I look for the guy that has attributes of my man. Say, the broad back or facial features etc...closest I think, I would let my mind thinking of him banging another woman. This gets me going, yet I know how I am as a person and wouldnt allow him to have sex with another woman. Its nice to see what a man is really doing to a woman tho...I cant see how it goes in and out is what I mean. I like to watch the view. Who knows maybe one day we will make our own personal porn...lol. Never say never.
It happened for me when a friend was over and we were drinking with my wife. We had a few too many and turned on some porn. There was a scene where the porn girl was blowing two guys and my wife said that looks cool and I said what the fuck. She was on her knees in a flash and the rest was dp history. I never thought I would go for it but REALLY enjoyed it. I feel like she was not into the other guy, just was another cock thrown in the mix. As long as your husband can feel that way he should be fine.
i will speak on my wife's behalf because she is at work, and she wont type messages on the forum, however she will log in and browse the forum with me, or on her own just to see what happening, maybe to check on me as well anyway, my wife and i do not bother with main stream porn any more, its all the same in the end, faked up bullshit. now, having said that, we still have a very large collection of "black" videos featuring one of my wifes favourite porn actors by the name of Jack Napier (many should know this guy) she loves watching him and will get off on him because of his size, and what she claims is probably the nicest looking cock she has ever seen, and she tells me all the time, that even tho she has never had another guy before, if she was to have any other guy while she was with me, it would have to be him, just to see what he is really like in real life, and to experience a massive cock like his. yeah, "shane diesel" and "shorty mac" might have thicker dicks than Jack, but jack has that blend of nice thickness and length that my wife reckons makes him a lot more appealing, and he is 10 times better looking. as long as my wife can watch big black guys fucking some chick, thats it for her, shes off her head, and sometimes i just leave her to it, nothing i can do will get her attention after that. funny tho, we have all sorts of strapons and penis shape dildos in our toy box, and she has trouble fucking a dildo that is 8" long and 2" in diameter, so who knows what she would do if she got a cock like Jack to play with ouch