Question for the guys

yeah but he works ALL THE TIME so I get delusionaly lonely and send him my thoughts.

 

gotcha...sorry for sidetracking your thread:cheers2:


and to answer the first question Id not be dissappointed at all

 

Hubby says MAYBE...
its only cause he might get the chance to cum in THAT hole.
.. I have totally done it(chickened out last min that is). Anal is good, but you have to be properly lubed and in the right mood.

 

Never had anal

I think I would be afraid to go through with it because it could be unclean and I don't want a stretched out bum hole hehehe

does it stretch it out, I mean I've seen that on porn stars eeekkk scary

is that kind of stretching temporary

 

My brother knows a gay guy who has had so much cock up his ass it weakened his sphincter so once at the gym when he was lifting a heavy weight he shat himself


So while I think every now and then wouldn't make a difference, I guess if you have a new cock every night maybe there is permanent stretching

 

I Would Sooooooo Like To Post A Serious And Informative Reply To This...

But How Can One Type......When One Has Not Laughed This Hard In Years...??....And Literaly, Tears Are Rolling Down My Cheeks...

Thank You Mr Viking..

Up Until Now My Evening Had Been Very Average.


Cheers Glen.

 

I'd be slightly disapointed because it is the one sexual fantasy i'd want to try out that i havent yet. Having said that, that disapointment would be very minor and far outweighed by the fact i am going to have sex with some one i am attracted to /care about.

In short no i would not be disapointed, i'd be quite happy about it because there is nothing wrong with vaginal sex!

 

bella... maybe your ass is stretchier than your puss. it happens sometimes. it's always worth a try, and if he's someone who cares about you at all, it won't matter if you chicken out at the last minute.

i've chickened out at the last minute with jrny numerous times. it's just too intense for me with him (he's got a 3rd leg down there! ).

but i agree with bhf. you gotta be in the right mood, and all warmed up for it. try some finger action, etc. to lead up to it, and get you ready for it so it's not just wham bam!

 

I think I agree with this guy.

 

good, serious and informative replies would not be welcome

some urban legends deserve not to be spoiled by silly things like fact or rational thought

 

It took forever for me to stop chickening out I still do sometimes just cos it hurts so much at first. But then other times I don't care cos the pain is totally worth it..
Little tip for you: have a drink (preferably a strong one ) beforehand as it helps you to relax and it's a lot less painful if you're relaxed.

 

Generally I think girls who are open minded about sex , are open minded about life.I can often predict who would or wouldnt be into anal.

Would I be disappointed? Over a length of time maybe, dunno.Not as a one off.

 

Like everyone said....you have to be in the mood. Have to be relaxed. If you have any inhibitions and want to chicken out, its best that you do. It is painful and if you aren't in the right mind frame you could be turned off from the experience forever.

It does hurt like a son of a gun at first.....but once in, if the right cliteral massages are used or if you are embraced in a way that allows you to forget that he is in the back door, it is actually an extremely pleasant experience.

I personally enjoy the experience quite a bit. Esp knowing that it turns him on so much and that is more what sex is about for me than my own pleasure anyway. Getting off is not easy for me....but pleasing him is the key element for my pleasure.

Good luck and have fun.....if you don't try it, don't feel bad about yourself. It is what it is and we all have preferences and boundaries. Though it sure is great to go past those boundaries

 

No, I am relieved. I hate doing up the fudge tunnel, these orifices were not designed for this sort of activity.

 

probably be indifferent to that happening

 

Let me be the first to say

WOW! CR has a big dick!!!

Speaking as a man (or I was the last time I checked) it is definitely a novelty and the novelty wears off. If it doesn't, it's a control issue. I did it once. It's not like going to the Guggenheim, once was enough.

 

Of course not, but then again I’d never subject my girlfriend to anything she’d feel uncomfortable doing

Hotwater

 

Hahah @ once is enough. Too fucking right! I did not need to try that again to make sure I definately didn't like it.

 

astroglide is the worst lube. i hate that stuff.

 

never had anal. i'm ok with that. i've experimented a little in that regard with a girl...i'm open to it, but we never ended up going that far with that part of her body hah

it can be really sexy, but it can also be really gross.

they make it look a lot easier in porn than it is, of course. plus they usually take enemas before filming, so theres that.

as for lube, i've used it a lot with just vaginal sex. its not necessary, of course, but it DOES enhance the sensation a lot.

i've never had issues with astroglide. i always preferred ID glid though. i fucking hate KY though.