sex ouchie

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by greeneyedbaby, Oct 2, 2004.

  1. Mui

    Mui Senior Member

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    you let your parents meet your 25 year old bf...
    and they didnt do anything

    WOW that is so fucking scary
     
  2. greeneyedbaby

    greeneyedbaby Member

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    Since when is my boyfriend 25?

    First, we had a relationship that they didn't know about.
    He encouraged me to tell my parents, so we could see eachother more often.
    I've been struggling a lot with depression, and am not the usual 15 year old chick, not physically or mentally.
    First I told my mom, who of course, was worried, but agreed to meet him.
    She then witnessed how happy her extremely depressed daughter was, and what a wonderful person her boyfriend was.
    My dad, was pissed off, but got to know him, and didn't want to admit it, but also liked him.

    And, excuse me, but WOW...
    If you don't want your child's own good, when she's on the verge of suicide, you are gonna be a really awful parent, Mui.
    now THAT is so fucking scary.
     
  3. The World of Dan

    The World of Dan FSMFTW

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    My friend had that problem... if you're not used to having sex, you might need to gently ease it open gradually... - I would suggest going and seeing your doctor about it, but in the meantime, something that helped my friend is using a dildo to help streath the area a bit.. Don't go crazy or anything, and never force it, but I think if you do it long enough, you'll loosen up a bit.
     
  4. Mui

    Mui Senior Member

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    and my bad, 24, it was a typo

    "oh im depressed so im going to go out with this guy 9 years older than me online... that'll help"

    than when you find out how much hes trying to fuck you over,
    that wont help with your depression very much

    get a boy your own age
     
  5. greeneyedbaby

    greeneyedbaby Member

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    yeah, i have a dildo, i guess i should use it..lol
    thanks
     
  6. The World of Dan

    The World of Dan FSMFTW

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    The funny thing, with my friend it was a bit of a daily CHORE having to masturbate with her dildo every day.. but she did it so she could have painless sex (and it worked)... The good thing about you is that I'm sure you ENJOY using your dildo... and hey, this is as good an excuse to masturbate as any :D - Twice a day for the rest of your life should do it :D LOL
     
  7. greeneyedbaby

    greeneyedbaby Member

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    aww, hunny..
    you just went from provokative to pathetic.
    the fact that he's 9 years older doesn't matter, as long as he makes me happy.
    he's not fucking me over.
    He's kept me from killing myself about 3 times during 7 months.
    But you're right. That doesn't help my depression much.
    I guess I'll dump him.
    Just because some guy who's probably never been truly in love says it's sick, even though he doesn't know the situation.

    Go fuck yourself, darling.
    And please, pm me your address, I'd love to invite you to our wedding:)
     
  8. greeneyedbaby

    greeneyedbaby Member

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    yeah, I enjoy it, it's just a bit boring sometimes *rotfl*
    anyway, it was a good idea.
    I'll start adding that to my daily "to-do" list;) :p
     
  9. The World of Dan

    The World of Dan FSMFTW

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    • Wake up
    • Get dressed
    • Eat breakfast
    • Buy a paper
    • Go to school
    • Come home
    • Masturbate
    • Brush teeth
    • Go to bed
    Sounds good to me LOL
     
  10. Mui

    Mui Senior Member

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    LMAO!
    Im telling you these things for your own good.
    You know what a good solution is for depression?

    Lots of Prozac and lots of Therapy
    damn it sounds like you need it.

    and oh yes, i've never been in love... i dont know what its like... *buzz* WRONG!
    I've been in "love" a few times. I had an online girlfriend for 3 years... i had known her for 8 years online... we met lots of times... we broke up very brutally (which is inevitable for such young relationships)... and i tried to kill myself with sleeping pills and by suffocating myself.

    If you are having feelings of c onstant depression and suicide, online relationships with 24 year old pedophiles arent going to help you.
     
