Hard the whole time! Also the wife lijes to stroke me while I licker her, so it for sure stays HArd!!
I stay hard because she is letting me know how it makes her feel. She is very vocal while I eat her pussy, at some point begging me to fuck her.
I will lick her for as long as she will let me. Its heaven down there! I dont usually stay hard the whole time, but then I am 68 so staying hard is often a problem. I will sometimes play with myself as I lick though.
I stay hard throughout because it is such an erotic and sexual thing to do it's inevitable I will stay aroused and it is also one of my favourite sex acts too. On a few occasions, with the right partner, who knows how to tease and build up the sexual excitement with body language and sensual encouraging words, I have also ejaculated without being touched.
Yep, that happened me just once. No orgasm just spurting an unusually large volume. Lots of play - after not seeing my special significant other for about 6 months. A few orgasms for her from oral (Mmmmm) and when she turned over onto her knees and I was about to enter, off it went. She was disappointed at first because she thought I had cum. I hadn't. I had ejaculated but not cum so he stayed hard and was in normal working order. Not perfect working order, I should modestly add. Perfect would mean able to pump for an unlimited time for her pleasure (45 mins* is my best with a few 5 second interruptions to hold me back), and a selector knob somewhere to adjust the volume of ejaculate to suit her mood and activity. The knob range would go from 'trickle' to 'hose' lol *she wanted me to cum at that time
I stay hard the while I’m doing it but that’s only if she’s enjoying it but not for hours has to be an orgasm in there somewhere lol
I am one of those guys that has always loved eating pussy. And yes, I will go for hours. I don't need to be hard when I'm doing it. I am not doing it for my own physical gratification, but for the emotional gratification. I enjoy feeling the labia on my tongue. Tasting the wetness. Exploring the labia, clit and vagina. I love teasing the woman and pushing the limits of her pleasure. There is a control aspect that is thrilling. I control my pressure and pace. I also love getting those juices all over my face. The smell is addictive. I hope I've covered everything.
It's the guys job to build that tension. If he's not doing it, then it's best to move on to other things.
Maybe he was not doing it right, saying so without faulting or judging If you have a receptive partner you can give feedback unless he does it right without feedback
In addition even though I can he soft I am still turned on and usually leak precum. One fwb was the first to notice, I never leaked for another woman before but the way she responded and loved what I did. We lucked out with being just right for each other sexually so I was very satisfied and turned on giving
It was hard no matter how long I eat her pussy, but now it is hard to keep it for more the minutes. Ha ha ha
If we're doing 69, my penis stays hard. If I'm giving only, I may not stay completely hard. But, eating her, I'm almost guaranteed to make her cum, even if it's after I've cum in her. Yes, I lick my own and don't care