nope. arguing is what i enjoy best. never too old, that's what i say. until i'm too old to remember what got me started in the first place. then it'll just be really funny. can't wait until your 22 yr old breasts are 10 years older.
I hate underwire bras. The wires always come out too readily and pose a danger... some day one is gonna blind me or puncture an artery. Having large and heavy breasts, I would not be physically comfortable without a bra. The weight of them pulls down and makes them sore and the flesh on my ribcage would be too damp due to perspiration ... then comes bacterial and fungal skin problems ... ugh. As for allowing muscles to develop in one's breasts ... um ... there are none to develop. The muscles are beneath the breasts and wearing a bra or not has no impact on muscle development ... exercise does. There is nothing wrong with wearing bras to bed as long as one hasn't been wearing the same bra all day and night... one must give one's skin a chance to breathe. By the way, MamaKCita (and other large breasted women here) ... do you wear minimizer bras? It pisses me off to go bra shopping and be able to find nothing but either utilitarian style or minimizer bras. Heck, a demi cup, plunge, or push up bra in a pretty color is what I want. With DDD cups, a minimizer is idiotic ... so I'd look like a what, D or DD cup? Besides, I always think that minimizer bras are made because people think women should be ashamed or embarrassed by their bodies.
I wear pretty bras they are just sometimes hard to find. Lane Bryant has nice bras for busty women. Other than that there is a local shop here I use
go to victoria's secret. they don't automatically show you to the good stuff, you just have to get THEIR sizing, then get the size up and size down to try on. i went through all their stuff, they kept trying to put me in minimizers and stupid ugly stuff, but i found a GORGEOUS demi in the body line WITH MATCHING ADORABLE PANTIES. don't let them direct you, just go through the drawers and try on three sizes of each bra. the demi and utilitarian one i bought were both REALLY tight around my ribcage the first time i wore them, but they stretched just right. having worked there, i know how their bras work. it's why all the really busty women loved me selling them their bras.