Penis Size Obsession

I'm in a human sexuality class right now and the subject about if size matters or not came up recently and one girl said that big dicks look nice but they can make sex painful. Although I suppose that can vary from girl to girl or depend on if they are aroused enough to take a big dick inside of themselves.

 

Bingo! On the arousal part, power of suggestion is a powerful thing too. For example, if a woman is curious about larger insertions then watches a bunch of porn depicting large insertions, she's going to be extra wet making it more likely that she's going to like it. Of course, as you said, this can vary from female to female. Complex subject, human sexuality.

 

Here is an article on the subject:

http://www.alternet.org/sex/151391/measuring_up:_how_our_culture

 

Most guys can give more pleasure to their gal by a fast rapid tongueing on her Clitoris and then Vagina rather than poking her with a #14 inch John Holmes Gargantuan Penis,besides look where old John is,lol
Chubbiboi

 

alpha male perhaps? ;p

oh and I call BULLSHIT... i had a slight penis size obsession till i got it to where i wanted.
jelqing, yes works...pretty fast too.

 

any erection problems? how long ago did you start jelquing?

 

Not at all, and I haven't in sometime. I had only used the technique for 3 months .. And well an extra 2.5in is all I need ;p

 

i love dick. the most important thing is how they look, a pretty dick beats a huge one if its deformed. there sexy, and fun, and make me feel dirty.

there are things about a big dick that are a lot of fun, but i think every couple has foreplay that is unique to them, so if a guy isn't big he isnt missing out we are just acting a little different.

the problem seems circular, girls like to top eachother, and men exaggerate so the numbers keeoing getting padded. for ex, when we are used to seeing a 6 in dick, which looks very nice and endowed, everyone says its 7 in, so guys know saying 6 in won't conjure that image.

I believed this one guy I used to hook up with was 8 in for about 2 years, it was pretty big, nice looking, i was used to hearing how 8 inches was the best, and his felt great, so I believed him. My now bf is huge, so I naively though he must be close to 9 in, till he corrected me, and measured for me, he is actually just over 7 in, and is one of the biggest I've ever had. I think anything over 6.5 in is big and 6 in is very nice, ppl just screw the numbers up. also thick is big! if a guy is avg lenght but thick, thats still big! thanks for having dicks boys!

 

I rest my case!

:sunny:

 

nice post!

 

So what should the smaller guys do go sulk in a corner? (small being 4 inches or below in length, 4in. to 4.5 in girth/circumference )

 

My wife loves the first 3 so I dont think it takes much.

 

I've been told i'm too small a few times (3.5), even my current isn't overly happy about it. She definitely prefers them larger and always has. But we find ways to do things.

 

Yes, I have been told several times my dick is small or tiny or little, and the like. I've also overheard women talking about other men being small.

 

Who cares? We all have personal preferences. It only becomes an issue if we allow those preferences to actually rule our lives. If those women like big dicks, then that's their thing. However, that alone doesn't give them the right to mock men with so-called "small" penises.

My own personal preferences include breasts that are on the smaller side, shorter than me height wise, natural redhead, someone who is not from the country I'm from, etc. But it's not like I mock women with big boobs, or those who are taller than me, or anything like that. I mean, the chances of your meeting someone who can actually fulfill every one of your personal preferences must be pretty slim. Like, say you're a girl, you meet a guy and he's totally cool, thoughtful, handsome, and you two fall in love, or whatever. But he's got a small dick. Honestly, if you think that alone is a good enough reason to consider dumping him, then I must question your values.

I'm a proud owner of a 5-incher. And it's only 5 inches when it's at its absolute hardest and erect state. In other words, when I'm about so-called "fully erect"(essentially more like 98% erect), I'm probably not even 5 inches. And none of the girls who have seen it has said anything bad about it. Not a single comment about how small it is. In fact, they all tell me flattering things about it. So I think it all depends on what kind of girls you're dealing with.

Some girls, for some reason, equate small penis with something bad, like "pathetic", "ugly", "creepy", or whatever. I say forget about them. You wouldn't want to date girls like that in the first place. There ARE girls out there who aren't so hung up on the penis size issue, because their focus is on you as a whole rather than on your penis alone. Some of them even prefer smaller penises for whatever reason they may have. In which case, hopefully they like you because of who and what you are as a whole, rather than what your penis is like exclusively.

Girls who only like huge dicks can go right ahead and pair up with guys with huge dicks. Problem solved.

 

Women do talk about penis size. I've never paid much attention to this before, but with hindsight, yeah, this is an information that is exchanged. It doesn't necessarily mean anything.

And a woman in love will probably learn to live with her man's cock, whatever size it is.

If the man isn't the jealous type, they can always look for different strokes in lifestyle clubs. And there are cock extensions and dildos. I'm pro doing whatever it takes to help your partner have pleasure. If my man, for instance, needed a blond with long legs and big boobs, I'd find him one. Guys should also learn to be less self-centered and just enjoy sex, without these hang ups. If you haven't got something your partner likes, go find it somewhere now and then, both of you, for mutual enjoyment.

 

Re: OP

I disagree

Size sometimes *does* matter.

I was with a guy once that was the size of my thumb.

 

Many would call that "solution" you offered, as the definition of cheating though, which is why the penis size issue is such a big issue.

Most of society is mongamistic and possessive for both sexes. But at the same time this is why cheating rates are 60% likely to occur sometime in a relationship.

 

It would be interesting to know how many females actually know the length of their partners penis rather than just guessing ?
How many guys measure their penis the size of their penis.
I only measured the length of my erect penis late last year - had never bothered before.. Now if any one was to ask how long mine is when erect, I could easily show them in a novel sort of way that I wouldn't need to get it out.

 

Isn't cheating when one does it on the back, hidden from the partner? I'm talking about going after it together, for each other. My man can fuck, flirt and enjoy the company of any woman he pleases. He isn't cheating on me. I totally approve of it.

I think monogamy isn't natural, but a man made thing. Guys needed to know a child was theirs. If it isn't about procreation, but only sex, why should monogamy be important? But, look, I don't wanna offend you. I respect your right to think the complete opposite of me.