Quite awhile back I lost a lot of weight with much help from Pressed Rat's advice and input regarding the ketogenic diet. Thanks for that, btw @Pressed_Rat Been back to lookin' good and given' the ladies eargasms with my mellow accent.
Thats hot. Whats your accent? I'm pretty sure you may have mentioned it in the accent thread but I dont recall
New Jersey... Probably sounds a bit New York to a southern belle like yourself. Not sure it would have any effect on you, much to my chagrin I assure you.
Cant stand that accent when its a woman for whatever reason but i do think its sort of a sexy accent for men. I once dated a guy from Long Island just because I liked the way he talked..he sounded like a real tough guy, ey.
lol Carbs (bread namely) is my crack, so...I feel you. But, once you get used to it, you actually stop craving carbs. Working out on the regular, will help with it all too, if you want to indulge here and there. I don't think it's necessary to give up carbs completely forever, in one's diet. My random confession today - I'm a procrastinator, and I'm not sure I want to stop.
Dumped my girlfriend of two years yesterday. I wasn't very nice about it. I feel kinda bad but oh well. She hurt me worse over a much longer period of time, so she can go fuck herself. My main regret is she was great in the sack. *shrug*
don't stop, just procrastinate later my random confession - I've always wanted to be a skinny little japanese guy like from an anime
Follow thy heart, McFuddy. It's the only way. You shared a little before, and it honestly sounds like one of those ''toxic'' relationships. There are good women out there who will treat you right, and are good in bed. lol I married a down to earth guy, with a great heart...and we have awesome chemistry. I think a lot of people stay in shitty relationships for the sex tbh, but you can have both worlds. Just heal, and you'll find the right match. Was she shocked? Usually, ex bf's who treated me like crap, were always shocked when I ended it.
She wasn't shocked that I ended it so much as when I told her to 'never fucking speak to me again'. She was under the impression we'd be friends after... Under different circumstances that might have been true. Not this time. I did love her. I was ready to give her everything and spend my life with her. In the end she was just too weak and selfish, and I don't stay with weak and selfish. I prefer women, not little girls.
Not defending her, but she might have been afraid. Afraid of love. Either way, you can only do you and if she's not willing to meet you halfway, then...what can ya do. The whole ''let's still be friends'' thing, at least with ex bf's who have said this to me, really translates to ''I want to keep you around in case I want sex or some other favor, and I want you to be there.'' lol Not to say that can't happen, but not usually in circumstances where someone treated you badly. I've always thought, you weren't my friend when you were treating me like shit, why would you be my friend now that we're broken up? lol Anyways, you'll have hard days, just know that. Stay true to yourself, though.
You may be right. If so, she really shouldn't have pursued me like a bloodhound. I don't think she was used to being told no and it was a bit of a turn on for her. LOL in retrospect it's kinda funny.
I don't think women should pursue men, that was likely her fatal mistake. lol Another random confession - see what I did there.
Do you ever approach women you're interested in? I can see ''cold approaching'' being a daunting thing. To be honest, my best relationships, including the one I'm in, came from friendships with guys. I think there's just something different about a friendship turning into something more, that takes the pressure off everyone, you know? Like a trust is built as friends, first.