Question for Bisexual Men

Push come to shove, yeah, um, how bad can it really be? And needs always must.

 

I agree with your statement. When it comes down to it, I think "most" bisexual guys would rather have a nice dick and another guy blowing his load in their mouths

 

I don't know if I "completely" agree with what you said, for me anyways.
Yes, I'm married to a woman who I love very much, but I've also enjoyed (and still would, under the right circumstances) intimacy and romance with men. Does that make me "straight" or gay? Nope. I'm just a bisexual guy who can and does enjoy intimacy/romance with another guy nearly as much as I do with my wife

 

I think its more that I’m a very sexual person and I that I’m happy playing with a pussy or a penis. However, I don't feel like I would ever be in a relationship with a man. As whenever I used to have encounters with men I would lose interest as soon as I came. I wouldn't say I was attracted to men, but I do like the idea of sucking a cock, or receiving anal sex from a man. I would still say I was bi.

 

There are a slew of men who are just like you; into the dick and the sex, no interest in being romantic with a guy. Yeah, and that motherfucking refractory period of sex is the bane of our male existence - but it happens to all of us to some degree or another. The thing is - and as I have been advocating for decades now - being bi means that you get to define what that means to you instead of allowing yourself to be typecast into a role.

 

I think being bisexual is more of a spectrum. I imagine if you are into men and women in any degree, there is going to be a slight bias in there unless you somehow are into men and women equally. We are all so different, so fitting us into predefined roles doesn't seem to work so well when there is only a few options. Where does your sexuality sit?

 

That's the question we all wind up asking ourselves, isn't it? I've said that bisexuality is "weird" because we're all bisexual... and all very different at the same time, which allows for an amazing degree of diversity. Yes, there are only so many ways for us bi guys to put A into B, or C... but we have human ingenuity to thank for how creatively we can do this and using sex to be more in touch with our inner selves. Where one's sexuality sits is a question to be asked and answered and with the understanding that we can change our minds about some stuff so that our sexuality will always sit well with us.

Bisexuality has always been real; it's just the one orientation that defies conventional thinking where sexuality is concerned - people are either straight or gay - and then as if bisexuality is just a waypoint to being fully gay. Maybe for some guys, it is; for others, yeah, let's not and say we did; a lot of guys are looking for that emotional connection and a lot more guys are looking for a connection of dicks going into mouths and asses and the only appreciable and desirable emotion is... lust. And that's not counting the guys who'd suck your dick and swear on a stack of bibles that they're still straight.

 

I'd ignore it. It's completely detached from reality, and it's not my job to educate or entertain the willfully ignorant.

 

I'm bisexual not gay. I enjoy both. Both is good. I'm not confused about my sexuality. Im happily bi and don't want to change that. It's apart of me its who I am. I'm comfortable and cogent being who I am.

 

I‘m not bothered by the theory that bisexuality doesn’t really exist, that it’s just a claim by people unwilling or not ready to admit they are gay Who knows, maybe that‘s true.

However, it doesn’t fit how I feel about myself. I am sexually attracted to both women and men, seemingly more strongly to women, but undeniably to men as well. With either women or men I want sex to affectionate and intimate - it’s not just about the sex for me.

I do hold open the possibility that I am deluding myself and I am actually gay. I don’t think so, but it’s possible. After all, we all internalize societal bias against gay sex. But for that bias, maybe…

Mostly, though, I just do not worry about it and leave the labeling and analyzing to folks inclined to do it.

 

Bisexuality exists and it's real; it's a claim made by those who, even in 2024, believes that if you're not straight, you're gay or in denial of really being gay. The thing that gets me is that there are so many people who just assume that we're gay and that we do all of the stuff gay men have been known to do and wind up being surprised to learn that, um, we like women and pussy, too... and it's one of the reasons why the haters say that all bisexuals are greedy for wanting to have both men and women. I'm guilty as fuck for this one, by the way. I grew up with people making bisexuality a joke and implying that one would have to be out of their minds to want both sexes and, yeah, I'm seriously out of my mind on top of being greedy!

At the end of any day, you have to decide what your sexuality is and be able to define it for yourself - and do it without lying to yourself and as I've seen way too many men and women do. I'll tell them in a flat skinny second that I'm not straight but I'm not gay, either. Just because they don't believe in this doesn't make it unreal... since I'm living proof that bisexuality is real so anything else is people showing everyone how ignorant they are about sex and sexuality. Ya might know how gay men have sex but us bi guy happen to know that you don't have to be gay to have sex with a man:

You just gotta want to... and there sure as fuck are a lot of us who wants to. It ain't rocket science...

 

I honestly questioned my sexuality when I was booking up with men and enjoying the sex so much. Well hit rock bottom almost lost my wife. Through therapy and a lot of sole searching we came to the conclusion I’m a sex addict gas lighting narcissist.
I’ve really had to work on my self a lot SAA etc but I have realized I’m not gay. I will except bisexual. But I’m no longer having sex with men.

 

Men have the capacity to love men, women, or both.

Women have the capacity to love men, women, or both.

These are simply observations of human behaviors. In science, it is called empirical evidence.

 

Not one single bit, its,all right and awesome in my opinion of things

 

I disagree. I'm bisexual and married to a woman that loves the fact that I'm bisexual and my man's wife feels the very same way as well as her sister. Our women get seriously turned on watching the two of us sucking each other's cocks before fucking them.

 

I've enjoyed sex with women, and still love the look of the female figure. I'm pretty sure my days of heterosexual sex are not over.

The allure of bisexuality for me revolves around giving up control. I want my top to be dominant. I'll do what he says, though I'm not afraid to initiate when we are alone. I've been the first one to get naked giving my partner a striptease, which is in itself a surrendering of control. When that progresses to sucking another man's cock it is actually a mixture of dominance and submission. Now I just want the oral to lead to anal. I'm fine with kneeling in front of him or being on my back. Spanking me during anal is welcome!

 

It’s nice that your wife is into bisexual men. I wish I could find someone to support me. I keep getting rejected every time I talk about be bisexual. I’m not going bring it up anymore. Good women are hard to find.

 

I simply ignore it. Sex is sex as long a you're safe, respectful, and having fun.

 

I'm not at all interested in how other people label it. I just enjoy it.