Relationship and Trust problems

my bad

 

thank you moving cloud i was simply trying to explain that trust can be rebuilt
respect & communication builds trust
& you can understand any actions if you just try to understand the reasons behind them,
often mistrust, or the tendency to act untrustworthy comes from deeply embedded beliefs engrained into you, the belief that your partner would cheat leads you to cheat,. or the belief that all people do leads you to expect it & reacte before it happends, trust takes alot of communicating about how u feel when each one of you acts certain ways. & how u treat eahother

whenj trust is broken, it takes extra care to rebuild it, & it can take time & the 1 who broke the trust will have to understand if suspicions arise

to the original poster, you both have a real chance to grow from this & become stronger & better people
be gentle with eachothr & try to understand & support eachother to make better decisions in the future
& recognize what put u in that situation to begin with & try to avoid the same miscommunications in the future