Seriously Now....

boringtree · Sep 15, 2004

i don think ide date a midget, you could not trust them enough.

ide have no problem dating a limb-less person

soulinafishbowl · Sep 15, 2004

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Shane99X · Sep 15, 2004

soulinafishbowl said:

i dont think ur shallow for saying such a thing. i think ur honest. one thing i have seen though and i have done this myself in the past is that sometimes its so easy to sum someone up based on what they have and dont have. i think sometimes alot of people live by what society says is beautiful or not beautiful and are ruled by that. like adding up someones self worth for a future. what will people think of me. its why u see rich men with beautiful model type women or ex porn stars. sometimes not because of that person but exactly what that person says about them. if ur dating a porn star. hey look at me. this women had so much sex and the biggest dicks and she stopped it all because of me. a beautiful women. look at my worth. she is apart of my image. do u ever hear a man talk to his mates and say omg she was the worst phuck. but u hear a man say she had the best tits, best ass. take it as apart of their image. its the same with women and i am not running anyone down here but im just explaining things in life that sometimes we dont see. why do u think a women asks about a mans job sometimes or what they do and if a guy came up to u in the bar and u asked him what he did and he said. i dont do anything i am on a pension, u then sometimes can move from that and look at his looks and ur adding him up. i know many women who would never date a man with no job and its about security and what that person can bring to u down the line. we dont see right now, we see a future. im not saying this is always the case but if u look in bars and people who do go out and try and find someone. in their minds they have set standards and know what they want or dont want. or if a man had 3 kids and was a single dad. a women would look at that if she was single with no kids and think straight way sometimes. i dont want any part of that. cause they see him as a future and what he will bring to her life. its why women also brag about the man they have met to her friends and one of the first things that come out of there mouth is. he does this and that for a living, he is so hot. its saying to ur friends. i got a catch. what does tha say about me. all these things we are not aware of and we just do them like second nature and its just from like i said earlier the way society has led us to believe we have to live. what is beautiful, what is not, what is good, what is bad, how our lives are to unfold to be a accepted memeber of society. like married with kids, big house and then u have made it. its why women who are not married and no kids get labelled old maid. like she is no good, she is getting all used up and for nothing. like ur less and its why women sometimes get married and same as men under pressure of families and what they should do and not really about what they want or how they want to live. i lived my life for 30 years and i lived it keeping everyone else happy to there came a day and i thought. what the fuck. why am i living such a life for other people. i dont want security. i dont want kids. i dont want this. then i said. what do i want and i ruled out everyone around me and the influences they have had. when it came down to it. i just wanted to be happy. when i look at someone and think well he does not work or maybe he is sick. i say to myself. how would u feel if someone looked at u and said. u dont have enough money, or ur not good enough, or ur sick so ur used up, u have kids already so i see u as used by goods. do we ever wonder how a man feels when he over hears women saying. omg his penis was so small, i wont be with him again. its just so shallow and how would u feel if a man said to u. o i cant be with u because ur vagina is too big. all this stuff is so shallow. i guess i am very fortunate that i met a man who loves me for me. i was going through radiation and had no hair, i was sick, got told i could die and thought that i could not be loved. no one would love me because and i added myself up. look at my worth. i am nothing and i was basing that on society and what they say is good or nothing. it took me a long time to realise that it means nothing and i started to love myself. i am not less and nor is no one else because they are sick. u just have to ask urself. how do i want to be treated and take otehrs feeling into account and treat others the way u wish to be treated. i am not having a go at any of u neither. we all live our lives by what we believe and i value and admire ur honesty. i lived a life by material possessions and adding people up for 30 years and i was very unhappy. im just ranting about this because if u can see past our behaviours and what we do and choose to do based on our care of what tohers think or expect of us. then maybe u will want to live a life for u. by ur standards of beauty. when u thin ur less u can actually see ur eerything and ur unique and learn to love urself. look at others and love them for who they are as a individual and see beauty in them when others tell u that they can not. the body is just a crust. women are women an dmen are men but what makes them make ur heat miss a beat or give u that feeling inside. it isnt because they are just a man. it isnt because ur just a women. its because u r u and ur a individual. just remember to turn the tables. if u think about this about this person because and write them off by something superficial, ask urself, how would u feel that u r geting added up also by someone. someone saying to u. u r not deserving of love or my love becasue u have no legs. ur an unlovible person. u cant be loved because u are a single mother and have kids. if u know anyone with kids and who are single parents. people always think that there out for security and looking for a father. look at those people who think that. they are adding them up and saying. i am going to write u off because u want a future, when in fact, they are doing the same thing. people talk of prostitues and how bad it is. a prostitute sells their body for one night and leave. most of us sell ourselves or buy someone elses identity and we are doing exactly the same thing but its not for 1 night. its for a future.
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kppdlevel1 · Sep 15, 2004

Well honestly no I wouldn't

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