I don't care how old you 'think' you are... unless you're in Arkansas or some third world country that limits womens rights what he's doing is illegal and the guy deserves to get a little snip and clip action going on... legally and morally he's raping you.. congratz child... you're getting f*cked by a pedophile who's f*cking you in more than one way..
*cries* im barely 16..... im mature damnit! grrr, im gonna go cry to my mommy, erm, mother... eh just forget it and for the relationship, just be sure, because i was sure that my last gf was just as much in love w/ me as i was in love w/ her, and after a year and a half she dumped me quite randomly, and it really hurts, so have fun but just remember to be careful
Ok... my personal thoughts about your relationship aside, let me add this to the list of advice: GO to your doctor, and ask him/her about endometriosis. You may not have the other symptoms (like bitch-ass cramps, irregular bleeding...) but painful intercourse CAN be a sign of endo. Remember: some womyn have intense pain and very little endo, and some womyn have no pain and have a ton of endo. Just a thought.
I don't need moral lectures from any of you!! If I want a lecture, I can go to my dad, what I was asking was if any of you had any idea what I could do for it to be better. The sex isn't very painful, just the 15 first seconds, and the rest is great. I was using a dildo BEFORE I ever had sex, and it's my fucking call if I want to or not. And let's say, just for the sake of argument, that he was screwing me over; you people don't know me or my boyfriend. You just know our ages. All it does is indicate how long it's been since you came out of your mother's vagina!!!! If he is screwing me over, that's my problem, not yours, so mind your own god damn buisness. If you wanna complain more about how naive and stupid I am, please to it in a private message, so I can read the GOOD advice I was originally ASKING FOR in this thread.
How do you actually no this? You shouldnt be denying anyone the right to be in love. With a post like this, to me you sound like someone who is avoiding the truth, or the inevitable, i.e your 24 yr old bf, dicking you over like so many guys in this forum (who by the way are probably the same age or pretty close to it) have told you. All im trying to say really is to prepare your self for the worst with this relationship (no not be one of those pshyco girl-friends or anything, and not to be paranoid) but just expect it. I mean, whats guna happen when he dumps you??? You'll lock yourself in your room, cry for days and days and days, and then eventually forget to take your medication. Then who knows what will happen next. Anyway, your problem...........um im guna have to say, plenty of lube and take it slowly at 1st. (i've never really had this problem but take care of yourself . ) (you can ignore my post if you want b/c you've gotten so many like this)
Well, if you had had the decensy to send it by pm, then I might not have chosen to ignore it. Like you said. My problem. Thanks for the advice.
According to who!? I don't understand any of you people bashing this girl, you don't know her, or her boyfriend. You're all hung up on stereotypes just because the guy is older dosn't make him perverted. And the age of consent isn't as high as it is in the states as it is in some other countries i.e. Canada. Why is it that any of you think this is wrong in the first place? And the first person to say "It's just wrong" gets a sound trout slapping. /end rant
First of all...age of consent is 16 in Norway... this guy has been f*cking her since she was 14... (according to her homepage)... bingo..we have RAPE... Second of all..what are you jealous? Only a pedophile would defend another pedophile...
http://www.reakwon.net/ringorocks/index.php?action=gallery&showpic=norway03.jpg come to think of it psilonaut...you and him look awfully similar...
What is this, a witch hunt ? If you're not with us, you're one of them! *points finger* Why do you personally think that this is so wrong? I'm defending her because I've known people who have had great relationships with a huge age gap. Personally I don't think I could relate to a girl that much younger than me. But thats just me, it's all perfectly consentsual so I don't see what the problem is.
by your logic it's perfectly consensual for a a 20 year old (like yourself) to be shagging an 11 year old... because they have a 'great' relationship.. I'm 27... I can't even look at a 18 year old without thinking child.. there's a huge emotional gap there... and a 24 year old who gets his rocks off shagging a 14-15 year old needs to have his nuts crushed.. but I guess you'd be there to take pics for them wouldn't you
No 11 years old would definatley be too young, but I've met some very mature 15-16 year old girls. And like I said, personally I couldn't relate to a girl that much younger than me. But everybody matures at different rates, and at 15 years old you're old enough to know whats going on, and if you decide to be in a relationship with an older person thats your decision. What would the difference be if she was dating a guy the same age?
my god...you're so stupid you wouldn't get sh!t if you put your hand up a cows ass.. Did you feel the whiff as what I just said flew over your head?
Man I don't know why I bother to start discussions online, it always ends up with stuff like this. Just explain to me why you think a consensual relationship between these two people is wrong? Obviously they care for eachother and they get along well. So whats the problem?
i saw pictures of them.... i think they look very cute and yes, HAPPY together. she definitly looks older than 16 and he looks younger than 24, in my opinion. plus, they live in norway.. different than america, thats for sure. im not saying that its not wrong in most cases, but there are always exceptions to every "rule". you can't just generalize everyone like that just because you feel like it. when i was 18 i dated a 32 year old... so even though we were both consenting adults, does that make him a bad person for having sex with someone who was 14 years younger? stuff like that does happen..