Question for Bisexual Men

Doesn’t bother me those women aren’t open minded enough to share a bed with me anyway it is rare to find one that’s into it but they are out there my woman asked and our sex life has gotten amazing ever since

 

Everyone has their own thoughts on that so it doesn’t bother me. For sure, bisexuality is as real as any other preference sexually. I’m still on the shy side of being with another guy….but think about it all the time. It excites me as much as being with my wife the next time. Love a woman’s body and spirit, but wouldn’t shy away from another guy if the opportunity presented itself ! So, I don’t believe in that notion. How open minded you are is your own choice. No doubt,though, BiSex is alive and well.✌️

 

It even goes beyond that, because BiLove is alive and well.

Most men are just focused on the sex aspect. That's fine, but some men have adventured into recognizing that love can transcend gender orientation.

The fact is, love can transcend anything. All the talk about conflict and culture wars becomes irrelevant when love is expressed.

 

Never considered the terminology. Bi sounds like a catch all for straights who have no intention of leaving their wives/girlfriends but occasionally act out an urge to be with another guy. Is it a sexual desire or a deep rooted issue? Who knows and, frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn. Just as I am not attracted to all women I am only attracted to one guy.

 

Other people's opinions do not bother me. Everyone has the right to their perspective, but I know that I am equally attracted to men just as much as I am attracted to women. My wife and I have a wonderful relationship - both physical and emotional. On the other side, I become excited looking at certain men and desire to take it further. I do not know if this is the definition of a true bisexual. When I am with a man, I never feel guilty afterwards. I am quite comfortable in that situation. When my wife and are are intimate, I am also totally immersed in the experience only thinking about bringing her to the pinnacle of pleasure. Bi seems to fit who I am

 

Well said, Don J………I feel exactly the same. I have a wonderful
relationship with my wife of 30 years. When we’re intimate it’s totally
fulfilling for us both. I’ve never ventured into a M2M adventure except
in my mind. Don’t think I would feel guilty afterwards, but there is a
Devil of my shoulder telling me that I should feel guilt for even thinking
such thoughts! Have to get rid of that guy!! Isn’t monogamy like modern
day handcuffs? Was that always the rule of sex? I look at guys and feel
the same stirrings as I do checking out a foxy lady. So, I guess that makes
me Bi but more importantly Human. Both sexes are equally beautiful and
should be appreciated by anyone who desires to do so. Unfortunately, not
all partners are on the same page with us. Respect to all, of course, for
their own beliefs. It’s all good✌️!

 

In my thinking, a gay man would only wat sex with another guy. A heterosexual man only wants sex with a woman. A bisexual gay will have sex with either. I enjoy sex with my wife tremendously. And I enjoy sex with another guy the same. Main difference though is with the guy it is only sex. We may be good friends and hang out a lot, but I can't envision myself kissing, cuddling or anything along those lines. I often see attractive women and think "I would do that." Have never thought that about a guy. But let me see a naked cock and I get hard in a heartbeat. If there was a naked man and woman on a bed, it would be a difficult decision as to which I would do first.

 

I personally know four gay men who also have sex with women (and have heard of a fifth one from a very reliable source) but will tell you in a heartbeat that they're still gay. Does knowing this change your thinking? I have personally turned many a heterosexual man into a bisexual one; does knowing this change your thinking? Here's a hint if you ever wind up in bed with both a man and a woman and you're trying to decide who do to first: Go after the one who's closest to you.

 

Ignore it I like what I like no argument will change that

 

Who would make and inforce such a silly notion.
How would a guy who is only attracted to women but likes a bit of guy fun go....
Your notion seems to confuse attraction including intimate, emotional, sexual, physical and sexual urges with reality.

 

Truthfully, I don't think heterosexuality exists in the human species. I always say that I hate labels, but I think that we humans are either bi or gay whether we want to admit it or not albeit consciously or unconsciously. I say that because given the right situation we are all generally capable of turning to someone of the same gender to get sexual satisfaction. Hetero sex is wonderful and great, but being deprived of it for long enough we are bound to look for satisfaction "elsewhere". Masturbation is nice, but even that is more enjoyable with someone else!!!!

 

Heterosexuality exists because we're told that God said everyone had to be heterosexual. Some experts are saying that being heterosexual "by default" is unnatural for humans and that in times gone by, humans were bi- and homosexual and very freely so until religion came along and put its foot down on any sexual activity that wasn't going to make babies. It's just that a lot of us find out that being heterosexual isn't the only way to be or to have sex.

 

Pretty much along the same lines of what I said. Yes I do think that religion has a lot to do with it, but also insecurity. I think that men that adamantly insist that they are 100% straight and there is no way that they would ever look at a penis let alone suck a penis or let a man suck their penis are just fooling themselves and are really just insecure in their masculinity. These are the type of men that swear they never glance at another man's penis in a locker room or that they never look at the guy's penis in porno flicks because it's gay to look at cocks.I think they somehow feel that thinking about or looking at a penis makes them more effeminate in some way at detracts from their machismo!!!

 

This "masculine" behavior is also a social construct and one created and designed to make us keep our hands off of men; it "demands" and infers that any arousal felt toward a guy means you're homosexual, homosexual is very bad, you get the picture. Except, I've come across many a straight guy who wanted to know why they'd see a man - naked or otherwise - and become sexually aroused and my answer - because that's just how arousal works - often doesn't sit well with them because of the taboo of being sexually interested in men. Really, there is a reason why a guy will take the plunge and say that it felt right and normal... because it is; our social contracts and constructs just continue to prohibit men being sexual with each other... despite the fact that, duh, we've been doing this since the first two guys hooked up.

 

This isn't quite the first two guys, but......
The ancient Greeks did not conceive of sexual orientation as a social identity as modern Western societies have done. Greek society did not distinguish sexual desire or behavior by the gender of the participants, but rather by the role that each participant played in the sex act, that of active penetrator or passive penetrated.[8] Within the traditions of pederasty, active/passive polarization corresponded with dominant and submissive social roles: the active (penetrative) role was associated with masculinity, higher social status, and adulthood, while the passive role was associated with femininity, lower social status, and youth.[8]

 

There were (and still are) cultures who believe that homosexual activities among males prepares the younger males as part of their rites of passage into adulthood/manhood. Japan predates the Greeks where the roles are concerned - geishas used to be men - which really surprised me and even some Arab countries were deep into this and, I'd guess, before the Qur'an came along. But, sure - the Greeks were considered to be highly civilized -yet, they had rules for homosexual behavior that were strictly enforced (or so it is written).

This bit of history helped to expose the flaws in our morality and social contract norms... and I was always that kid who kept (a) asking why, (b) asking questions I shouldn't have been asking and (c) asking questions I shouldn't have known to ask. That's okay; you don't have to answer but I will, eventually, find out the answer...