Pregnacy, in thought.

It is... I've had cousins that had babies. I didn't know what the hell to do with one, refused to even hold them until they were like 5 months old. When I was pregnant I was so scared it would be the same, but the motherly instinct kicks in. Of course there were some questions, but most is just natural when that time comes I believe.

 

But Im great with kids, they love me.
Is when having to "make" them do something that the problems begin, mainly because I feel I can "make" a baby do anything.. and he went crazy whenever I tried to change his diaper and I was not gonna force him, I cant do that.

 

Been pregnant six times , and had 4 live births....what has always amazed me is how a womans body can survive all the actual trauma of birth...how she was made to be able to go through such a thing , and survive......nothing like natural childbirth to have a reality check !!

 

It is strange-I think it's a beautiful thing, though. Kevin keeps begging me to have a baby right after the wedding-I really don't know...I'm scared.

Speaking of pregnancy-my mother was drunk last night and told me I better give her grandkids someday because that's the only reason she's still living-haha she's such a loser.

 

it all looks a bit messy and complicated to me... i'll be outside, chopping logs and various....

 

What I don't understand is why most of the people (even my doctor) is so freaked out about natrual childbirth. I understand it's painfull, but if you wouldn't smoke crack while you're pregnant why would you pump your child full of medications upon delivery?

A natrual childbirth will definately teach you a few things about pain, I'll tell you that. haha

 

scaaaaaaaaaaaaaaary

 

I dont ever want to be pregnant. I hate kids. I d have to be crazy in love (or just crazy ) to have one .

 

how can you hate kids? their souls are pure and just so full of wonder.

 

Lots of people hate kids. I think it's kinda weird to hate kids. I mean, some kids can be a pain in the ass sometimes but...

 

I could never hate a child, I may be put off by
a child who is wild and has too many, um, not
nice things to say, but I could never hate
someone who is inherently innocent.
But I have a baby boy so I guess Im biased.
Though I dont think Im alone when I say that
a childs eyes are about the most beautiful
things to look at on this Earth.

 

I understand being indifferent to them, but hate kids.. how can you hate such innocent beings?

 

Ok, hate is probably a too strong word. I dont really hate them. I just dislike them and find them annoying. so maybe I am a horrible person.
Children make me feel really uncomfortable.

 

Well, I'm a teacher and I can safely say. I have never met a kid who I hate.

But it takes all kinds to make the world go round.

 

I should probably try to make an effort and try to like kids. Especially cause I am going to be a doctor. and they are suppose to like everyone.

 

What is there not to like?
Do they annoy you?
Are you jealous of the love the recieve
and attention?
Are you jealous of not having your own
good childhood?
I mean what is the problem lol?

 

They do annoy me. I dont know how to talk to them.
I am not jealous.
I had a normal childhood.
I dont know whats the problem.

 

They annoy you?
I think you need to work on your patience then.
Becuase not just with children, but life itself
demands much patience in order to acheive at
anything.

 

No, I dont think its that. I am really patient.
I dont think its a big problem anyway. I know a lot of people who dont like kids.

 

Ok I mean Im not trying to make you upset. I just
never heard of someone not liking kids for any
reason other than not wanting to have to be a
responsible parent. I just dont see what reason
there is to not like them? It's like saying I dont
like black people, or people who drive cars, or
people who are fat, because they annoy me.
I mean, you were a kid once too :tongue:
You were, right?!