Poll: Did you have sex with your spouse on your first date? Did it help or hinder?

6 weeks before I made love to my current girlfriend. It was so much fun building up to that..

 

I dated my wife for six months before I proposed to her. We had sex for the first time the night I proposed. I've NEVER had sex with any girl on a first date. (Not for lack of trying. The girls I dated just weren't that easy.)

The closest I've come is sex after five days of dating, but there was a four month (and 3,000 mile) gap between day four and day five. That one was special. We were both 18 years old, we were both virgins, and it was her idea. Considering the lack of experience by either of us, it turned out pretty well.

Interesting data point. I've never had sex with a woman who wasn't a virgin when we started fucking. None of my sex partners had ever been with anyone before me. (All of them, including my wife, have been with other men since then.)

 

I met my wife at a party. That night she gave me a blow job late night in the living room after everyone had left, or passed out. Turns out one of my best friends was faking being asleep and watched. 2 nights later on our first real date, we had sex. I put a condom on but after about a minute she pulled off the condom and said she doesn't like the way they feel. I just went with it and to this date have never worn a condom since.

 

Hubby and I were just supposed to be fuck buddies...liked it so much he put a ring on it less than 6 months later :2thumbsup:

What can I say, my nethers are captivating.

 

It's true. Haven't regretted it for a second. We totally didn't want a relationship but it happened anyway

 

Yes and no.
First time we met....no. He just gave me a ride to a rave with a bunch of friends and I barely even saw him there and he just drove me home with a bunch of other people....

Second time, we went to a party (rave) and actually went w other people who left early and we stayed there dancing (and rolling) til they closed... then he asked me if I wanted to chill @ his place. I wasn't tired at all n we'd have tons of fun so I went...
Ended up staying there for three days and yes, we slept together during that time and talked about everything you could ever imagine talking about and have been together ever since then. It's like in that first day that I was at his house we saw into each other's souls and haven't been apart since.

That was 14 years ago.

 

The second time I've met my husband, I've taken him to my place because I wanted to have sex with him.

I don't beat around the bushes. When I want sex, I go for it.

 

good for you, girl! i like a girl with a set of nuts.

 

not really have sex yet we masturbated each other
but it wasn't the first time I saw her at all, we used to be kind of friends some time before

 

Yes, neither, it was at the end of the date.

 

The first meeting she gave me a french kiss and hold my hand to her breast so that i can press them from over her bra. The next day we were all nude and we fucked without any protection

 

Yes we did......a lot of long distance talks and IMs. Foreplay as it were. Dinner, movie, and back to her house for mind blowing sex. The best sex of my life.

 

We did, but in fairness, we were friends for over a year before we had our "first date." That date lasted four days, during which we really got to know each other.

 

Yes, and it was never an issue.

 

No, but we were just 15 at the time.

 

I've had sex on many first dates. I have had first date sex with three women that began very long term relationships including my current girlfriend. She told me that the second she saw me she wanted to fuck me.

 

People who have sex on first dates get married?

 

1st wife no (30 years)
2nd wife yes (7 years and counting)
current girlfriend yes, (3 months and counting)

 

yes, L said after she came a long way to see me and she is getting some for it.
I do love her! Best wife ever!

 

Yep