Sex addiction

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by Runner woman, May 11, 2020.

  1. Littleshygirl

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    Ok but time was never mentioned. Maby he was done in 10 minutes and paid 100 so that would be a potential 600 and hr lol.
     
  2. Angela36

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    Damn I'm in the wrong business! :smiley:
     
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  3. bft4evr

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    And its most likely tax free, unless you're in Nevada.
     
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  4. Angela36

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    And more importantly, much more fun.
     
  5. Bicaptain My Captain

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    A regular claimed she brought in about $250,000 a year and paid state and federal taxes.
     
  6. Angela36

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    Like they say, variety is the spice of life.
     
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  7. cindy94

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    Damn that's a lot of money...
     
  8. Htownfreak713

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    Lets have fun then lol
     
  9. Curiouscouple2469

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    Ha-ha this forum is sounding much more like cash addiction....
     
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  10. Htownfreak713

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    Sex and cash go hand and hand who dont love sex and money lol
     
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  11. Angela36

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    True, I guess. I can surely see how sex addiction could lead to prostitution.
     
  12. el demente

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    Seems like around here $100 will get you about a half an hour. An hour on average seems to run around $200-$250. A few years ago escorts were around the $120 range for your typical BackPage escort. High end ones ran more. Don't ask me how I know. LOL

    Sex addiction is a thing for sure and yes it can make you take risk you normally wouldn't take.
     
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  13. Bicaptain My Captain

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    Long gone are the days you could get a $25 blowjob at a strip club.
     
  14. Camel 56

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    I am in my mid sixties and I either shag or masturbate every day.
    If it's a shag it will be one of a list of young ladies that are available at fairly short notice or one of the local escorts who advertise on-line. For masturbation, I normally watch porn and then knock one off.
    So I don't think an addiction, rather highly sexed.
     
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  15. SonjaOne

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    If it affects your ability to function, it's an addiction -- otherwise, you just got a high libido.
     
  16. PrincessLara

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    Indeed, sex addiction can cause many problems. Perhaps, all starts from our head. I consider that every person who is addicted needs in good psychologist first of all. Only just when he’ll try to understand himself and his problem, he can get good treatment. Furthermore, no reason to support someone who doesn’t think that he is addicted. Most likely sex addicted people suffer significant problems in establishing a family. I don’t understand how is possible to have sex with someone only because you need satisfaction but not in true feelings. I would recommend addressing at Rehab Clinics For Drug & Alcohol Addiction Treatment London & Kent where specialists can return people to ordinary life. One of my friends was in a deep depression when her ex left her. She received treatment in the Promis and today she looks indeed more superb. Ultimately, sex addiction remains a more moral question than a disease.
     
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  17. NubbinsUp

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    Note: the OP was banned by HF two days after starting this thread, and after less than one year here.

    You won't find sex addiction in the DSM-5, nor in any earlier version. The only recognized addiction that doesn't involve a substance ingested, inhaled, or injected is gambling. Even gambling is still somewhat controversial because it didn't meet every standard for being termed an addiction. At least one waiver was granted in the process of its inclusion.

    Sex addiction may be recognized as a disorder in the future, but no one has been willing or able to do the empirical research that would be required. In some cases, research has been terminated when it produced contra indicators. According to behavioral science, not a real thing, not yet, maybe not ever.

    There are compulsive and obsessive behaviors that involve sex, but they aren't addictions. Similarly, there are compulsive toothbrushers, but they aren't addicts.
     
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  18. SweetFoxy

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    I agree. Sex addiction can add a lot of problems in your life, especially if you try to build family. But everything begins from our early education and our moral values. I didn't know about this rehab centre. I hope your friend is ok now. I'm grateful those specialists who try to come back addicted people to the normal way of life
     
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  19. Curiouscouple2469

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    I agree with PrincessLara
    "Indeed, sex addiction can cause many problems. Perhaps, all starts from our head"
    I know mine gets Purple and throbs and it certainly hurts if not addressed - that can be a problem. lol

    All joking aside; if what NUBBINSUP is saying is fact then we have a long way to go in understanding sex addiction.
    I find it hard to believe that we are required to put something into our bodies, perhaps even regularly and at times uncontrollably, before it is recognized as an issue.

    I have a friend who had to seek treatment for sex addiction and at the time was surprised. We were very similar in our a sexual behaviours and patterns and it made me stop and look at my own life.
    I believe many of us are born with ailments that go unchecked far too often and so they then develop slowly over time till they become a problem. (More to PL's point above)
    Then we start to look at addressing it, modifying it, treating it, stopping it, reversing it, etc....

    The issue with early detection of Sex addiction, I would think (being in no way an expert of any kind) is we don't recognize, first what is a healthy "normal" sex drive.
    Without a baseline of any kind how then do you recognize what is over or under that line and by how far. Who knows what that looks like? Certainly not a young person starting out in the new world of sex and all its amazing pleasures we were not aware of. Often not spoke of or explained or even open for discussion with anyone but your own peers who are fumbling their way along too.

    For the first 10-plus years it is an addiction "for most people" in a sense that it is what drives us in our day to day quest to find a partner for life.
    So perhaps it is well advanced by the time we realize, well no its more than just trying to find someone compatible, its now taking on a life of its own and I have a hard time thinking of anything else.
    Even with the person I love I continue to have a thirst for new or more or different.

    Add in the folks who are like a functioning drug addict or alcoholic who can manage it for the most part and go undetected - however the minute they are out of sight they are on the hunt for the next fix.
    Again no expert, however I am aware that I am just this type, that although in control on a daily basis (I believe) - I am addicted to drugs, alcohol and sex. They are driving factors every day of my life and although a small problem, a problem none the less with great potential to become larger if not careful. So many relationships and even friendships that have been destroyed because I needed to take it to a sexual level even knowing that once I did, the "Friendship" would suffer but then do it anyway. Or reconnecting with past lovers time and time again knowing I had no interest other than having sex and not even enjoying it at times, and knew I wouldn't up front. Did it anyway..., WTF?

    Its a complicated beast this thing called life.
    Be safe, stay healthy and share love no matter your path.
     
  20. I am onboard with all you wrote and it suddenly brought something to mind.

    When I was in my early 20s I used to love deer hunting season. I didn’t hunt but all the husbands/BFs were at Deer Camp several hours away. So while they hunted deer I hunted for married pussy at the local watering holes and Country bars. At least 90% of the time I’d find a woman who would take me home to fuck.

    And every one of these married woman wanted me to fuck them in their marital bed. No problem.
     
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