hubby and I shared.

    What I didn't count on, though, was my deepening feelings for the other man. In my defense it didn't happen the first time he and I stole a few kisses and enjoyed the comfort of being in the arms of the other, or even the second, but inevitably I lost my way in passion and couldn't find the way out, and didn't want to stop - couldn't stop. The sex was wonderful and extremely intense, just like hubby said it would be.

    I had to tell my husband, of course (he knew it anyway, he said). He was overcome with happiness, laughing with me and holding me close when I couldn't hold back the tears of relief I felt when I told him. Misinterpreting my tears, he told me I had nothing to be ashamed of and that he was so proud of me.

    I can truthfully say that our marriage is better than ever now - better sex (which was always very good to begin with) better communication and the closeness of sharing the intimate details of my lovemaking with the other man, which still continues.

    So, I say go for it girl. If he's asking you, he wants it. Just be sure you want it too.
     
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  9. Duck

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    I can't explain why I like the idea. It has absolutely nothing to do with porn or voyeurism. It has something to do with making her feel good.. even better than I can make her feel.
     
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  10. Ozzie

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    I love seeing guys fuck my wife, the more the better :)
     
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  11. SunshineSteve

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    Seeing a girlfriend of mine getting fucked by a group of guys is definitely hot. There's a live porn aspect, sure, but also I have a very strong attraction to slutty women, and I love helping a woman push her sexual boundaries, and I love seeing the pleasure of someone I care about. I like hearing about her fucking other guys, the dirtier the better, whether it's bad or good. Hell, I'll date an actual whore any day if she knows who's in charge and is smart and interesting.

    As for her having feelings for guys she fucks, it's more an inevitable something I put up with in order to have all of the above, and of course so that I can feel good about having other close relationships myself. And yes, jealousy still happens, particularly with guys who have a lot of my better traits in common with me or when she has really strong attraction for them.

    One thing about me is I particularly hate being treated like a cuckold by any guy who's fucking my girl, either during or afterward. Few things make me angrier or more likely to get violent than a jackass who has sex with my girl and acts all smarmy and makes digs at me, or really if he attempts to assert dominance over me in even the mildest of ways. Dude disrespects me in a highly charged scene, I'll beat his face in and stomp his fuckin testicles. Or more accurately, I'll stop everything, have a confrontation, and humiliate him cruelly (I'm a 6'7" 300lb martial artist, incidentally), actual violence not being necessary unless he pushes it. I do warn them about that ahead of time, or have her warn them about it. And I have been known to dump a girl who fucks a guy after he disrespects me to my face, especially if I tell her about my dislike for the guy or if I had an actual confrontation with him. No tolerance for that type of disrespect from her. Always at least a bad argument coming out of something like that, even if I let the guy slide at the time.

    Generally, what I'm looking for from her after she fucks someone else or a group of someone else's, even if it was at my specific request, is a jealousy-themed bdsm scene, her abject submission and declaration of love and fidelity while I accuse her, humiliate her a bit, punish her for being such a fucking whore, and fuck her as brutally as I can muster, finally culminating in overtures of affection and forgiveness, and appreciation and encouragement for her sluttiness. Frankly, that's hot no matter how many times you do it. But it's by no means necessary, and I don't really get into it half as much unless I actually had the twinge of jealousy to spark the fire. So there you go.

    Anyway, there's lots of reasons a man will want another guy to fuck their girl. Everyone's different. I suggest you communicate thoroughly and honestly.

    And incidentally, I try hard not to disrespect other people at any point, and especially not if I'm fucking someone they care about, though I'll admit I will shoo off a guy or knock him down a peg if I sense she's not all that into him or is intentionally cuckolding him, which has created some minor drama in the past. Price you pay for being a sexually dominant male, I guess.
     
  12. coffeescent

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    This.

     
  13. Mahony61

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    It is something I want my LADY to do
     
  14. linwill

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    I would love to have sex with another man but I am still not 100% convinced my husband will alow it and wants is as much as he says he does.
     
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  15. Mahony61

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    I know I want my LADY to get FUCKED by another man so I can watch. She fucks her ex but I don't get to watch. I certainly want to.
     
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  16. tammy126

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    My husband knows and approves of the guy I have regular sex with. We are very close to this Bi couple and we frequent each other's beds.
     
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  17. tammy126

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    Ah the pleasures of young cock. The hubby and friends were riding motorcycles and I was home alone to wait for the glass repair guy to arrive. Recent storms cracked our huge front picture window and it needed replaced. We he knocked on the door I expected an older scruffy guy to be there. Turns out a very handsome 30 year old was standing there. He was polite and very clean while he worked. I admired his body as he struggled with the window and decided that I wanted to see if I could turn him on. I changed clothes into a very short skirt and a skinny low cut top. When he got done and needed payment he was sitting in the kitchen and I offered a beer and he accepted, I walked past him and bent over to reveal my playpen and turned around only to see him look away. I could see a bulge in his pants so I knew he was horned up. As I wrote the check I sat there where he could see my legs spread enough to see my wet pussy. He knew what I wanted but was too shy. I asked him how many more jobs he had for the day and he said none, this was his last stop. So I walked over to him and said great then you can stick around and have another beer and he said yes that would be great. As we talked he could see me rubbing myself and I could see he was squirming a bit and I asked him he he liked what he saw, he nodded and didn't say a word. I got up and guided his hand to my sloppy wet pussy and while he still had his toll belt on he got up to take it off and I felt the item I wanted most. I undone his well fitted jeans to reveal a nice 7 inch thick cut cock. I went down on him Within moments he was trying to push my head off his cock because he was ready to cum, I grabbed his ass and swallowed every drop of his young cum. He apologized for cumming so quick and I told him that was only the beginning. I grabbed his cock and led him into our guest bedroom and finished undressing him and I was already naked and I laid there legs spread and he wasted no time climbing in and pumped me hard for a few minutes before creaming me. Still wanting more he was ready to leave when I once again grabbed his cock and told him he wasn't done yet. I sucked on his young cock until yes, he was hard again and he once again slid it in and now it was good! After slowly fucking me for about 30 minutes he came again and I could tell this little stud was tired so he thanked me for a wonderful afternoon and got dressed and left. Ah the joys of young inexperienced cock.
     
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  18. undefeated

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    your a good story teller ;)
     
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  19. creamywife

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    My husband use to ask me that while we're having sex,I wouldn't mind to do that for him but for my pleasure to as long as it's safe and comfortable and no string attach.simply just dirty wild sex.
     
  20. Running Man

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    The idea of my wife enjoying another man's cock is one that gives me an instant hard on. I often imagine her being fucked hard and deep as she lies spreadeagled on his bed, taking him balls deep inside her. She knows just how much I want to see this and she's happy to fantasise about it with me.
     

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