Oh Fleassy sweetheart, please, please, PLEASE call a doctor. You NEED to be seen. You can become very ill from the loss of so much blood, plus the risk of infection is high, and as Maggie said, this could affect your fertility later on down the line when you want to have a child. I know you hate doctors, and I totally understand how you feel. I'm far from a fan myself and I try to avoid them when I can, but sometimes you just have to go. Wouldn't it be better to know for sure what was going on instead of worrying? I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers darling. Please keep us updated on how you are doing and WHAT THE DOCTOR SAID! Call one, no excuses! {{{BIG HUGS}}}
I've had 2 abortions- and both times i was bleeding like hell especially the first time, it's normal, but i know the feeling.... But i am almost sure that it won't affect your fertility (i got pregnant a second time!) and putting a "spiral" (i am not sure what the right name is in english: it's a thing you can ask your doctor to put in sou wont get pregnant) mades bleeding only worse... Love, and good luck
Thank you for your concern everyone. I went to the doctor a while ago and i made another thread "update" thanks for your concerns It means so much to know that theres always such wonderfull women here to help when you feel scared And Kayy the "spiral" you mentioned is called a COIL
I am glad you are doing better. (((((((((Fleasy)))))))))) And in the USA the "coil.spiral" is called an IUD. (IntraUterineDevice.) So many names for the same thing.
why would you keep having abortions, i mean if it happens a first time and you are young and scared and have no support or whatever, or it is medically necessary for whatever reason, well do what you think is right but to keep doing it? it is not a form of birth control. if you don't wanna get pregnant, well, keeping your pants on might help... sounds like you got an IUD or something similar put in to keep those nasty little child makers at bay. good for you, wouln't want you have to keep aborting those buggers.... just my 2 cents......but smile anyway, your mom chose life. sorry for the rant