sex and "I love you"s

Thank you for giving me a concrete exemple that confirm what i say.
You and what you just said.
LOL!



Are oyu saying that specialists in paleontology have no knowledge of their field of research because htey never actually lived at that period of time?
Are you saying that a surgon knowledge is draged to nothing as long as he doesnt have experienced all possible form of operations?
Did i said somewhere that i was an expert? or did you told yourself that?
You self say that you are unable to understand my writings due to your lack of general knowledge, the very low amount of litterature you have read in your life, and the lack of general knowledge that all your telling exhude.
So when oyu ackknowledge being unable to understand what I say, how can you feel intitled to criticise everything i say, and that you do not understand at all??
It doesnt make sense. As being unable to understand it, you cant agree nor disagree with its contain. You dont know what the contain is!
And I also wished to tell you that i know many many american people of all age that i meet regulary here, where I live, and talk to friends over the phone, living in the US, almost every single day.
You can be born in the US and dont know a shit about it, as not having any other reference point but your own narrow view on it with no knowledge of other country and cultures and not even a basic knowledge of your own country.
Books have been written about the subject by american writers that you most certainly never heard about.
If you dont know what to say, abstain.
Never resort to racism, discrimination, nor cheap agression.
My knowledge of american was doen through years of being in contact with americans, but since I am in forums I have been seeing a side of the mentality i had already noticed in the people i am in contact with, but with many others worse components, and who is quiet worrying. To put it nicely.


PS: fuck the nationalists!

 

Why aren't there more guys like you?...

 

is that sarcastic?

 

I think she's being sincere, Duck. She gave you applause, not the finger!

 

^^ i haave to agree with her! i wish there were more guys like you. guys today are too much with the i love yous and the baby baby talk. its good to wait on the i love you. girls respect you more when you finally do say it. you show her, not tell her

 

Oh, no, is that what you think?...
I'm really happy to meet a guy who cares about his girlfriend's feelings, who's sensitive and as a 18 year old male virgin (bless you for that, my soulbrother, I know how hard that is) you're making a big deal out of first sex which you want to be perfect and with the girl you love...
And

, seriously, why aren't there many guys like you?....
peace out

 

PLEASE DON'T SPEAK FOR ALL WOMEN.to insinuate the way you feel as the way all women feel is ludacris.

 

if it's true meanigful love you don't always need words, at times you can see love in the eyes,and in the smiles we give. i have been with my bf for 7 years he is the sweetest thing in the world and i know he loves me and i don't need him to say it all the time.

 

looks like the shoe is on the other foot huh lorna?????

 

your knowledge of music is as much as your knowledge of women and multi cultural issues.none, sting did not do that song eric clapton did and if you read the lyric as you state "how many times must i say i love you beofre you finally understand"does not support your argument. he is saying i love you over and over again and she still doesn't understand, so maybe he needs to show her, like actions speak louder than words.SOME PEOPLE HEAR THE WORDS BUT THEY AREN'T ALWAYS GENUINE AND SOMETIMES IT'S THE ACTIONS THAT MAKE US BELIEVERS.

 

SO AREN'T WE ALL.the best advice yet..

 

age has nothing to do with advice.or genuine feelings(lorna)so for you to say but your only 17 is absolutley ridiculous. this young person has more knowledge in his little pinky than you have in your whole body.

 

I agree
sometimes the best advice comes from suprising places
I've seen 13 year olds give better advice than 50 year olds in some threads
experience may give you knowledge, but it also bring biases

and 17 isn't even all that young
honestly, I've matured a shitload in the last year or so (definently more tahn any single year, but not so much that any opinions or thoughts I had when I was 16 or 17 are null and void

 

again blah blah blah blahb blah, you have alot of room to talk.you should practice what u preach.mrs. i can't type , i can't form sentences and i can't make a valid point ever on any of my sorry ass misquoted and ill advised posts.you say "never resort to racism, disrimination or cheap aggression"and then one long incoherant sentence later you end your post with a p.s. fuck the natialist, LOOK UP THE WORD HYPOCRITE, THEN LOOK IN THE MIRROR. if by defining nationalist means to be a patriot, and one who loves and defends his country, i am proud to say i am a nationalist, thanking god you were born somewhere other than the u.s.i don't need to know about your country and quite frankly you represnt them horribly. i am an american and proud of it can you say the same????oh yeah, as i have so eloquently stated on all your posts, i feel the need to repeat myself because apparantly you have no comprehension skills either, i understand writings that are legible, credible, and grammatically correct, your posts however i do not get.

 

It is more important showing love than saying I love you, it is also important to say it. I dont think its bad that you havent say "I love you", it'll just make it more special when you do, you need to say it when it feels right for you... though if you already feel it, why not say it? (I know you already said why and those are good reasons), but it is important to have a combination of both things, the saying and the showing, it is what makes you believe in its realness, but ultimately feeling it, is what really matters.
do it when you feel its time, but its so good and fun and more real when you are spontanous when it comes to feelings, without rationalizing it so much..
good luck with your relationship it does sounds nice

 

Hiya Duck! Congrats on “waiting”! Truly. And WOW… a guy who wants to be sure of himself & his feelings before declaring his love for a girl. Girls reading this everywhere are sighing & dreaming of meeting a guy just like you. (seriously)

To be honest though, I think I’d have a hard time having ANY type of intimate/romantic relationship with a guy that was afraid to say “I love you.” Girls aren’t wired quite the same way as guys, and sometimes we really just need to hear the words… even if the actions are there too. I don’t think she’d feel that you’re saying it just to get sex – after 6 months together, she might be getting a bit worried if you HAVEN’T said it by now!
love,
mom

 

I reckon that I would assume that if I didn't know her
she is really rational, I'm probably the more emotional one in the relationship =P

I considered maybe she would wait for the l-word before sex
but I'm pretty sure she's a bit more open minded than that

if not, we'll see who's more patient and stubborn :tongue:
and if it takes too long, I'll probably end up changing my mind anyways =P

 

Just tell her! I'm sure you'll get plenty of touch(I'm not being fresh, I agree with your previous assertion of touch not necessarily equating sex) and you'll finally be at peace with this (would-be non-)issue.

 

I totally understand where you're coming from, Duck. I'm a female who has felt pressured...

I don't anymore. But in the past, I was insecure and let myself become way too vulnerable. I felt like I HAD to do it or else the guy would think I didn't want him. It's awful the way girls sometimes feel...

 

people let society affect them too much
tis sad, but it's never gonna end