Penis Size Obsession

Yes the study was strictly concerning visual perceptions...

 

Though it isn't scientific, this pretty much supports what I have been reading on various forums over the years. Would be interesting to know if this is due to some natural instinct or societal conditioning from all the size talk and porn. I must say though, even though I'm straight, I find that watching larger penetrations in porn more stimulating than smaller or average. Is it natural or conditioned? I don't know. Guessing it could be some of both.

 

Visually, the big ones just give us more to look at.

:rofl: We usually make that decision before we have seen you naked!

 

No willy don't i wanna see it too badly

 

Why do you think companies make millions of dollars selling Viagra and Endurnz.

 

Could play some role. Like most things though, there are probably a lot of complexities involved. I don't think you have to worry though Willy. Your sense of humor and honesty are probably more attractive to a bigger lot of women than your penis size.

 

So men can maintain an erection longer or get the thing up to begin with. Or is this a trick question??

Viagra might be fun when it has been a long time between sex sessions with a couple and the woman is hornier than a horned lizard and the guy risks shooting his load right away. The guy can ejaculate early and the woman can keep pounding on him to her sexual content.

 

I wish men cared as much about keeping their shit clean rather than how big it is

 

Huh? Viagra has nothing at all to do with penis size. But it's true, "There's a sucker born every minute" -- P. T. Barnum.

 

It's much too difficult to keep shit clean.

 

With 44% of Americans foreskin amputated small wonder high Viagra sales.
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More thoughts on porn and penis size. Ever notice that it is very rare to see an African American dude with an average sized dong in porn? 9 times out of 10, they're noticeably bigger than their Caucasian counterparts and not infrequently, they are substantially larger.

This is nothing but another misrepresentation by the porn industry perpetuating the long thought notion that all black men have huge dongs. Obviously, some do! However, according to medical statistics, the penis of the average black man is only 1/2" longer and slightly girthier than his Caucasian counterpart. Length wise, that's about 6-6.5" long. A far cry from what we see in porn. A lot of those dudes are easily 8-9" long and some must be 10" or longer. Couple that with a very petite woman and it's spectacular looking. Not something the viewer easily forgets!

I'm guessing the porn industry cherry picks its black stars even more closely than it does the white guys, just to keep the "I want a big black dick" fantasy alive. Good for sales.

Remember to be careful with porn, folks. While it can be highly enjoyable in a sexual sense, it is like playing with fire. It can be emotionally dangerous in a number of ways. View it for the fantasy it is and nothing more.

 

The size of my penis has never bothered me, nothing I can do about it, but then I suppose I know it's not small.

But I've always wondered, where the hell is everyone measuring from? Bottom of the shaft but 'on top' near your stomach or way under? Because if it's on top then I reckon most blokes are kidding themselves and need to buy a new measuring tape if you compare it to porn star penises.

 

Good on you. But was he a shit shag?

I have to admit I myself was rather size obsessed as a late teenager. Only because my first boyfriend was just under 6 inches (but had a skinny dick too) and was a shit lay... when I started watching amatuer porn I realized I might be missing something?

When we broke up I started seeking out men with bigger penis', some gave me the desired results and some didn't, it turned into more about girth with me rather than length. But I did have some very memorable encounters with "average" size members. And one or two with less than average. I've never really had an "amazing, mind-blowing etc" shag with someone larger than usual, and I have been with someone who had a 8 and a half, possibly 9 inches penis. It just didn't do it for me.

Moral of the story lads, stop watching unrealistic porn and learn how to use what you've got.

 

If I'm remembering correctly, I have heard (or read) a woman or two say that size matters.

 

Size does matter. They'll be nice to the guy, but secretly depressed if he's hung like a AAA battery.

 

Yeah, makes sense...I know that butt/boob size matters so why not peepee size lol.

 

Yeah, a lot of girls feel that way. The amount of times girls will compare size of boyfriends penis' too are unreal. It's like a primal survival instinct in some girls - whoever has the boyfriend with a bigger dick wins. Shame most girls lie about their boyfriends member, my flatmate told me her boyfriend was 9 inches. Bless. I saw him drunk, naked and asleep on her bed when I walked in one morning to get something from her room. More like 9 / 2.

 

Yeah, "the bigger, the better" lol. Well almost. Bums, boobs, and peepees can be too big lol...

 

I'm a male with experience, haha
95% straight, 5% bi.
Yeah some say 1% bi is 100% gay.

Anyway, I'm so called average size and used to mildly obsess over size even though I never had any complaints.
The obsession over size in a male most likely is a leftover primal penis envy thing about wanting to be the bull in the pack.
The way I see it is, SEXY is what counts!
I've seen some UGLY big cocks and really sexy small ones.
No, not in my face.
I'm pretty much a nudist and have seen many.
Forget about your size, you can't do anything about it anyway.
Sexy is what matters.
Find out what your mate thinks is sexy.
:sunny:

 

Everyone is 100% Bi - the difference lies in where on the Gay / Straight part of the scale you fall. I'm about 75% Straight / 25% Gay, and have had sex with many other men, as well as with quite a few women. However, while I can enjoy physical intimacy with a man, I could only get romantically involved with a woman.

As I've been with quite a few men, I think I'm reasonably qualified to speak from experience on sizes, and can confirm that 5" - 6" is certainly the average size, usually with a girth slightly less than the length.

Personally I am slightly over average (although not by much) with 6½", and a girth of about the same, which makes it thicker than average, in proportion to length. Now, don't get me wrong - I'm not trying to brag here, by any means, as having an over average girth may be preferable for some women, it can cause pain for others, and it nearly always makes Anal penetration practically impossible.

My personal preference, when receiving anal is for my partner to have a penis that is of a slightly less than average girth.

As for the previous poster's remark that a few women have commented that size matters. Well, yes, that is true, but the vast majority have said the exact opposite.

The average penis is there, after all, to serve a practical function, designed by Nature to fit snugly into the average vagina. It's not intended to be used as a sexuality display item.