When I actually have an opportunity to have the sex, I like to trim my pubes to an even, flat level and remove it all from shaft and balls. Careful on the balls, though, it's hard not to injure them and I've gotten my balls cut a few times. I have too much pubic hair, though. It goes down my thighs and stuff and get's really afro-y, so it gets really annoying and itchy if I don't trim it... And as for the females, shaved is nice mechanically, but neatly trimmed or cut into nice shapes is the best. I don't like completely untrimmed though, especially if it get's further than the thighs.