Scary Men

You just get a bad vibe......it's like they radiate their intentions and you just know you had better get away. The instincts kick in. Unfortunately it usually takes a bad experience to awaken those instincts.

And Michael(telepylus), this isn't just about men. The OP is a female, so of course her experiences would be mostly men. There have always been sick women too, but it has never been 50/50, so you are the one who is being ignorant.

 

:$ hey im from SD :& wait nevermind people look at me funny too



wait i forgot to say....
trust your insticts thats about it
because if you get that creepy feeling from a guy its like a primal radar women have ..ok not just women and not all women either...i am way bad about picking out the creeps but i have gotten that feeling before and it seems to be a pretty acurate feeling

i have a story but blahh i don't think anybody would want to read it so blah

 

people from south dakota smell like freeze dried cow poop amd even get starred at by blind people

 

your just jealous cause...cause.....
well im not sure why but yea you are
i know these things...trust me :X

 

I could go for a story, lay it on me mama...

 

ok but only for you shroom...

anywho.....

I was at a park with some friends and we were just foolin around and stuff and some other people showed up well all cool so far cept one of the guys that was in this other group sent chills running down my spine...and not in that yummy good way either...well after having our child like fun we decided to leave
being the tard i am i had left my sandles behind and had to go back to get them...well low and behold the creepy feeling guy who had a likewise creepy habbit of staring ..ewww ya know...he just happened to be sitting right by my shoes...so i put on the best brave front i could and walked right over and picked up my shoes....mistake he wanted to talk he said...he said that he waited there for me that he had noticed i had forgot them and wanted to have a chat with me...ok not too creepy right hes being honest and stuff right...wrong trust that feeling in your gut that says run...cause i didn't i thought to myself jeeze maybe i am being way too parinoid but when i told him that i wouldn't mind staying but my friends were waiting for me he flipped he grabbed me and pushed me down...this is where i will end this story but you probally don't need me to finish it either...point is that i like to joke and stuff but that feeling you get from certain people is like a safe gaurd...learn to trust it
sorry for the long blahh blahh blahhhh

 

sweetie i am sorry...
it wasn't long or blah or anything...thank you for sharing it..
I will find the SOB and shank'em

I know it is like a safe guard and I think its interesting that it is correct mostly all the time...

 

' hi there , im the creepy guy who stares at you all the time , ive been wanking off in your shoes and am wondering if you would like go acompany me to a dark alley ' .....realy where do peeps like that come from or go to later ?

 

yea actually its an interesting lil bugger of a feeling

hell yea lets go shankin tonight
i have this lil knife its like only an inch big
but i call it my lil shank


they come from thier mommies tummies and they go on about thier creepy ways
i suppose......but yea i kinda wonder if karma ever got ahold of this one

 

Can we please keep this on topic? Manko, cool it.

 

well, anytime a woman says anything bad about a man, men take it as a slam again all men. and vice versa. the fact is, i've only ever had one truly creepy experience with a woman, and PLENTY with men. however, i have many men in my life whom i adore, and i have seen women do shitty things to them. however, only one ever threatened a man's physical well being.

 

Even a man's going to be more afraid of creepy men than creepy women, isn't that a given?

 

well, yeah, especially if they're bigger, which in my case is the normal course of events. i've never been stalked by a crazy woman. i know it happens, but it's never happened to me.

 

I've had a crazy woman try to run me off the road with her car. Her bf at the time was an ex of mine, and she had crazy ideas that he might leave her for me......he and I didn't speak for the whole 2 years he was with her.....Then he realised she was nuts. He told me that she was obsessed with me and always accused him of wanting to be with me...

So there's an example nutty woman threatening a man's well being (and mine). But I still say there's more men than women.....

 

Exactly.

So many times I myself have been treated this way and I doubt that I have any friends who haven't been. It just happens all the time.

Even after all the crap that I have been through, I have repeatedly tried to ignore my first impressions if I felt sorry for someone, like with the stalker that I posted about. I didn't want to be paranoid. Over and over again I have wished that I had just listened to my instincts.

Trust your instincts.

Some guys seem to think that if you don't lunge at them with a meat cleaver when they look at you, it must mean that you want them. :$

 

always trust yer instincts...if someone "feels" creepy and isn't...so wot? they were strangers anyway

if someone "feels" creepy and yer intincts are right.....then yer ignore them...yeesh.....things are gonna get messy.

besides, if it wasn't for instincts , Goths wouldn't have any friends...they go outa their way to look creepy

 

You don't need to feel like your story is a burden on us. I hope that it will encourage someone else to trust their creep radar and avoid going through the same thing. And if it makes you feel better to write about it, do it.

I think this kind of thing is far more common than some people realize.

I'm sorry you went through that.

 

I'd like to emphasize what so many women here have said:

Trust your instincts/feeling/intuition

 

I understand how if you've got real things to be afraid of, it's better to be safe than sorry. But I can tell you that your instincts misfire all the time. I'll be walking down the street, and I can feel a woman tense up just because I'm walking towards her. When all I'm there to say is "hey, your tail light's out" or "do you have the time?" or even if I'm really just walking past her.

And that happened a lot more when i looked "weird". Long hair and a big beard and all. Now that I look normal, I get that much less, although my intentions towards women haven't changed.

For a masculine perspective on this, check out the "Guilt" thread in the Men's Issues forum. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=94079

 

Maybe it isn't "fair" but womyn have to be safe, rather than sorry. I'd rather some dude get his shorts in a bunch because I "tensed up" when he walked by, then trusting the wrong dude and getting raped.