It's a real turnon for me when I hear others getting it on. I just grab on and pretend I'm joining in with them.
My wife is the same way. She’s pretty quiet at home because of the kids but much noises when we’re away. I definitely love hearing her make noise so that I know I’m pleasuring her and it’d be nice if she was louder at home. I’d rather have her fully enjoy sex than be quiet just because of the kids. It’s all natural and loving anyway. No reason to hide it!
Now I feel bad about being church-mouse quiet. I guess it was from always as a youth living in homes with other people around.
I jerk preschool years, I usually had to do it in silence (other people, I wouldn't go into detail publicly). I rarely had to be quiet during sex, but we managed it somehow.
I used to hear our neighbor girl fuck all the time. Challenge accepted! We definitely both knew we were in a competition for who was the loudest! We made things so much hotter for each other! Let the neighbors hear ya, maybe your improving their sex lives
I agree. Listening to and imagine what and how the neighbors are doing it is very sexciting, a real turn on.
I live in my own apt complex on the edge of campus, and so it's full of students. I trained myself to be quiet. I'm not silent, but no one's going to hear me other than the occasional "oooh" when I orgasm. Unfortunately, I have a reputation so they probably know what the ooh sound means. Apparently my nickname is or was "lady Dismisku" or something like that, which I found out is a lady vampire in some video game, and I'm still yet to learn if that's a good or bad thing. Probably because I'm the only one here that's over the age of 26. Anyway, I can hear my neighbors from time to time, usually just the floor above me, though. The initial reason why I trained myself to be quiet was because I used to have this one student who leased the floor above me, and she was a loud screamer. Not moaning, but literal screaming. It sounded like someone being stabbed to death. Eventually I asked if she could do that without screaming and joked that her partner must have been Vlad the Impaler. She told me that she couldn't help it anymore than I could because she could hear me too. I was so embarrassed because I didn't think that I was that loud and thus began my conscious effort to keep it down.
When we’re spontaneous, we don’t use the ball gag. She tries not to be too loud but she can’t help it. She’s even loud when I’m spanking her. I need to move to a small house so we can really Get kinky…
As most of you know, sex for me is rather intense and so are my orgasms. Even if I didn’t moan and scream, the sound of sir being forced out of me or the impact of flesh on flesh can be loud as well. My flat is high end and very well insulated so unless I am out on the balcony, you wouldn’t know what was going on. My mountain cabin is well insulated as well, but I do a lot of outdoor sex and above tree-line, the sounds can travel quite a distance and depends also on any sound from wind.
I can't have quiet sex. I never could. Maybe it's being a NY'er all my life, everything we do is so fucking loud, literally. LOL. My neighbors hate me now because our walls are so thin in my townhouse complex. I can hear them when they are having their mouse-like sex by my headboard. I can tell it's a few thrusts with the squeaks of a mattress. I would absolutely die if my sex-life turned into that. When I get a visit from Mr. California, it's like I am literally wailing a Siren's song. The noise and the whole earthquake are the best part of sex.
I cannot imagine being quiet when I cum! Nor can I imagine my wife being quiet when she cums. My wife was so surprised the first time we fucked and I was quite loud. She told me her ex-husband was so quiet she never knew if he did cum. I've always thought it natural to totally let yourself go.