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I think people just aren't willing to admit that cheating happens a lot more than they know. Out of everyone I know who has been in a long relationship, I can only think of maybe one or two people who have been completely loyal. I think shit just happens. Cheating is like.. temptation. People give into temptation once in a while.

The fact of the matter is most cheating goes under the radar because a) the cheater didn't get caught or b) the cheater will never ever mention it or admit to it......

I don't know. Maybe my brain is fucked up lol.

 

Sex is temptation, cheating is betrayal. Though I have a hard stance on it from watching it happen with my parents, while I was growing up......I enforce 0 tolerance. But I know a lot of good people who have forgiven cheaters. Some of them are happy now, but with most it happened again, and becomes a reoccurring thing.

I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever had, but I've never cheated or looked past it.

 

single
I don't have time to worry about that with all the other things I choose to think about.

 

I think that is the main reason why I would choose to end a relationship if I was cheated on. If someone has cheated and betrayed your trust once, then they are capable of doing the same thing again. Trust has to be the most important thing in a relationship. And for me at least, trust only has to be broken once, and it can never be fully gotten back after that. Someone would only have to betray me once, and I'd never be able to fully trust that person again. I could forgive a cheater, but I don't think I could remain in a relationship with one.

 

Got a fiance. I'm shocked daily at how much we are alike and how many things we agree on, but I still learn something new from him on a regular basis. Sometimes I wonder if I'm doing it right, the whole relationship thing, because I am a pretty selfish person and commitment doesn't come easily to me (I say after being with him for almost 7 years), but I can't honestly see myself with anyone else. I couldn't ask for a better fit for me, and it would be stupid to take something like that for granted. So yes, I am happy. And grateful.

 

Thanks, love is trying to tame insanity, its easy for any one not involved to say walk away etc but when your feelings are involved reality becomes blurrrrrrry

 

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you just took a break?

I have to agree a relationship is one of the hardest thing I worked on

 

Single i'm fine with that because i got other things on my mind

 

Damn Faelixx, 17 years older - I can only imagine the "advice" you get on that. Don't worry, they'll stop caring once you turn 30.

 

We broke up for bout 6 months. Had a lot of problems and worked them out.

 

Single. But I hope to find a wonderful lady to spend the rest of my life with. I don't want to get traditionally married. But common law is good.

 

Im currently single, but i am only with one woman at the moment. She happens to be one of my closest friends, sister! lol

 

In a relationship
Over 20 years
Frankly fed up ... but financially trapped

 

You are such a psycho!!!! lol. My boyfriend is 8 years older than me and I thought THAT was a lot. but 17 years? You crazy bitch

What does a committed common law marriage type of thing mean? Did you like apply for that, or if you are with someone for 2 years, in Canada, it's considered a common law marriage?

Confuseed. and hey, fuck what everyone says/thinks. opinions are like assholes. if you're happy, then awesome for you

 

I'm in a relationship... its been a year and a half. long distance. i live in Denver, he lives in Philadelphia. It's very difficult at times, and we've had our problems, but it's been worth it. He's moving out here in May, so I'm super excited. I love him a lot and we are very happy

 

Sounds terrible. Sorry.

 

Sorry I didn't come back to this sooner. She was a suicidal seventeen year old girl and he was an inexperienced eighteen year old guy. It began as a new friendship, but she kept pushing for more, threatening suicide if he wouldn't submit. (I was out of town when it began.) They never had sex, but he let a bit of fooling happen. She'd call him every night and such. It went on for a month. It was a bullshit situation and everyone was immature. He tried to leave her multiple times. It wasn't his intention to hurt anyone and I made myself understand that. I am aware he handled it badly. But yeah, everyone got hurt.

Meh, we're young. Mistakes happen. I trust him enough to feel he won't put me through that again. We've discussed it thoroughly in the past couple of months.

 

Single. Been single for a long time.