  11. gEo_tehaD_returns

    gEo_tehaD_returns Senior Member

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    Oh, if I had a nickel for every time some guy in his mid twenties had a girl convinced that they had some true love going between them, then fucked them over badly. . . .

    This dude is a crutch for you. You're convinced he loves you, and it makes your depression go away. Almost like a drug. Of course you wouldn't accept the possibility that he might be some shitfaced ass mangler. The "love" is too appealing, too NECESSARY to let go of. Without it, you're really depressed. But if the guy screws you over, it will be so much worse.''

    I have NEVER seen a successful relationship of this type. That doesn't mean they don't exist, but the ones that succeed are so incredibly rare, even when the girl is convinced that this wonderful love will last forever and all that, that I advise you to think very long and hard about this. Wouldn't want to end up like the girl in that picture, would you?
     
  12. greeneyedbaby

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    I don't use prozac, I use zoloft, and I go to therapy once a week.
    maybe you've been in "love" a few times, but you've never been in love.
    Someone who's truly been in love, wouldn't write love with those thingies on each side.
    And yes, an online relationship with a 24 year old DOES help me, and your statement above proved just how little you know me.
    Now please, don't speak to me again, ever, I strongly dislike you, and chose to ignore you and your immature little tush for the rest of the time I have left to live.
     
  13. greeneyedbaby

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    You don't know me, my boyfriend, or our situation.
    Even if he did screw me over so badly, don't you think my parents would've recognised that?
    Don't you think he'd do everything in his power to avoid meeting my parents?
    Do you really think he'd want to move from his job, work, friends and home to be with me, if he's just fucking me over, when my parents will surely turn him in to the police if that is the case?
    I'm not convinced that true love exists, he's more convinced about that than I am. I'm not a naive little preppy girl who's favourite thing in the world is like OMG uhm, like so totally pink lollipops, and like britney, and the really cute guy that sits in front of me in math class..

    Don't judge me, my boyfriend, or my family, before you know us.
    If you had talked to me, got to know me, or my boyfriend or my family, then i would respect your opinion, but you don't know anything about me.
    You just know our age.
    And that is a weak, weak foundation for an attack of this sort.
    And even if he was fucking me over, which he isn't, then that's my problem.
    Not yours.
     
  14. greeneyedbaby

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    LMAO
    And on saturdays, I might be able to change the school for the masturbating.
     
  15. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    The girl just made a valid point. Whether or not she is getting screwed over is not the issue she posted about. Ignore that fact and get back on subject. She wanted to know how to get "loose"
    I think you are well on your way. Your body will naturally loosen up as you reach puberty and sex won't hurt anymore. In fact in 10 years, I will bet that you will have a hard time getting off on normal size men. So enjoy while you are young.
     
  16. greeneyedbaby

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    thanks. hmmm, well. i guess it's safe to say i've already reached puberty.. I got my period when I was 9 years old. Two days after my sister, who is four years older..lol.. anyway, thanks for the tip.:)
     
  17. Mui

    Mui Senior Member

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    you are stupid,
    i will leave y ou alone now with your pedophile boyfriend

    i will let you figure out t hings on your own

    peace
     
  18. superNova

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    i agree about the lube, that'll prolly solve your problems :) and a little soreness after a while is kinda normal with a guy of any.. girth and stamina. :)

    and judgemental presumptious people suck, and you don't have to justify yourself to them :D do what makes you happy.

    i'd say juuust as many 15 year old boys have screwed over 15 year old girls as 24 year old guys ;)
     
  19. greeneyedbaby

    greeneyedbaby Member

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    THANK YOU!
    The maturity level of guys my age isn't exactly boyfriend-material.
     
  20. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    be carefull. I was in your exact situation almost. I felt like I was too cultured to be with guys my own age and found myself in a really controling relationship for 5 years with somomes too old for me. Just think with your head a little more and less with your heart. Sex was painfull at 18 I couldn't imagine how much it would hurt at 15. My only advice to you is that you are too young to be having sex. just my opinion though.
     

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