Penis Size Obsession

I haven't had that much experience with women and was insecure about this fact but have since gotten over it. I don't see sex as a competition and I make my girlfriend scream and quiver (she's easy to get off during sex) so who gives a fuck? As far as the penis size goes I'm a deliciously average 6 inches with moderate girth and have always been very secure with this fact. If I'm not big enough for a girl then she's wider than average, If I'm too big for a girl then she has a small vag .

 

Me and my schlort do just fine.

 

While I'm decidedly in the "how you use it" vs "size" camp and am more interested in libido and enthusiasm than carrying around a ruler, I thought I'd chime in. I dated a guy who was very small... like 2/2.5" hard... and he got super-sensitive "DON'T TOUCH IT ANYMORE!" really quickly. We never had sex... lol... ended up being a short relationship. No pun intended. We're still friends - he's living with a near asexual girl he isn't all that attracted to. They're compatible, I suppose. Meh.

Like anything related to sex, I'm sure we all have our "likes" "needs" and "must haves"... compatibility is king.

 

If you're worried about the size of your dick, then it really is too small.

 

Going back to the og, I too doubt a guy ever got told it's too small to have sex with after the foreplay started, but a lot of guys think when they get dumped "I bet she found a bigger dick".

the real interesting thing isn't the penis obsession, but are women really giving off the impression that they are this shallow to the men they have dated? or would men rather think, their loss of someone or lack of sex be b/c of something out of their control?

 

Although I doubt many women would be that sufficiently shallow to be that bothered by the size of their partner's penis , but I can easily understand how they could soon get fed up with him having a perpetual inferiority complex, regardless of whether his penis is actually above or below average, and that could understandably result in being the reason for dumping him.

 

I guess I am pretty average, possibly on the small size, you make your mind up, 6" on a really warm day with a very sexy woman.

I have a SE Asian girlfriend who has a real tight pussy and she is great, tries hard, likes to please, great looks/bod and sex. However, my ex-wife, a western woman, was a bit on the slack side, with big pussy lips and in some ways I preferred that slightly looser fit.

I also like to get it all the way in, which mean a nice big hole to shoot into, so I kinda feel sorry for these guys with long fat dicks, they are missing out.

Not sure whether it bothers the chicks, if you make them laugh and spend your money on them, they don't care.

Chill out guys and get stuck in.

 

Women are no different than men when it comes to anatomy. Some women have larger vaginas than others. Because of that and other factors, there will always be some women drawn to large penises. Though the percentage is probably fairly small, there are some who can't even get off without abnormally huge insertions, like a fist. Just take a gander on the fisting forum!

Regardless, the fact that some women prefer large penises is a fact men have to live with, like it or not. I'm average in length but was blessed with a girth requiring a Magnum XL condom. Sounds like a dream, doesn't it. Well, even then, if my wife could magically redesign my dick, it would have even more girth and be longer. There's no magic though so I'm just thankful I have what I have and am not sitting in a wheelchair. She still gets off on me and is happy.

For those with smaller than average penises, besides learning how to please a lady in other ways besides penile penetration, be a good person. Be nice. Be confident in this realm. No one can take away the genuine goodness of your being, and it will always be appreciated. A dick, regardless of size, can never define your true being.

 

Keep in mind too that most guys lie through their teeth on the size of their peckers. Take what you read and hear with a huge grain of salt. Few are totally honest even when hiding behind a screen.

I have also seen a lot of shit talk from women on the Net claiming this or that on the size of peckers they have experienced. Sure, it's easy for them to differentiate between "bigger" or "smaller" compared to the last but when it comes to actual measurements, how often do you really think women are going to say "don't mind me while I measure your dick"? More often than not, they are guessing on the size and unless their profession or hobby involves them in a lot of measurements in the size range of a dick, they are most likely wrong, grossly over estimating. All talkers want to talk about "big dicks" whether they have one or was poked by one. Only a small percentage of the population can some what accurately estimate measurements and even then, it can be very easy to be off by 1/4"-1/2". Proportionately speaking, a 1/4" in girth can make a bigger difference than you think!

Porn. For every guy that makes it, there are probably 10 that get the "sorry, you're too small" response. Very few guys in porn have "average" size dongs. The over whelming majority of guys in porn represent a small percentage of guys in reality. Factor in photo trickery too. A dude with even a slightly larger than average stick is going to look a lot bigger when mounting a smaller than average petite young woman. A black dude the size of a football player with a dong on the upper end of the scale looks spectacular entering a little white women. This is magnified with up close shots. Does the dude have a big schlong? Sure but camera angles and little women make him look colossal.

As a generalized rule, men are fibbing. Women are guessing, talking shit and fibbing. Porn is tricking. Believe nothing you hear/read and only half of what you see. Chin up guys.:afro: Being a good person will get you a lot further in life than having a dilly whacker deemed small in the Internet and porno world!

 

just eat her out and it wont matter the size as long as she cums!!!

 

I know a guy who Swore he had a small dick but when he showed me it was huge so size is relative I suppose

 

I had a girl I met we went out and had a good time. She asked me how big I was after a month or so I told her and she immediately got distant and stopped talking to me. She was quite experienced too haha but I found that oddly hot.

 

Size is nice, but attitude, personality, and technique are lots more important.

 

some men have penis 1 inch long. true

 

I have had a Micropenis since boyhood and puberty,an "inny to one inch flacid and two three inches erect including gynecomastia ever since I was 12.
As a life long Naturist as is the family,size is no biggie,pardon the pun,many males are short n smooth like I.
Our close cousin the Monkey also has a small penis and Monkeys are not listed on the extiction list as you know.
I have four birth'kids,one adopted,married 38 years enjoyed my sexuality to the fullist.
Its not the length but how you use it is what counts.
Enjoy and be proud of what you got,its your body,be safe.
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chubbiboi

 

Tongueing her clitoris can give her more pleasure and orgasms than poking her with your penis,especially if circumcised foreskin amputated.
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My respects for having the confidence to be open about something that should certainly have no stigma attached to it. You have clearly demonstrated that a healthy relationship should not lie in the physical attributes that can be offered, but more of the caring & understanding of personality.

As a Bi, I've been with men with a wide range of sizes, and quite frankly, I have always prefered the smaller ones. Being quite 'well endowed' (6½" x 6½"), I sometimes feel at a bit of a disadvantage, as I can cause discomfort when penetrating during Anal & Vaginal sex alike.

 

As one whose relative signed the Declaration of Independance,I thank my U.K. friend for his positive comments,enjoy life,play safe,its YOUR body,enjoy!

 

Actually, in university a friend and I did a double blind study where women were asked to rate the physical attractiveness of several nude males and some pics were repeated in the sequence only with photoshopped larger genitals and in every occasion but one the girls chose the larger endowed pic as more arousing and more attractive..........the subconcious is a funny thing!!!!!!!!!

 

It's possible I read this study if it was published. But this was just on visual appeal right?