Poll for the guys...

Rejected?? My cock was just in her mouth!

 

Libertine......You beat me to it. That's my opinion exactly. How can a guy feel rejected when you just had your cock in a womans mouth. Of course, In my opinion, it really adds something special when she swallows and enjoys it.

 

I guess it depends on where she spits it. If its in my underwear drawer or my coffee maker, I am gonna be a wee bit miffed.

 

That hasnt been my expierence... most girls desire oral sex at least seem happy to resiprocate.. . . not that I have slept with anything close to a statistical sub sample of woman kind, but most every woman I have gone out with for more than a few dates has, um "headed south" from time to time.

 

In thinking about it, i would say that in those instances where a woman spit it out, I did feel wierd. I wouldn't say rejected but wather that it was a big turn off for me... so with that woman (yes there is only one that i can think of) I would just do something different when I was close to orgasm (using the oral sex more as a warm up to sex really I guess) than continuing on to orgasm. we never really talked about it that much, but it never bothered me not coming in her mouth after that.

 

im not dating the one girl i like but i wouldnt really mind if she didnt swallow, i wouldnt if i were to go down(which i wouldnt cuz im not gay)

 

never been blown

 

Whether she swallows, spits, finishes me with her hand, etc., it's just as good for me. When I'm coming I'm just happy.

 

if i could get a blow job from my girl i would prefer that she swallow, but i dont care. personaly i think it would be annoying if she dident but whatever

 

I wouldn't give a rat's ass if my girl swallowed my load, I don't like giving any girl a facial to begin with, the chest area is fine for me thanks.

 

man.....im marrying the 1st girl that swalows mine

 

No, he may be perfectly honest... and rather immature. A secure man won't feel "rejected" over something so minor.

However, I also admit I find swallowing incredibly sexy. (Does that make me guilty of a double standard?)

 

And you will regret it if that's your criteria. Sex is the dessert, not the main course.

Personally, I think you should have to pass a test before getting married to prove you're mature enough not to ruin someone else's life. Ignore the fact that such a test would be impractical, I'm being philosophical here. I also feel we should have to prove we're capable of being a good parent before having children. Kids are too easy to screw up to be left to amateurs. (Am i sounding cynical here? Sorry. I'll shut up now and let this get back on topic.)

 

Okay, that's the first genuine LOL I've had on this forum.

(It's going... going... it's OUTTA HERE!)

I'd have to admit that would qualify as a definite comment that the relationship had lost its glitter.

 

it's really not that big of a deal, but imagine, ladies, if guys pulled a trash can beside them when they were giving you head, and spat out all the juices in their mouth when it got a bit too wet down there...

how would that make you feel?

 

Do you feel comfortable about giving him a bj?



Bustramp

 

I had a g/f who wouldn't give me a blow job, but she wanted and loved for me to go down on her. We were together for a couple years actually. It never really bothered me till we talked about it a few times and I found out she would never do it, BUT she wanted me to continue eating her ****.
Well, I did it once more and that was the end of that........ I fucked off never to return to her again.
There was a very sad future ahead of me if I stayed.

 

That's actually really weird because usually it's the other way around. It seems as though she would have been more comfortable giving head then recieving it. Was she content with herself? How could she just sit there and take but not give?

 

She was pretty content with herself, but I couldn't take it anymore. One of those one way deals that just wasn't right

 

I don't blame you at all. The only thing I can think of that would prevent that she doesn't want you to see her sucking your dick. Would you accept it if she put her head under the sheets and did it? Or do you like to see her doing it? I would guess that you like to see it.