My partner feels a lot better about herself when she has showered. I like it any way I can get it, but it gives her more pleasure to be clean then it's better for both of us.
You misread. OP wants her as she is, within reason. SHE wants to shower off first. I'm in the shower if you can tribe. Make new funk!
For me, the woman doesn't have to be freshly showered and squeaky clean; a sweaty or musky pussy is yummy. Just don't taste like piss!!