It really isn't something you can rush. It taked a little ass fucking and massaging the prostate to make that feeling build, but when it does. Its' like opening the cum faucet.
I’ve come close I’ve never had / received/ anal but was with a guy with at the most had a 4” penis The head on it was huge. I always thought if I let him do me it would be a guarantee orgasm
prostate orgasms can be achieved without any physical contact. contactless are triggered by spending time in a calm relaxed state of mind doing pelvic floor contractions,slow deep abdominal breathing, and visualising arousing mental images. all this rewires the brain towards learning a new way to generate orgasmic pleasure from a resovoir of sexual energy that exists within all of us ..... male and female. when practising, pay close attention to any tiny arousal response in yor genital area and focus your mind on that feeling [ where the mind goes the energy flows ].remain calm and relaxed..... take things slowly. when fully concentrated on that spot you will feel the pleasure slowly increase [ don't strive for it,don't push for it, just allow the pleasure to wash all over you ] towards a full blown, intense prostate orgasm. i have been doing this for many years and early on i discovered nipple stim. i was amazed to find how arousing they were when touched. i have orgamic sessions every day this way and find that when i start with nipple stim i am into the zone within a minute.
I love anal stimulation but every time I've done this in the past I had toilet related issues the days after.. Which kind of ruined the fun a bit. So don't do it often. But when doing it, it feels amazing.
Didn't really get it myself either, until I leaned how to separate ejaculation from orgasm. Once I knew the difference in how the two felt I was able to orgasm from fingering my prostate (without ejaculating). Simply rubbing back and forth with a finger or toy was pleasurable but would never quite get me there. Pushing out against my finger after a few minutes of stimulation was the key.
I had one when I had my prostate checked by my doctor, before I went I fucked myself in the shower at home with my toy made sure I was clean and before I left to go I put lube in my ass and when I was put in the room waiting for him I playing with my cock and when came in the room I was ready and when he stuck his fingers in me orgasm white milky came out of my ass I was masterbating while he was doing it and I came big time while he was in the room
I have had the milky stuff come out of my ass when i have been pounded with a dildo before. I normally use poppers when having anal play which i guess doesn't help with trying to have a prostate orgasm, but the feeling turns me on.
I have tried a finger its not enough for me. Toys with a strong vibration along with masturbation is the best for me. My doctor noticed a slightly enlarged prostate and suggested it. After just a few months we both noticed a big difference. Those first few orgasms are so full and complete draining feels so amazing!
What kind of "doctor" did you go to that let you masturbate while having a prostrate exam?! I doubt even a gay male doctor, specializing in gay, bi male patients would permit that? It's just not professional and could lead to harassment lawsuits, etc. Most anything involving penetration of a patient, especially of the opposite sex, has a nurse present as well. It's a waste of time and resources, but enough doctors have sexually abused patients, and patients over reacting to legitimate exams that this sadly is done. A friend of mine in med school talked about there being one medical patient actor (the term used) known for being the "prostate exam guy" for med school students to practice on. He got paid to have his prostate examined, but was professional and provided feedback to the students during and after the exam.
I have a lot of prostate organisms, I never had until my wife starting using a strapon on me. For me it was not a big dildo but a small one with plenty of lube. Once you find the prostate, it becomes easier.
Years ago, a doctor in town did a workshop on men's issues in aging. He highly suggested getting a prostate massager and using it so I got a simple one that does not vibrate. I've not had many orgasms from it but when I have, they are powerful. My cock doesn't get hard nor does it spurt, rather it dribbles. The first time I came that way, my ejaculation was small and thick, a strange texture. Other times it's been some small streaming as I come again and again.. The only way I've reached orgasm from prostate massage has been in the bath tub. I use hair conditioner as a lube since it doesn't dissolve quickly and take my time slowly massaging. When I feel the orgasm approach, I rub it faster and harder. It's an amazing sensation, but I wouldn't trade a regular orgasm for it.
Sometimes I have to be quite rough to get the best sensations. I wonder if my prostate is deeper under the tissues than it normally does. How hard or tender you people use to work with your prostate? Has anybody else tried to give external pressure to your prostate while dildo is inside?