And your point? I knew someone who got me a good deal. I could always say you bought me dinner and breakfast…huh?
Well, theoretically it could be said that’s how you paid me for my services. Of course, I won’t report you to the authorities if you are nice!
I have never paid for sex so far, since I do believe, that the human body was made to provide sexual pleasure, for either gender being female or male. Anyone who rather charge for sexual pleasure, I always prefer never pay for their services. Truly it is not so hard to fine someone looking for some sexual pleasures without charging. Since I lost my wife to Cancer, I did slept with a few different "ladies of the night" since had told me doing it for work is one thing, but a girl she was allowed to have sex just for the pleasure or fun with them.The same goes with a male that, I have slept with and/or had sexual pleasures with.
I think its probably helpful to state a few things: 1. "Ladies of the night" is outdated and pejorative. Sex workers isn't really good either because they are not all the same. 2. It's important to recognise the difference between one who'll take money for sexual activity from anyone and others who are more discerning. I'd have no difficulty in meeting one who's discerning and spending a leisurely weekend with her. I'd be quite happy to take her to a family gathering and introduce her as my friend. I mean; on the remuneration aspect, what's the difference between paying for sex with one female and, with another, paying for clothes, holidays, cars etc for a wife and let's not forget the cost of divorce too. Loyalty seems to be the only difference. We know they aren't loyal because they often meet other men. And in relation to a discerning sex worker, she's not loyal but, in meeting others, she won't have shattered trust.
I actually lost my virginity to an escort. I was a late bloomer and didn't have any confidence in myself and just wanted to get it over with. Virginity isn't an attractive thing in men. On the whole it was actually pretty good. She said that I was a lot more attractive than the guys she usually got paid to have sex with and she actually got so turned on by the whole thing that when we were in the shower she was pleading with me to stick it in even though I didn't have the condom handy. Afterward we talked a bit and she told me that she had a bf/husband. I was astonished by this - I had never heard of cuckoldry! She said that he got off on hearing her talk about having sex with her customers, but if she didn't feel like talking about it he'd get upset. After that I had sex a couple more times with some other escorts. One of them claimed to be a psychology student, which I was pretty skeptical about, but then when she talked about grad life it sounded like yes, she actually was tricking to get through school. Also, I gotta say she was gorgeous. I wonder sometimes where she is now.
I've done a few times, but not anymore. Was very mechanical and finally not more enjoyable than masturbatory, for a hefty price. I prefer massages with happy ending (hj usually) but even so, we're talking about maybe once a year.
Strangely enough, we don’t have Santa here, but the little gnomes (Julenissen), wouldn’t likely be able to satisfy a human. So we had to import Santa from America!